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  • is this a sign that my ex wants me back?

    after one year of no contact he suddenly texts and asks if we can go hang out for a drink. I was busy at that time traveling somewhere which is why I was not able to go.

    after that we just have friendly conversations on fb, he asks me where i live, how my life is and even inquired of my pet cat which he once loved.

    after that i got really busy and was not able to make contact, he greeted me early for christmas then the new year and then after a few weeks more asked me if we can watch a movie sometimes. I was then still busy and got sick and did not get around it. After that i did ask him out, but then he was suddenly ill.

    after a few more weeks, we got into texting, i just say hi and ask him how he is, he immediately replies back and then this week he tagged me pictures of drawings of my face that he created and posted on his room. is that a sign? cause he really did push me away anad rejected me several times that this might not even be a sign and i could just be thinking the wrong thing here.

    i still love him by the way.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • does my ex want me back?

    after almost 8 months of not texting me he suddenly sends weird greetings like happy holidays when its not even a holiday,asks how I am and what am I doing. Recently he asked me if we can go out for a beer I said no because I was out of town and I am not really sure if I still want to see him. He is my first boyfriend but he is sending all of this mixed signals. I am a straightforward person I already told him that I waited for him for almost a year now and I was willing to work things out but then I did not see any serious attempt from him of making it work so I just told him that I am moving on with my life. After that he suddenly texts me all of this things, but I still feel its not sincere? He keeps on liking my facebook photos and keeps on commenting about things that reminds me of our connection in the past. Weird signals what do you think/

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • does my ex still love me?

    10 months ago he told me that he no longer has any feelings for me and he wants to break up. It was too hard to accept but i respected his decision and did not contact him for 10 months. He suddenly called but i did not pick it up, i was not able to resist my curiosity so i texted him ? and he replied and asked me how i was. I told him I was fine, doing well with a new job. I decided to be honest and told him that i still had feelings for him but that i am already near the acceptance stage and i will be changing my number for my own sake. He told me that he thinks no one can compare with me and no one ever will, he told me to take care of myself> i told him that i will forget him in time and I am working on it. I am working on going to another country and he told me that forgetting him is not possible and his last message was until next time. I still like him so much, but I am just being realistic here, he has already dated other girls and told me that those are just flings that did not have any meaning to him. However after a week he did not text and I just decided that it was a nice conversation but that I had to learn to let go.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • should i just ignore my ex?

    0 months ago he told me that he no longer has any feelings for me and he wants to break up. It was too hard to accept but i respected his decision and did not contact him for 10 months. He suddenly called but i did not pick it up, i was not able to resist my curiosity so i texted him ? and he replied and asked me how i was. I told him I was fine, doing well with a new job. I decided to be honest and told him that i still had feelings for him but that i am already near the acceptance stage and i will be changing my number for my own sake. He told me that he thinks no one can compare with me and no one ever will, he told me to take care of myself> i told him that i will forget him in time and I am working on it. I am working on going to another country and he told me that forgetting him is not possible and his last message was until next time. I still like him so much, but I am just being realistic here, he has already dated other girls and told me that those are just flings that did not have any meaning to him. However after a week he did not text and I just decided that it was a nice conversation but that I had to learn to let go.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • does my ex still have feelings for me?

    10 months ago he told me that he no longer has any feelings for me and he wants to break up. It was too hard to accept but i respected his decision and did not contact him for 10 months. He suddenly called but i did not pick it up, i was not able to resist my curiosity so i texted him ? and he replied and asked me how i was. I told him I was fine, doing well with a new job. I decided to be honest and told him that i still had feelings for him but that i am already near the acceptance stage and i will be changing my number for my own sake. He told me that he thinks no one can compare with me and no one ever will, he told me to take care of myself> i told him that i will forget him in time and I am working on it. I am working on going to another country and he told me that forgetting him is not possible and his last message was until next time. I still like him so much, but I am just being realistic here, he has already dated other girls and told me that those are just flings that did not have any meaning to him. However after a week he did not text and I just decided that it was a nice conversation but that I had to learn to let go.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • why do i lose interest in men quickly?

    i had been in a 4 year relationship and we broke up, i tried to get back with him several times but he refused and after that i ended using the no contact and have been successful for almost a year now. Suddenly everything has changed I am not that interested in dating men, they can text me but I have other priorities set like my community work and I am not even sad if a man does not reply back. I usually come straightforward when i want something and I tell it, if i like the guy i state it and if he does not make a move I drop him in my mind and i move on. It just seems so different from the woman I was before. I just could absolutely not drop anything i am doing just for a guy and i no longer have this romantic thoughts in my head? is that bad/

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • do you greet your ex boyfriends or girlfriends during their birthday?

    we were together for 4 years, however he dumped me because we are not compatible and I have accepted that a long time ago. He did greet me for my birthday however I did not feel the need to greet him on his birthday, i felt it would just start an unnecessary connection once again. I am just wondering how one day you can cry for someone and tell them that you love them and just suddenly would not even feel the need to text them for their birthday. i know he was a part of me once and this behavior is not like me at all. but i dont like to text him anyway.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • if i did not greet my ex for his birthday am i being mean?

