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  • Sex life is flatlined?

    ok, year 1, sex was great, frequent, passionate, the whole deal. year 2 she was pregnant, sex was good when it happened, not often, understandable, hormones and whatnot. year 3, still some lingering post partum issues, but slowly getting better, approaching year 4, we have hit a wall. nothing. when 3 months go by and I finally convince her to do it, it's no fun, missionary only, no lights, her shirt might come off(rarely) bra definetly won't, no foreplay, and two minutes in she will tell me to hurry up. I have been asking for a year and a half what I can do to make this better, I get no answer. so after voicing my dissatisfaction for some time, she says after sex last time ,all three minutes of it (didn't even finish), if I am happy with our sex life. being in the moment I said "not even close". I realize it was not the best wording, but I was at an apex of frustration. that was a week ago, nothing has been done at all to better the situation. I am about at my breaking point, after 24 plus months of below par sex, I'm thinking of cheating or leaving. someone want to talk me off the ledge?

    4 AnswersMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • Good brands of men's jeans?

    i need some new jeans. I have a few pair of express and a pair or rerock from express. I'm looking to get rid of my American eagles and old navy's for a minor upgrade. what are some brands I can look at for around 100 a pair? I need boot cut and something a bit durable. thanks in advance.

    5 AnswersFashion & Accessories9 years ago
  • Online college credits?

    if I take 12 credit hours of online classes, how many hours (generally speaking) should I expect to devote to computer time per week?

    sorry if it's a dumb question, I'm almost 30 and never gone to college.

  • I need an electronic device to convert a fiber optic audio signal to an RCA ?

    it is for car audio so it needs to be a 12v device. if anyone can help I would appreciate it.

    3 AnswersOther - Electronics9 years ago
  • Jamaican vacation question?

    I would like to take my girlfriend on vacation to jamaica or somewhere in the surrounding area. I am looking for a place that has cottages on the beach rather than a hotel room. however she will still like all the amenities of a hotel, such as, a spa, nightclub, gym, and possibly all inclusive. a swim up bar would be nice too. If anyone has any suggestions I would appreciate it.

    9 AnswersJamaica10 years ago
  • What if your bf always wants sex?

    I know that girls like to do other things, as do I, but my gf has a job and goes to school, and just a very busy person. so the one night out of every two weeks we see each other I always want to have sex. and to be honest I go right for it because she always falls asleep if I try to wait til after the movie or whatever we are doin. so basically, do I come off as an asshole or does she understand that if I miss one opportunity it's two more weeks?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Is she scared to orgasm?

    whenever I go down on my gf she will suddenly jerk her hips like it feels good but then demand that we stop with foreplay and get to the sex. then while having sex (sometimes for twenty minutes or more) she will not seem to have the same kind of reaction as when I go down on her and even when she does seem to get worked up she will ask to change positions or say she has a cramp. and she will not do any of the telltale signs of having an orgasm. so basically I think that she has been avoiding letting me give her an orgasm just so that she can fake it. when I ask she says that she is not faking, I don't want to keep asking but I'm pretty sure I'm right. so my question is why would she be scared to orgasm?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Is she scared to orgasm?

    whenever I go down on my gf she will suddenly jerk her hips like it feels good but then demand that we stop with foreplay and get to the sex. then while having sex (sometimes for twenty minutes or more) she will not seem to have the same kind of reaction as when I go down on her and even when she does seem to get worked up she will ask to change positions or say she has a cramp. and she will not do any of the telltale signs of having an orgasm. so basically I think that she has been avoiding letting me give her an orgasm just so that she can fake it. when I ask she says that she is not faking, I don't want to keep asking but I'm pretty sure I'm right. so my question is why would she be scared to orgasm?

    3 AnswersWomen's Health10 years ago
  • Any ladies want to describe their ultimate fantasy?

    just looking for ideas to spice it up a lil

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Ok ladies, where do you want it?

    a guy comes on your face? my gf does (on occasion) and I was just wondering if that was unusual. if that's not your thing where would you prefer it to land?

    3 AnswersPolls & Surveys10 years ago
  • Why do girls like this?

    I have seen and heard about women checking out a guys a$$. I don't understand why this is an appealing feature. guys like girls a$$es cause we get to see it in few positions and it makes us think of sex. unless you are using mirrors a girl can't see a guy in that way. so why is a nice a$$ sexy on a guy?

    7 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Why won't my gf try anal?

    I bought the strap-on, the lube, everything. jk. no really, besides the pain issue what else would deter a woman from at least trying it?

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Who is going to beat the phillies?

    does anyone think that another team even has a chance at the world series?

    4 AnswersBaseball10 years ago
  • How to pick lingerie for my gf?

    she hasn't worn it for me before so I don't know what her taste is. she is very much into fashion and dressing up to go out even if its only to the grocery store. also size may be difficult. she is a 34D but only 5'3" 105 lbs. like size 2 jeans. everything I have seen is sized by sm med lg so I worry if it fits up top it won't on bottom and vice versa. any tips?

    4 AnswersFashion & Accessories10 years ago
  • Okay, you guys told me lingerie is good for vday?

    now I want to know what kind I should buy. it's my first time buying lingerie altogether and obviously first time for her. I want to get something hot but I don't want it to be too slutty and offend her. there are so many variations, is crotchless panties good or too slutty, should I go for a themed outfit like a schoolgirl or just a regular "babydoll" or a corset w a garter? I want to send the message that I love her body, would love to spice up the bedroom activities but I don't see her as a sex object. haha maybe I'm trying to say too much with one gift. lol. any suggestions would be appreciated.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Poll for the ladies. ?

    would you want your bf or husband to get you lingerie for valentines day? why or why not

    8 AnswersPolls & Surveys10 years ago
  • How to get my friend to get out of a toxic relationship?

    my best friend has been with a woman for ten years dating back to teenage years. they have two kids together which is why he is determined to stay with her. the problem is about every six months to a year he catches her cheating. he always takes her back after a few weeks of drama and a fake apology. it has gotten to the point now where she doesn't even fear getting caught, this last time she barely even hid it from him, when he started to catch on she just said she needed a break and had her fling. now he is still stuck on her while she is openly with this other guy. she will makes comments to him every few days that give him a glimmer of hope that she will come back just so she can keep her options open. how do I convince him he would be better off without her?

    6 AnswersMarriage & Divorce10 years ago
  • Poll for the ladies. ?

    would you want your bf or husband to get you lingerie for valentines day? why or why not

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • How to pick lingerie for my gf?

    we are celebrating valentines day on Saturday because she has to go to class tonight so I am going out one day this week to pick up some lingerie but idk the first thing. should I be going to victoria's secret or somewhere else? I know her bra size but do I need any more info? and how do I know what style to pick? any info would help.

    8 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago