• Which is grammatically correct?

    "If there were a moment I could relive over and over again, I think it would be this one." Or "If there was a moment I could relive over and over again, I think it would be this one."
    "If there were a moment I could relive over and over again, I think it would be this one." Or "If there was a moment I could relive over and over again, I think it would be this one."
    5 answers · Words & Wordplay · 2 years ago
  • My girlfriend is communicating with two of her ex's?

    Last week my girlfriend made plans with her ex (who she was with for one year) and did not tell me. She canceled the day they were supposed to hang out and she said she was not going to tell me since they canceled. I confronted her about this because I was not happy that she didn't tell me in the first place nor that she was going to keep it... show more
    Last week my girlfriend made plans with her ex (who she was with for one year) and did not tell me. She canceled the day they were supposed to hang out and she said she was not going to tell me since they canceled. I confronted her about this because I was not happy that she didn't tell me in the first place nor that she was going to keep it from me after the fact. They rescheduled dinner for this week and I still feel really weird about it. I told her that i was uncomfortable and it doesn't seem like she's willing to do anything to try to make me feel better about the situation. I told her I'd feel more comfortable if I was included in their plans but she says that's weird to have her girlfriend "supervise" the dinner. Which I get on some level but it's weird they want to have one on one dinner. And then next week she's having dinner with her most recent ex (only together for a month, a week before we met). This ex was constantly texting her (7am until late at night) for weeks about where the relationship went wrong and that she still had feelings for her. I heard about it from my girlfriend almost every night we hung out for a month. It has since stopped since her ex is dating someone else. Am I justified in feeling weird or uncomfortable about this behavior?
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Air Force jobs?

    So I'm currently in the process of enlisting in the Air Force Reserves (I've gone through MEPS) and the only thing I have left is to pick my job. I'm at a stand still with my recruiter and she hasn't been the most helpful. I'm 24 and I know what I want to do with my life and what jobs I want/don't want in the AF. However, my... show more
    So I'm currently in the process of enlisting in the Air Force Reserves (I've gone through MEPS) and the only thing I have left is to pick my job. I'm at a stand still with my recruiter and she hasn't been the most helpful. I'm 24 and I know what I want to do with my life and what jobs I want/don't want in the AF. However, my recruiter will either not answer my questions about when an intelligence job will be available or just sends me job information on something I never asked about. Should I hold out for the job I want and only the job I want? My recruiters contract ends in 7 days so I feel like she's rushing me to pick a job.
    4 answers · Military · 4 years ago
  • Too old for promise ring?

    My girlfriend will be leaving for the Air Force sometime after July 1st (so about 4 months from now) and we plan on staying together through out her service. We've only been dating for a short time (3 months) but I spent 10 months getting to know her while we traveled across the country. I'm very much in love with her and plan on moving to... show more
    My girlfriend will be leaving for the Air Force sometime after July 1st (so about 4 months from now) and we plan on staying together through out her service. We've only been dating for a short time (3 months) but I spent 10 months getting to know her while we traveled across the country. I'm very much in love with her and plan on moving to where ever she is based. Before she leaves for basic I want to do something so she knows I'm going to be waiting for her (hopefully, in return, she'll be waiting for me). I just don't know if we're too old for promise rings? I'm 23 and she's 21. I know promise rings are big with high schoolers but we're definitely not ready to be engaged or married anytime soon, but I want her to have something to hold on to while she's away. Something that she'll know is a real commitment. I just don't want it to be juvenile. Mind you this is all for if we make up to her shipment date (so for our 6th or 7th month anniversary). I know things can always change.
    6 answers · Weddings · 4 years ago
  • Headache causing vomiting. Eyes hurt when I move them.?

    So the past week my eyes physically hurt, very badly, when I move them a certain distance up or down or left or right. And all day I've had an incredibly bad headache. I'm not sure if the two are related but both hurt very badly and I need help. Is this a migraine?
    So the past week my eyes physically hurt, very badly, when I move them a certain distance up or down or left or right. And all day I've had an incredibly bad headache. I'm not sure if the two are related but both hurt very badly and I need help. Is this a migraine?
    3 answers · Pain & Pain Management · 6 years ago
  • Is this asthma or just a common cough?

