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My husband Steve and I live in New York with our 3 children that God has blessed us with:) We have a great marriage!

  • If you could choose to change your spouse or change yourself for your spouse? Which would you choose?

    Which of these options would you choose to do and why? Which one would be more effective in your relationship and or marriage? If you would want to change your spouse what would you want to change and why and if you would want to change yourself to be a better spouse what would you change about yourself and why? I am looking for feedback on this as this should be a really interesting topic:) Do you feel it is more important to change the other person or change yourself first? Thanks in advance everyone.

    16 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Why is it the men usually commit suicide moreso then women?

    Ok this one puzzles me so i have to ask it... I have a friend who's ex husband just took his own life a couple of days ago ... I wont go into all the details but needless to say i feel this could have been handled differently and that he did not have to choose to end his own life the way he did. Why is it the men are more proned to commiting suicide then what women are? When you read the papers or hear the news it is usually the men that commit suicide and not women. I wonder why that is?

    7 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • What season is your marriage in?

    Are you hopeful in your marriage? Are you satisfied with how your marriage is? Do you feel there can be things that can be done in your marrige to improve on it and make it better? Are you distant from each other in your marriage and do you want to be closer to your spouse? Are you unsettled in your marriage? Whatever season you are in what do you think can be done to make your marriage a more successful and happier one? You who are satisfied and hopeful . What words of encouragement and help could you give to others that are hurting in their marriages? How can we help them feel more settled and not so distant from each other?

    Summer= satisfaction and security in yoru marriage

    Spring= Hopefulness and new beginnings for your marriage

    Winter= distance and difficulty in your marriage

    Fall= unwanted change, uncertainty and unsettledness in marriage.

    I feel this is a very interesting subject and question and can't wait to see feedback and answers on this one!

    11 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • A Valentines Day Question?

    Do you feel that Valentine's Day is a great and romantic holiday or do you feel it is a waste of time and money? Why do you feel this way? Are you the romantic type of person or are you not romantically inclined on this day?

    What is the most romantic thing you have ever done for your spouse or sweet heart on Valentine's Day and what is the most romantic thing they have done or gave to you? What is it that you would wish they would do for you or give to you on this day that is different then any other day?

    Happy Valentine's Day Everyone:) Hugs to you all. Hope you all have a great day!

    5 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • What do you think of Dr Phils. man camp show?

    i love watching this episode of his show... I think it is great and is helpful to both parties in the marriage. He does not sugar coat things and is honest with both. I cant wait to see what happens next week! Has anyone else been watching this and following it and what do you think about it? Do you feel it is helpful and informative? I love Dr. Phil and Robin. I want feed back on this and I want to see what you feel and why about it.

    9 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Passion or Romance????

    What is more important to you in a reltionship or marriage and why? What is the difference between passion and romance? If you had to choose between the two what would you choose and why? I want feedback and ideas on this. Should be quite interesting to say the least:) What lasts longer in a relationship between the two?

    17 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • What do you think of the show gay straight or taken????

    I kinda think it is neat and fun but boy it is hard.... I thought i could at least know what a gay person is like by manurisms and things but boy was i wrong lol.... I am glad I am married because if i had to do that to try and find a date i dont know how good i would be at it and if i could choose the right guy.... It is hard enough dating and being single but that makes it even harder lol.... It sure is an interesting show though... It comes on lifetime tv. Do you think this show is fun and would you want to try it if you were single and dating or would you think it was too hard?

    3 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Intimacy or Sex????

    What do you feel is more important in marriage and why? What is the difference between sex and intimacy in a relationship? Do you feel that intimacy lasts longer then sex or does sex last longer then intimacy..... I want to see input and feedback on this subject... Thanks in advance everyone:) What would you rather have more of in your marriage sex or intimacy?

    17 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Intimacy or sex????

    What do you feel is more important in marriage and why? What is the difference between sex and intimacy in a relationship? Do you feel that intimacy lasts longer then sex or does sex last longer then intimacy..... I want to see input and feedback on this subject... Thanks in advance everyone:) What would you rather have more of in your marriage sex or intimacy?

