I had this friend since 2010 and just last year we started becoming really close. We would hang out all the time, talk about each other lives, tell each secrets, and so on. However, they started talking about themselves nonstop and they would say the same stuff over and over again. It would irritate me. And they would distract me from studies to keep talking about the same damn thing over again. Then they started taking advantage of my kindness. Also, they were not very considerate of me. For instance, I had texted them if they would like to go to Barnes and Noble to read and they said sure, so I went to pick them up since they didn't have a car. It was about a 5 mile drive to the bookstore and when we got there, they're like "oh, I'm suppose to be somewhere in 20 mins." Therefore, I had to waste my gas and time to drive them back home. Another example is that they would ask favor after favor.
I would talk to them about how they repeated stuff, but they continue their bad habit...
But after awhile, I couldn't stand how they took advantage of me and would waste my time, so I slowly drifted from them. The last time we hung out was New Years, but every time I see them I have this very uncomfortable feeling. It's like I don't want to be around them or even say hi to them. The other day I ran into them in library and I just felt so weird and uneasy. I don't considered them to be a bad person, but I just don't want to be around them.
Have you ever pushed away someone who took advantage of you?
Also, do you have an uneasy and uncomfortable feeling when you see them or talk to them?