• UD, taken to court, paid, not evicted, still UD on record. Anything I can do about this?

    I had a roommate the time, this is all her fault really. She was out of work and couldn't pay, so we get taken to court. owed like 1,000. I payed half that day and the rest was payed with a payment plan and we were NOT evicted. This is still a UD on my record. Am I missing something here? Is there ANY way I can get this off of my... show more
    I had a roommate the time, this is all her fault really. She was out of work and couldn't pay, so we get taken to court. owed like 1,000. I payed half that day and the rest was payed with a payment plan and we were NOT evicted. This is still a UD on my record. Am I missing something here? Is there ANY way I can get this off of my record? Thanks for your help.
    6 answers · Renting & Real Estate · 6 years ago
  • Thinking of starting a new 2 yr contract with sprint....how much will i pay out of pocket?

    phone will cost 99.00 with new 2 year contract, are they going to charge me for other things? how much will i pay out of pocket??
    phone will cost 99.00 with new 2 year contract, are they going to charge me for other things? how much will i pay out of pocket??
    3 answers · Cell Phones & Plans · 6 years ago
  • Will this ultimately ruin our friendship?

    Hi. One of my closest friends is also my roommate, we've been roommates for 4 years. Over that time we have evolved to become best friends, almost like sisters. Partially due to the close proximity, and partially because we are opposites but found that to be what makes us compatible. We've had various issues that friends/roommates are... show more
    Hi. One of my closest friends is also my roommate, we've been roommates for 4 years. Over that time we have evolved to become best friends, almost like sisters. Partially due to the close proximity, and partially because we are opposites but found that to be what makes us compatible. We've had various issues that friends/roommates are expected to have and we've managed to get through them. We just moved into a new place together last month in fact. Here's what happened: She found a notebook that used to be my journal and she basically found the mother-load. All of my venting and ranting and complaining about her, all in one place, and she read it. I guess whether or not she was snooping through my stuff is besides the point, even though she claims she wasn't but I know that she was. The point is, she feels awful about what she read and she was crying and she told me she read it and I can't even say sorry about it because they were my own private thoughts and feelings that no one was supposed to see and they were true at the time. She basically feels a huge betrayal and I tried to explain to her (and she already knows) that I'm very paranoid and usually think the worst case scenario is the true one and I bottle things up and keep things to myself. Sometimes I get them out by journaling. This is they way we are opposites. Me:introvert, she: extrovert. I still don't know all of what she read, she just told me about it this morning. But I'm sure it can't be good. In fact, every nasty thing I've ever thought about her and chose to keep to myself, she probably now knows. Do you think we can still be friends after this? Or will she always hold this against me even though she might not admit it. How can I fix or help the situation?? She claims to forgive me but she's so shocked about what she read...she said she thought I was the one person who didn't judge her or think awful things about her. Am I crazy? I feel like we all hate things about our friends and choose not to tell them certain things to spare their feelings/spare our own sanity.
    1 answer · Friends · 7 years ago
  • Geography, English, Film?? Can't decide on career path much less a major.?

    I wrote down the things I am most interested in to pursue a career in... I don't know what I prefer of these...I know i can choose one as a major and a minor in another and I could integrate 2 of the 3.. I guess my question is...how are ways i can tell what it is I REALLY want to do so i cn actually go forth and start in that direction??
    I wrote down the things I am most interested in to pursue a career in... I don't know what I prefer of these...I know i can choose one as a major and a minor in another and I could integrate 2 of the 3.. I guess my question is...how are ways i can tell what it is I REALLY want to do so i cn actually go forth and start in that direction??
    1 answer · Higher Education (University +) · 7 years ago
  • How do you get out of a mental rut?

    I feel like I keep making the same mistakes over and over again and the only thing thats holding me back is my own mind. I keep psyching myself out and accomplishing nothing. It's easy to say just snap out of it but if it was that easy I wouldn't be on here.
    I feel like I keep making the same mistakes over and over again and the only thing thats holding me back is my own mind. I keep psyching myself out and accomplishing nothing. It's easy to say just snap out of it but if it was that easy I wouldn't be on here.
    1 answer · Psychology · 7 years ago
  • (asking for a friend) What does it mean if I have a rape fantasy, but was raped when I was younger?

    This isn't a joke and I'm really asking for a friend, not myself. My friend was raped when she was 11 and after that she became promiscuous. Now she's 24 and has had 'normal' sexual relationships with her boyfriends in her adult life. But, her sexual fantasy is rape. she want to know what this means from like a psychological... show more
    This isn't a joke and I'm really asking for a friend, not myself. My friend was raped when she was 11 and after that she became promiscuous. Now she's 24 and has had 'normal' sexual relationships with her boyfriends in her adult life. But, her sexual fantasy is rape. she want to know what this means from like a psychological perspective. Thanks for helping.
    4 answers · Psychology · 7 years ago
  • What is the best documentary about stand-up comedy?