    Last week I moved into a new house and got sick and ever since then I've had this tightness in my chest and throat. It feels like my lungs are full of cotton balls and I'm breathing through a straw. It gets worse when I lay down. Today I got weird chest pains, they weren't extremely painful but it wasn't normal. And now I can't... show more
    Last week I moved into a new house and got sick and ever since then I've had this tightness in my chest and throat. It feels like my lungs are full of cotton balls and I'm breathing through a straw. It gets worse when I lay down. Today I got weird chest pains, they weren't extremely painful but it wasn't normal. And now I can't get a breath (short shallow breaths) without having a coughing fit. Is this asthma caused by an allergen from something in my new place? Or is just a really bad cold? Or something else? Additional info: 22 female. No history asthma before. Haven't had a respiratory infection recently or ever. I have been treated for tonsillitis without it being diagnosis though.
    4 answers · Respiratory Diseases · 6 years ago
  • Treated with no diagnosis? What is this?

    For the past 3 years I get incredibly sick between 2 to 4 times a year. The symptoms resemble tonsillitis but each time I go to the doctor they tell me I don't have it. They usually do a throat culture (this time they didn't), comes up negative. Usually take blood (again they didn't this time) in which it shows I have high white blood... show more
    For the past 3 years I get incredibly sick between 2 to 4 times a year. The symptoms resemble tonsillitis but each time I go to the doctor they tell me I don't have it. They usually do a throat culture (this time they didn't), comes up negative. Usually take blood (again they didn't this time) in which it shows I have high white blood cell count. Here are my symptoms: -The lymph nodes in my neck swell to the size of a golf ball and the pain varies from no pain to extremely painful. -Sore throat -Hard time breathing (mostly because my throat is swollen) -My underarm lymph nodes swell as well but not as much as the ones in my neck. -I'm always tired. -I usually can't eat food other than crackers for five days because I'm throwing up. -I'm always dizzy and feel weak. -Intense head and neck pain. Head pain: temple on left side as well as behind left eye. Neck pain: only on left side. -Lower back pain I've gone to the doctor six times for this and all they do is spend 10 minutes with me, give up and give me a prescription for antibiotics, which help but it always comes back without fail. Anyone else have something similar to this so I know what to ask them to check the next time it happens?
    1 answer · Infectious Diseases · 6 years ago
  • Is there a direct coorelation between abuse victims and hypersexual disorder?

    I know the term sexual addiction is not recognized by the D.S.M but I was having a discussion with my sister about if there's any coorelation between those who have been abused whether it's sexually, physically, mentally, or abuse chemicals and being a "sex addict" also known as hypersexual disorder to the D.S.M. Personally I think... show more
    I know the term sexual addiction is not recognized by the D.S.M but I was having a discussion with my sister about if there's any coorelation between those who have been abused whether it's sexually, physically, mentally, or abuse chemicals and being a "sex addict" also known as hypersexual disorder to the D.S.M. Personally I think there is but she doesn't. For example: If a young girl has experienced prolonged sexual abuse from let's say a teacher or coach or neighbor and when she matures what behavior does she think is quote on quote normal? Most teenage girls become extremely promiscuous and in turn become dependent on that sexual experience because again its what they feel to be "normal." At least that just my opinion off of everything I've read on sexual abuse. And obviously this is not every case, everyones pain agent is different but in a general sense. Does anyone else agree with me?
    2 answers · Mental Health · 6 years ago
  • 6 tiny clear liquid filled blisters?

    I have 6 tiny blisters on the inside of my middle finger that are in a perfect oval shape and that are really itchy. I started with 1 or 2 a few weeks ago but the past few days realized I had a bunch more. What is this?? serious answers only please. I don't want to hear that you have the same thing but have not yet been to the doctor.
    I have 6 tiny blisters on the inside of my middle finger that are in a perfect oval shape and that are really itchy. I started with 1 or 2 a few weeks ago but the past few days realized I had a bunch more. What is this?? serious answers only please. I don't want to hear that you have the same thing but have not yet been to the doctor.
    1 answer · Skin Conditions · 6 years ago
  • All encompassing book of knowledge?