    4 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Which is easier in todays world getting married or getting divorced?

    I want to see answers on this and input... What is your answer and why do you feel that one is easier then the other? I personally feel that divorce is getting and is way to easy of an option now.... Marriage should be sacred and kept and divorce should not be an easy option... Looking forward to everyone's input and answers!

    8 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • I heard today that the law in states let someone divorce for not being happy?

    The other party does even not have to sign... You can just get a no fault divorce and you dont even have to reason for it! I think this sucks ... Why even marry if you can get divorced this easy. What do you think of this? Do you think this is fair or right? I want input and responses to this? What is this world coming to? Do vows mean anything anymore? Why even get married if you do not plan on staying married or working at it. To me why even waste the time to get married if you can get divorced and out of it that easy. I want to hear your opinions on this one. What do you think and feel about this and why? I feel the only reasons the other party or person have to sign it is in cases of abandonment or cases of severe abuse.

    4 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • I heard today that the law in states let someone divorce for not being happy?

    The other party does even not have to sign... You can just get a no fault divorce and you dont even have to reason for it! I think this sucks ... Why even marry if you can get divorced this easy. What do you think of this? Do you think this is fair or right? I want input and responses to this? What is this world coming to? Do vows mean anything anymore? Why even get married if you do not plan on staying married or working at it. To me why even waste the time to get married if you can get divorced and out of it that easy. I want to hear your opinions on this one. What do you think and feel about this and why?

    2 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Has anyone had a spouse leave and abandoned them and the marriage?

    Home many people here have been abandoned by a spouse that they have loved.... Did this really hurt and upset you and your life? What did you do about it and did the spouse that left you ever come back or want to be back with you? How long did it take you to realise that they were never coming back to you? Did you divorce over this? If so how long did it take you to do so?

    10 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • When it comes to your marriage do you find it easier to forgive the other person or to forgive yourself?

    When you make mistakes or they make mistakes do you feel it is easier for you to forgive the other person or is it easier to forgive yourself and ask them for forgiveness? I know we are not perfect but i would like to see feedback on this. Also do you feel it is important to forgive the other person and to ask for forgivenss... Why or why not? Do you feel better when you forgive and does it help heal you and your marriage when you do so?

    15 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Have you ever cheated on your spouse and why? Did you quit the affair and work it out with your spouse?

    I want success stories .... Ones that worked on the marriage afterwards and made it work.... Did your spouse forgive you or did you ruin the marriage and now wish you never did it to begin with?

    11 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • What hard times have brought you clost to your spouse???? Or has it made you farther apart?

    Okay let me clarify this question .... Has adversaries and hard times brought you closer to or farther apart from your spouse and why? I would like top see stories and answers to this and reasons why you chose to get close or seperate because of them. I know that my husband and I have gotten closer through alot of storms and hard times that we have had... We have had our house flooded and lost alot of things but have drawn closer to each other and to God through it all and God has blessed us and our marriage for it!

    6 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Do you feel you can tell your spouse everything and be open and honest? Do you feel you have to keep secret?s?

    I want honest and open opinions on this matter! I would love to see the response on this one!

    8 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • What are some of the best marriage and relationship Books out there?

    I have and recommend the Power of a Praying wife or the Power Of The Praying Husband book by Stormie Omartian but i would like to know what other ones are out there and are just as good and helpfuo for married people or relationships too. I want to expand my library:) Looking forward to all the helpful answers and resources. Thanks in advance everyone!

    4 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Do you feel you have a steady and Rock Solid Marriage?

    If so how are you making it successful and this way? What have you done in the past to bring it to this point. Has it always been this way or have you had problems in the past and worked through them to get past them and now have a better marriage for it? Do you wish you had a Rock Solid marriage if you are currently having problems? What would you do to improve or make your marriage to your current spouse a better one?

    8 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago