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  • CanI learn to trust again? How?

    My fiance was 'caught' dropping an employye's wife off. The thing is when her husband called she lied as where she was and with whom. If it was all innocent, why lie?

    After this, I insisted on no contact. Two days before New Years, a text came in on his phone- that I had- 'hi honey. you were trying to call me. call me now.'

    Since it did not have a name to the number, I called and asked him. He said he didn't know. I called the number the person said 'hello' I asked who it was and the person hung up. I recognised the voice so I called her husband and he confirmed that that was her new number.

    My now fiance is insisting that nothing has happened between them. I am trying to just put it all behind me. But I don't know how. I don't trust him. I need to know where he is all the time. It is making him frustrated, and me even more so.

    I have a four month old son, we are in the process of finding land for building a home, etc. What do I do???

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