    Probably sounds like an encyclopedia, I'm looking for something similar but something not as large and complex. I'd like one book that covers a variety of topics like physics, history, astronomy, psychology, etc. I feel like I've seen something like this but I wouldn't be surprised if it's only wishful thinking. Anyone know... show more
    Probably sounds like an encyclopedia, I'm looking for something similar but something not as large and complex. I'd like one book that covers a variety of topics like physics, history, astronomy, psychology, etc. I feel like I've seen something like this but I wouldn't be surprised if it's only wishful thinking. Anyone know of anything like this?
    1 answer · Books & Authors · 6 years ago
  • Indie songs about losing the people in your life?

    Slowing I've been losing the people in my life...The past five months I've lost the four friends I had and my siblings are drifting from me. I don't really know why this is happening or what I did to piss my friends off. I'd just like some songs to listen to that echo this situation. I'm more into indie music like Band of Horses,... show more
    Slowing I've been losing the people in my life...The past five months I've lost the four friends I had and my siblings are drifting from me. I don't really know why this is happening or what I did to piss my friends off. I'd just like some songs to listen to that echo this situation. I'm more into indie music like Band of Horses, Phosphorescent, etc. 90s music would be fantastic as well. Any suggestions?
    3 answers · Rock and Pop · 6 years ago
  • What should I do in this situation?

    So here's what happened, at least from my prospective, with my best friend and I. A few months ago we went and saw a movie, everything seemed normal like she didn't seem to be angry with me or anything. The next day my cat got really sick so for a week I was only concentrating on him. During the time I realized he was really sick until the... show more
    So here's what happened, at least from my prospective, with my best friend and I. A few months ago we went and saw a movie, everything seemed normal like she didn't seem to be angry with me or anything. The next day my cat got really sick so for a week I was only concentrating on him. During the time I realized he was really sick until the day he was put down something happened to make her mad at me. I only contacted her once about maybe getting her cats checked because they both came in contact with my cat. Her response was pretty rude and very argumentative. The day I put my cat down I asked her to get a drink with me but she said she was working. A few days later I texted her about hanging out again and she didn't respond. A few days after that I texted her telling her I had to put my cat down (I didn't tell her the day of) and she said she knew and that her roommate told her. No sympathy or no I'm sorry. I then figured something was wrong so I asked her if she was okay. She said she was fine and then I just guessed I had done something so I asked her, she said she was mad at me but wouldn't tell me why. I asked her twice to tell me what I did and she only said vague things like "you just need to think about things before you do them." Seriously no idea what I did. One day we're fine, next my cat got sick and I texted her once during that week I was trying to be there for him, and then 3 days after my cat dies she hates me. Don't get it. We haven't spoken in a month, I wanted to give her space or whatever and come to me whenever she's ready but I really want to talk to her about this. I asked her to get coffee the other day and she didn't respond. I'm guessing that our friendships over? Should I say something about it being over just to get conformation? When it comes to these things I'm completely at a loss because when something seems off I like communicate this realization but don't know how to say something to someone who hates communicating how they feel.
    1 answer · Friends · 6 years ago
  • Americorps NCCC campus assignment?

    How long after sending in medical records and finger prints does it take to hear about about campus assignment?
    How long after sending in medical records and finger prints does it take to hear about about campus assignment?
    1 answer · Government & Non-Profit · 6 years ago
  • My iphone 4 won't hard reset?

    I'm selling my phone so I'm trying to do a hard reset but it's not working...It's just on the black screen with that stupid spinning loading thing. I've done it before and it worked, now it won't... HELP?
    I'm selling my phone so I'm trying to do a hard reset but it's not working...It's just on the black screen with that stupid spinning loading thing. I've done it before and it worked, now it won't... HELP?
    2 answers · Cell Phones & Plans · 6 years ago
  • How to tell what gig my iphone 4 is?

    It says ... Capacity: 6.37 gigs Available: 5.3 gigs But together that makes a really random number? Is it 8gigs? or 16gigs?
    It says ... Capacity: 6.37 gigs Available: 5.3 gigs But together that makes a really random number? Is it 8gigs? or 16gigs?
    6 answers · Cell Phones & Plans · 6 years ago
  • Iphone 4s ios 5.0.1 baseband 04.11.08 unlock?

