• Husband-to-be cheating...how do i confront him?

    It would mean the world if you can help me out here. I recently posted another question, regarding my engagement status. I have been with someone for a very long time, and he's been nothing but great to me. We both based our relationship on honesty and trust. Once, we were talking about our relationships in the past, and even though I told him I... show more
    It would mean the world if you can help me out here. I recently posted another question, regarding my engagement status. I have been with someone for a very long time, and he's been nothing but great to me. We both based our relationship on honesty and trust. Once, we were talking about our relationships in the past, and even though I told him I had been with several guys before him, he told me that I was the FIRST woman he'd ever fallen in love with and gotten into a serious relationship with. (NOTE: THIS IS A VERY IMPORTANT PART OF MY STORY) He denied ever being in a relationship with a woman. This made me admire him even more. Since we live together, we were planning our wedding schedules and all the dates and numbers. For a few months he was coming home late. Blaming his work. Sometimes he said he was at a friends house and etc. I kind of got suspicious for whatever reason. For a few weeks, I asked him to stay more at home and help with the wedding arrangements. He agreed. One night, he was taking a shower, and his computer was on Facebook. He told me he'd take a quick shower, then get dressed to take me out on a dinner date on our anniversary. As he was away, I heard a msg pop in his browser. I ignored it as it was none of my business. But several messages kept coming and made me wonder if someone really wanted to talk to him. It was a woman, I had never met or heard of, and she was begging him to take her back and that she would promise to be better than me (his fiancee). It was a little shocking. I am not a person to invade privacies, but this was outrageous. In a moment of emotional rush, I checked his message history. I couldn't believe my eyes. He had been with, at least 20 girls in the past, and I'm talking about serious relationships. There were flirtatious messages he had sent to girls he did not know. And there were extremely dirty messages involved. When my fiance came out of the shower i told him I had a very bad headache and we stayed indoors. The thing is, I couldn't care less if he had been with a thousand girls if he told me the truth from the beginning. He told me I was the first woman involved in his life... to find out there were at least a dozen more women in his life and that he lied about them...just broke my heart, considering that my BEST friend from childhood was one of these random girls he'd sent messages to. I need to talk to him and confront him about lying to me. AGAIN I wouldnt care about the girlfriends if he had come clean from the beginning. I'm not sure how to confront him... would you please help me out? Im outraged and disappointed in him :( Thanks everyone
    11 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 7 years ago
  • My relationship is at stake...help please?

    I know this is long, but PLEASE, read on and if you can, help me find a solution to my situation: I've known my finace for five years and we've been nothing but great together. This summer, he proposed and I said yes. When I broke the news to my family, they were overjoyed with happiness. My mother absolutely loved him and my whole family... show more
    I know this is long, but PLEASE, read on and if you can, help me find a solution to my situation: I've known my finace for five years and we've been nothing but great together. This summer, he proposed and I said yes. When I broke the news to my family, they were overjoyed with happiness. My mother absolutely loved him and my whole family fell all over him. I live in a half persian family, and the persian side REALLY do get involved in relationships. While my dad's side of the family only congratulated me and asked me to give them the date of the wedding, my mother's side handled things a little differently. My mother and my grandmother took me and my fiance to a jeweler and tried to force their opinions on us on getting the rings they liked best. They began to change the date of the wedding and the guest list and etc.. After confronting them that I would like to have a wedding of my taste and invite my own guests and do things my way, they changed attitudes. They began spreading rumors about my fiance, and by this i mean accusing him of doing things he's never heard of in his 34 years of life. They objected to our age difference, ten years, and suddenly the guy they had fallen in love with turned into a monster who was taking me away forever. I have never lived long with my Persian relatives, but they love gossip and meddling in affairs that are none of their concerns. I am very outraged. They have been rude to my fiance's parents, they have talked behind their backs to mutual friends and are literally ruining my relationship with him. Each day, a relative comes to me and gives me idiotic reasons as to not marry this guy. I know that I can get married to him whether they like it or not, but i really want peace with my mother's side of the family and my future husband and in laws. Unfortunately, my parents are separated and I can't convince my father to advise my mother to stay back. And appearntly, no one listens to or cares how I feel about this stupid situation. All I know is that, as of now, me and my fiance are having arguments because of my mother's side of the family and my relatives (mother's side) are extremely pissed at me because they expect me to listen to my mother. Would anyone please share how they feel about this situation? And how they would react to my situation?
    8 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 7 years ago
  • Yahoo messenger acting silly?