    I think Believe by Eddie Izzard is extraordinary...what are some other ones I should watch?
    I think Believe by Eddie Izzard is extraordinary...what are some other ones I should watch?
    1 answer · Comedy · 7 years ago
  • What is the best documentary about stand-up comedy?

    I think Believe by Eddie izzard is quite amazing... What are some other good ones to watch?
    I think Believe by Eddie izzard is quite amazing... What are some other good ones to watch?
    1 answer · Polls & Surveys · 7 years ago
  • Can someone please elaborate on this Marcus Aurelius quote?

    "The secret of all victory lies in the organization of the non-obvious" I'm a little confuzzled by what he means
    "The secret of all victory lies in the organization of the non-obvious" I'm a little confuzzled by what he means
    5 answers · Quotations · 7 years ago
  • Should I just give up and get gastric bypass?

    Here is the deal. I am the ONLY female I know who was overweight that HASN'T gotten gastric bypass surgery. I used to know a lot of fat broads but now they're all skinny... it's annoying because they act like I shouldn't whine about being fat anymore and just "get the surgery". Even though we all used to whine about it... show more
    Here is the deal. I am the ONLY female I know who was overweight that HASN'T gotten gastric bypass surgery. I used to know a lot of fat broads but now they're all skinny... it's annoying because they act like I shouldn't whine about being fat anymore and just "get the surgery". Even though we all used to whine about it together. Here's my problem with the surgery: 1) I think it's lazy and it doesn't actually help with your issues. 2) everyone I know who has gotten the surgery still eat for the same reasons, still only eat crap, get drunk all the time, don't take care of themselves at all. They just have a superiority complex now because they're all smaller. 3) I've been fat since 3rd grade, obese since middle school. I'm 23 now. I seem to have a much bigger issue about "doing it myself", overcoming my own issues, learning to live a healthy lifestyle, basically not giving away my victories than all these other women have. And I know, the argument is so what, at least you won't be fat anymore. But I feel like it's kind of shameful that the only way you could achieve this is to have most of your stomach cut out. Everyday it's a struggle to make the right choices and most days I feel like it's all too overwhelming and hard. Year after year go by and I haven't been able to change. Then I start thinking... Maybe I should just gt gastric. Any advice for me? What are your thoughts? Please no idiots who will just say something mean and pointless.
    3 answers · Diet & Fitness · 7 years ago
  • What do I need to do to move to London? ?

    23, no passport, plan on getting into school or just start working over there. What do I need to do? Can I even do what I just described? I dont know. Just tell me so I can do it lol. I've always wanted to live there and want to work in the industy there.
    23, no passport, plan on getting into school or just start working over there. What do I need to do? Can I even do what I just described? I dont know. Just tell me so I can do it lol. I've always wanted to live there and want to work in the industy there.
    6 answers · London · 7 years ago
  • How do you know what your passion is? ?

    It's kind of a rhetorical question but I'm seeking answers now. They say you should follow your passion and do what your passionate about etc like, as a career but I have varied interests and I seem to be on a cycle of what I'm passionate about: FILM, then MUSIC, then COMEDY. I dont think I'm talented enough to be the next Spinal Tap... show more
    It's kind of a rhetorical question but I'm seeking answers now. They say you should follow your passion and do what your passionate about etc like, as a career but I have varied interests and I seem to be on a cycle of what I'm passionate about: FILM, then MUSIC, then COMEDY. I dont think I'm talented enough to be the next Spinal Tap so what can I do that involves all those elements? Or do I just do one, then the other, whatever comes first? Yea, I'm confused. I know I want to do something in the entertainment industry on the creative end. And that's all I know. Because I keep switching my focus.
    6 answers · Philosophy · 7 years ago
  • Who are your favorite stand up comedians?

    My favs: Current working: Mike Birbiglia Louis CK Jim Gaffigan Patton Oswalt Kevin Hart Stephen Merchant Joe derosa Joe klocek All Time: Eddie Izzard Louis CK Chris Rock Bill Hicks Bob Newhart Sean Hughes Steve Martin George Carlin Who are yours?
    My favs: Current working: Mike Birbiglia Louis CK Jim Gaffigan Patton Oswalt Kevin Hart Stephen Merchant Joe derosa Joe klocek All Time: Eddie Izzard Louis CK Chris Rock Bill Hicks Bob Newhart Sean Hughes Steve Martin George Carlin Who are yours?
    5 answers · Polls & Surveys · 7 years ago
  • How sexy is Stephen Merchant? ?

    I'm bored, so can Smerch get some love in here?
    I'm bored, so can Smerch get some love in here?
    1 answer · Comedy · 7 years ago
  • What are the best British sitcoms? ?