    I've been trying to unlock my phone for a few days now and I've read a few mixed things. Some people say once you jailbreak your phone with Redsn0w it unlocks it as well. Some people say if you get that Gevey sim card it'll unlock it. And some say neither of those will work right now. Does anyone know when I'll be able to unlock... show more
    I've been trying to unlock my phone for a few days now and I've read a few mixed things. Some people say once you jailbreak your phone with Redsn0w it unlocks it as well. Some people say if you get that Gevey sim card it'll unlock it. And some say neither of those will work right now. Does anyone know when I'll be able to unlock my AT&T iphone 4s?
    3 answers · Cell Phones & Plans · 6 years ago
  • If I jailbreak my AT&T iphone...?

    Will it work with Sprint?
    Will it work with Sprint?
    2 answers · Cell Phones & Plans · 6 years ago
  • Iphone 4s hard reset?

    So I got an iphone from my friend and he did a hard reset before giving it to me but it seems his number is still on it. How do I fix this? I'm jailbreaking it before I switch it to my account, will it stop being his number once I switch it (which sounds like a dumb question because I know it will)? I just assumed when you hard reset a phone it... show more
    So I got an iphone from my friend and he did a hard reset before giving it to me but it seems his number is still on it. How do I fix this? I'm jailbreaking it before I switch it to my account, will it stop being his number once I switch it (which sounds like a dumb question because I know it will)? I just assumed when you hard reset a phone it erases everything, including number, etc.
    2 answers · Cell Phones & Plans · 6 years ago
  • Jailbreaking Iphone 4 5.0.1?

    So I have the Iphone 4s ios 5.0.1 and I want to jailbreak it but for whatever reason because I didn't jailbreak it before the update or whatever it won't let me jailbreak it. I went to jailbreakme. com and it said something about my device not being compatible. Is that because jailbreakme hasn't come out with a new one yet? I want to do... show more
    So I have the Iphone 4s ios 5.0.1 and I want to jailbreak it but for whatever reason because I didn't jailbreak it before the update or whatever it won't let me jailbreak it. I went to jailbreakme. com and it said something about my device not being compatible. Is that because jailbreakme hasn't come out with a new one yet? I want to do this WITHOUT a computer considering I don't have a USB jack that connects to my phone. Please help...
    3 answers · Cell Phones & Plans · 6 years ago
  • Apologizing to an old friend?

    Our relationship was rather complicated...Keep in mind I'm a lesbian and she's (lets say her names Linda) engaged to a guy. We worked together so that's how we met and became friends. I had a crush on her roommate and one night Linda invited me to a party they were having. I said I would go just because I wanted to try and make a move on... show more
    Our relationship was rather complicated...Keep in mind I'm a lesbian and she's (lets say her names Linda) engaged to a guy. We worked together so that's how we met and became friends. I had a crush on her roommate and one night Linda invited me to a party they were having. I said I would go just because I wanted to try and make a move on her roommate. During the party, which was just five people, Linda was kind of all over me. We were playing this drinking game which you got to pick who took all these shots and she would only pick me. We all went down to the hot tub area (I didn't go in but she did) and after a little bit she snuck into the sauna and then called me to come join her. I went in and she pulled me into an embrace. I didn't really think about it too much just because she's engaged. Then everyone else came in and our embrace ended, we hung out in there for like 30 minutes and during that time Linda ignored every in there and was only focusing on me, pretty much sitting on my lap, trying to undress me, etc. We went back up to the apartment and everyone was getting pretty tired so we decided we should go to bed. I was extremely drunk so Linda brought me into bed with her and her friend was going to sleep with us too. I was laying in the middle and I don't remember how this started but before I knew it we were making out, and then somehow we ended up on the floor and we hooked up. The next morning I left really early because I was a little freaked out. She texted me later that day and said we should keep this to ourselves, we haven't talked about it since then and it's been a year. After that happened we became super close friends but she played with my head so much. She'd send me half nude photos of herself but then say it was just because she was feeling down about herself and needed a pick me up. She'd call me over to take care of her when she was sick. She'd flirt with me like no other, etc. It just confused me so much so one night I confronted her about it. She told me she she wasn't going to leave her fiance and just thought it was all in good fun. Which really hurt me, I felt used so I told her I did. She got really angry with me for saying that and everything went downhill very fast...I was mad at her for using me and she was mad at me for saying she used me so we stopped talking and we haven't talked since June 2011 (it's Feb 20th, 2012). I've tried to contact her and get our friendship back but there hasn't been any response from her. I miss her friendship. Any ideas on how to get it back or is it a lost cause? Also I apologize for the longgg message.
    3 answers · Friends · 6 years ago