    I recently updated my computer and now my Yahoo! Messenger is acting weird. Example: When send a message to one of my contacts, I can't see what I've typed. I can see any messages sent to me but can't see my own. Can you guys help me?
    I recently updated my computer and now my Yahoo! Messenger is acting weird. Example: When send a message to one of my contacts, I can't see what I've typed. I can see any messages sent to me but can't see my own. Can you guys help me?
    1 answer · Other - Yahoo Messenger · 8 years ago
  • Do u want 10 points? Help me select a song?

    I need to find a song that can be sung at a wedding. I don't want it to be too mellow and slow, like an upbeat cool song that kinda relates to a wedding and is fun. Can anyone help me out?? I will be more than happy to give ten points.
    I need to find a song that can be sung at a wedding. I don't want it to be too mellow and slow, like an upbeat cool song that kinda relates to a wedding and is fun. Can anyone help me out?? I will be more than happy to give ten points.
    5 answers · Other - Music · 8 years ago
  • Has anyone seen Adam Lambert's.....?

    I just saw "Why are you filming me". Something about Adam Lambert's parody: Key of awesome. What's the name of the dude singing? Has he sing anything else? He seems REALLY funnny. Thanks all and have a great day.
    I just saw "Why are you filming me". Something about Adam Lambert's parody: Key of awesome. What's the name of the dude singing? Has he sing anything else? He seems REALLY funnny. Thanks all and have a great day.
    1 answer · Celebrities · 8 years ago
  • Know any special good songs?

    I'm looking for things like "Rude Boy", "Rise", "Jai Ho". Something to practice a Hip-Hop routine with. Also, songs like "I See You", "Shakespeare in love" and "In My Arms" Thnx
    I'm looking for things like "Rude Boy", "Rise", "Jai Ho". Something to practice a Hip-Hop routine with. Also, songs like "I See You", "Shakespeare in love" and "In My Arms" Thnx
    3 answers · Other - Music · 8 years ago
  • My iPod's...dead? Help?

    I hadn't used my iPod for about a month and last night when I tried to charge it's battery via the USB port attached to my computer, the screen was completely blank for a couple of hours. Then a message popped saying "Please Wait. Very Low Battery" I've never received that message before, and even though I didn't... show more
    I hadn't used my iPod for about a month and last night when I tried to charge it's battery via the USB port attached to my computer, the screen was completely blank for a couple of hours. Then a message popped saying "Please Wait. Very Low Battery" I've never received that message before, and even though I didn't disconnect my iPod, after 12 hours, it still has that message on its screen. I have no idea what to do. I plugged it in and out a couple of times but still, no change. Is the battery kinda dead?
    4 answers · Music & Music Players · 9 years ago
  • Smallville. Clark and Lana.... Does it get more annoying?!?!?

    I know, I'm a little behind on the series (I'm season 2), but it's becoming immensely annoying! Every time Clark tries to express his feelings for Lana, there's always something to ruin the spark between them. Either it's Chloe, or it's a date ruined by weird accidents...etc. etc. I know Clark's going to be with Louis... show more
    I know, I'm a little behind on the series (I'm season 2), but it's becoming immensely annoying! Every time Clark tries to express his feelings for Lana, there's always something to ruin the spark between them. Either it's Chloe, or it's a date ruined by weird accidents...etc. etc. I know Clark's going to be with Louis Lane in the future, but before that, is he finally going to get together with Lana? Or at least tell her how he feels about her? Tell her his secrets?
    2 answers · Drama · 9 years ago
  • Most beautiful classical actresses?

    How many do you know?
    How many do you know?
    10 answers · Celebrities · 9 years ago
  • Most beautiful classical actresses?

    How many can you name?
    How many can you name?
    1 answer · Celebrities · 9 years ago
  • What are some great family movies?

    Movies like Cheaper By The Dozen, Father Of The Bride, Beethoven,....
    Movies like Cheaper By The Dozen, Father Of The Bride, Beethoven,....
    9 answers · Movies · 9 years ago
  • Adam Lamber FANS.......?

    Where's the best place to get his music videos for free? PLUS any interviews or fun facts? BTW. What was your favorite American Idol performance (by Adam)?
    Where's the best place to get his music videos for free? PLUS any interviews or fun facts? BTW. What was your favorite American Idol performance (by Adam)?
    4 answers · Celebrities · 9 years ago
  • TV SHOW: HEORES. It's about Clair and Peter, do you know it?

    I'm currently watching episode 3 season 4. Remember the time when Clair confessed she loved Peter when she was about to shoot him (In the future--season 3)? Does anything romantic happen to Clair and Pete? Very curious. They've a;lways had this close friendship and trust, but is anything new going to happen?
    I'm currently watching episode 3 season 4. Remember the time when Clair confessed she loved Peter when she was about to shoot him (In the future--season 3)? Does anything romantic happen to Clair and Pete? Very curious. They've a;lways had this close friendship and trust, but is anything new going to happen?
    5 answers · Drama · 9 years ago
  • What are some good magical movies?

    I'm looking for something like Practical Magic. Anything fun.
    I'm looking for something like Practical Magic. Anything fun.
    8 answers · Movies · 9 years ago
  • If you could listen to FIVE song from MJ, right now, what would they be?

    What would be your top five MJ songs? I know you love ALL his songs, I just want to know what's on your top five MJ songs RIGHT NOW. Just come up with the first thing that hits your head. I've got: Heal The World Earth Song We're Almost There Billie Jean Smooth Criminal
    What would be your top five MJ songs? I know you love ALL his songs, I just want to know what's on your top five MJ songs RIGHT NOW. Just come up with the first thing that hits your head. I've got: Heal The World Earth Song We're Almost There Billie Jean Smooth Criminal
    8 answers · Celebrities · 9 years ago
  • How would you make them fall in love?

    There's a time in a book when two characters realize they're in love. How would you write it? Imagine it's about a quiet, myterious shy guy who's all love and fun from the inside and our girl, the first role, first greets him as a studying partner and later becomes a friend. What now? They both need to enter a phase, a new chapter.... show more
    There's a time in a book when two characters realize they're in love. How would you write it? Imagine it's about a quiet, myterious shy guy who's all love and fun from the inside and our girl, the first role, first greets him as a studying partner and later becomes a friend. What now? They both need to enter a phase, a new chapter. How would you write that? Feel free to extend your imagination and use it well. The fate of two imginary characters lays upon your hands.
    1 answer · Other - Family & Relationships · 9 years ago
  • What are this years best music hits?

    What were your favorite music hits this year? From which artists? Thanks
    What were your favorite music hits this year? From which artists? Thanks
    1 answer · Other - Music · 9 years ago
  • Finger scan issue with Nokia 5800. Can you please help me?

    So I downloaded this software for my mobile (nokia 5800 Xpress Music) and it scans your finger to unlock the screen lock. I installed it with my PC suit, thought once installed, I don't know how to activate it. Could you please help me? It's urgent. 10 points promised. :)
    So I downloaded this software for my mobile (nokia 5800 Xpress Music) and it scans your finger to unlock the screen lock. I installed it with my PC suit, thought once installed, I don't know how to activate it. Could you please help me? It's urgent. 10 points promised. :)
    1 answer · Software · 9 years ago
  • What is Criss Angels new show about?

    I'm not that up to date with his new shows and stuff so I was wondering, does anyone know what his new show, "Phenomenon" is all about? Is Mindfreak going to end? Thanks.
    I'm not that up to date with his new shows and stuff so I was wondering, does anyone know what his new show, "Phenomenon" is all about? Is Mindfreak going to end? Thanks.
    2 answers · Reality Television · 9 years ago
  • Criss angel, where can I find his biography?

    I know about IMDB, but I need some kind of info for an article and I need a good website for his bioraphy. Let me know if there's a book on it, or anything. This is REALLY important. 10 points promised.
    I know about IMDB, but I need some kind of info for an article and I need a good website for his bioraphy. Let me know if there's a book on it, or anything. This is REALLY important. 10 points promised.
    2 answers · Celebrities · 9 years ago