    I'm in the process of educating myself on British comedy (I'm American) Yes, my way in was The Office and Extras (brilliant shows) but they made me realize that there's a whole world of comedy that I've been unaware of. I loved Saxondale as well. So my question is, what are the best British sitcoms of now, 90's, 80's,... show more
    I'm in the process of educating myself on British comedy (I'm American) Yes, my way in was The Office and Extras (brilliant shows) but they made me realize that there's a whole world of comedy that I've been unaware of. I loved Saxondale as well. So my question is, what are the best British sitcoms of now, 90's, 80's, 70's of ever? For instance, I really want to watch Citizen Smith, Alan Partridge... Fawlty Towers etc C'mon people, educate me! Tell me what I should know!
    3 answers · Comedy · 7 years ago
  • Start film school or get a job in film production? ?

    I'm 23... Option A: Go back to school and start film degree... Option B: Move to LA and start at bottom of ladder in film production Option C: Stay here (MN) get 2 year associate degree in film production from community college and see what I can do with that Option D: you choose. Help Me! Backstory: I want to be a film director. I... show more
    I'm 23... Option A: Go back to school and start film degree... Option B: Move to LA and start at bottom of ladder in film production Option C: Stay here (MN) get 2 year associate degree in film production from community college and see what I can do with that Option D: you choose. Help Me! Backstory: I want to be a film director. I went to CC for a year after High school but I had 2 jobs and and had school full time, it all exploded. Now I'm 23 and I don't know if it's worth the time to go back to school or just get a job in film and start climbing the ladder. Help me please.... I can't choose which way to go.
    3 answers · Movies · 7 years ago
  • Start film school or get a job in film production? ?

    I'm 23... Option A: Go back to school and start film degree... Option B: Move to LA and start at bottom of ladder in film production Option C: Stay here (MN) get 2 year associate degree in film production from community college and see what I can do with that Option D: you choose. Help Me! Backstory: I want to be a film director. I... show more
    I'm 23... Option A: Go back to school and start film degree... Option B: Move to LA and start at bottom of ladder in film production Option C: Stay here (MN) get 2 year associate degree in film production from community college and see what I can do with that Option D: you choose. Help Me! Backstory: I want to be a film director. I went to CC for a year after High school but I had 2 jobs and and had school full time, it all exploded. Now I'm 23 and I don't know if it's worth the time to go back to school or just get a job in film and start climbing the ladder. Help me please.... I can't choose which way to go.
    1 answer · Higher Education (University +) · 7 years ago
  • What are the charecteristics of a well written manga?

    I'm not a huge manga buff, I enjoy reading them from time to time but I don't really know of many good ones. And don't hate on me but I've seen a lot of the anime w/o having read the actual manga. Anyways my favs are: FMA, yu yu hakusho, video girl ai, kodocha (so what). The point is, I'm trying to appeal to you guys who know... show more
    I'm not a huge manga buff, I enjoy reading them from time to time but I don't really know of many good ones. And don't hate on me but I've seen a lot of the anime w/o having read the actual manga. Anyways my favs are: FMA, yu yu hakusho, video girl ai, kodocha (so what). The point is, I'm trying to appeal to you guys who know waaaay more about it than I, what makes a well written manga, and if you can recommend the hidden gems that I haven't heard of yet.
    2 answers · Comics & Animation · 7 years ago
  • Should I email the guy from omegle?

    Lol I tried omegle today, not expecting much and after like 30 aimless chats there was a normal sounding guy and we chatted for awhile. We seemed to "connect" at least a little bit (this is omegle for god sakes) he wanted to add me on facebook but I said I don't go on facebook (which is true). He had already given me his email tho so... show more
    Lol I tried omegle today, not expecting much and after like 30 aimless chats there was a normal sounding guy and we chatted for awhile. We seemed to "connect" at least a little bit (this is omegle for god sakes) he wanted to add me on facebook but I said I don't go on facebook (which is true). He had already given me his email tho so he said to send him a "short email" what does that even mean??? Am I being subtly blown off?
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 7 years ago
  • What are the best film schools in the Midwest?

    I want to go to film school because I want to be a director, but I want to stay in the Midwest. I don't want to move so far away as Los Angeles or New York. But also, I refuse to believe that NY or LA are the only worthwhile options for a good film program. I know there's tons or programs in the midwest and I've been looking at them all... show more
    I want to go to film school because I want to be a director, but I want to stay in the Midwest. I don't want to move so far away as Los Angeles or New York. But also, I refuse to believe that NY or LA are the only worthwhile options for a good film program. I know there's tons or programs in the midwest and I've been looking at them all but I can't really narrow it down. I think I need some firsthand opinions. Or just someone who knows of a good quality film program that marries film study and film production and will give me everything I need to be a good director someday :) another reason I want to stay in the Midwest is because I think it will give me a more unique point of view as a film maker. So if anyone can help me great! I don't want a list of a hundred schools though because I've looked at most schools already... I want a reason why u think this is a good film school. Thanks!:) Note: I am poor and will be transferring from a community college... If this helps at all.
    1 answer · Higher Education (University +) · 8 years ago