    we were together for 4 years, however he dumped me because we are not compatible and I have accepted that a long time ago. He did greet me for my birthday however I did not feel the need to greet him on his birthday, i felt it would just start an unnecessary connection once again. I am just wondering how one day you can cry for someone and tell them that you love them and just suddenly would not even feel the need to text them for their birthday. i know he was a part of me once and this behavior is not like me at all. but i dont like to text him anyway.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • should i end our relationship?

    we have met each other online and we have had a great conversation and we made plans to see each other in the future and travel. However 2 days ago he committed the mistake of sending me a wrong text message for another girl. Although we are not really official boyfriend or girlfriend this made me lose my respect for him, he did say that he was talking to another girl who started texting him and it was his fault, he feels sorry and he still wants to meet me because he really likes me. Well i told him he was forgiven but after a day I just do not feel the same anymore. Any intention of seeing him in the future is decreased because I no longer feel that i should tell him about my life. He became a complete stranger and we text less or chat less. I dont know why I want a loyal man, technically during that time we are not even committed to each other but I still felt terrible, I though he felt the same way--and my interest has really gone low, am i being reasonable?

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • why do i lose interest in men so quickly?

    i just had one boyfriend and 3 flirtations but i just don't seem to understand why i do not feel anything anymore. I get excited for about a month and then i plan with the guy and then i lose my interest after that. i was not like this with my first relationship I work it out somehow and I try to do a lot of things just to make the relationship work. after that relationship failed I just did not feel like trying it out. My ex boyfriend sort of tried to express that he wants to come back but i no longer feel the same and I just want to be left alone. however this attitude worries me, I am not even excited when a man starts asking me out no matter how goodlooking, intelligent, and no matter how much fun we have. after a while I wake up and i do not feel like texting or planning anything anymore and i hardly even miss anyone for that matter, this is strange.

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • should i give up or should i wait?

    during the first few weeks he kept on texting and he also stated that I was beautiful, and he gave his time and lent me his laptop even if he lived far away for a project. During the succeeding weeks he kept on being flirty on his text messages and on facebook chat. But somehow he keeps on insisting that I be the one to invite him to go out and when he told me he would come because he had lots of time to help me--he did not come and he did not text. He just keeps on flirting with his text but then he did not show up today and did not show up the last time I invited him for a project. I just feel that he is just not that in to me and we are just flirting on cellphone to no end. So even If i like him i think i should move on and just forget it and no longer text at all after this.

    2 AnswersPolls & Surveys9 years ago
  • should i give up and just forget him?

    during the first few weeks he kept on texting and he also stated that I was beautiful, and he gave his time and lent me his laptop even if he lived far away for a project. During the succeeding weeks he kept on being flirty on his text messages and on facebook chat. But somehow he keeps on insisting that I be the one to invite him to go out and when he told me he would come because he had lots of time to help me--he did not come and he did not text. He just keeps on flirting with his text but then he did not show up today and did not show up the last time I invited him for a project. I just feel that he is just not that in to me and we are just flirting on cellphone to no end. So even If i like him i think i should move on and just forget it and no longer text at all after this.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • does this guy like me or is he just friendly?

    he seems to tease me a lot, we hardly know each other but when i asked to borrow his laptop for a project he went out of his way to give it to me even if he lived far away, he is a bit shy but we included him in our team and asked him for dinner, he was telling stories beside me and got a cab for me, after getting a cab he texted me to say take care and thank you, he texts me and jokes about him being the magic powder of my life cheesy stuff.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • does he have feelings for me?

    he is a player and he goes out with a lot of women and i know what, i dont really plan on taking him seriously at all and i have other plans on my mind, but for curiosity sake, i am just wondering why he likes to kiss my lips a lot and holds my hands and hugs me and likes to dance me around. This is particularly weird for me, I have not given him my number and do not plan to add him on my fb either, he is just way too much too handle but i laugh a lot when he is around, he is sort of like a playmate, i call him my playmate, its just weird that he kisses me and would insist me kissing him, and makes coffee for me, weird.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • he does not like the friends with benefits option and just wants to be alone what should i do?

    me and my boyfriend broke up, he said he wanted to be alone, to be with himself and that he is just tired of having a girlfriend. for me that does not seem to be a problem, in fact i also broke up with him in the past because i did not want us to get married, it just go things complicated, what i just want to do is to just visit him, have sex with him, give him a massage and just watch a movie with him we work that way and happy doing that andnothing else, i dont want him to be meddling with my family or my friends, we are just not that compatible on that area, you see this is how love works for me, i dont even want him to text me frequently because honestly i love the times when i am alone, i have no problem eating alone, i dont even like us talking to each other regarding religion or anything, i have tried that before and our personalities and beliefs just do not fit. but i want to continue buying clothes for him, sending him surprise gifts, things like that and i dont want him to give anything back at all just to receive the attention, you see im so busy i have lots of work to do, dreams to do and we just cant work on the couple thing, he can go on with his life and his work and even date others if he likes. its just that i love him this way, i just dont understand why he has to be this dramatic about the part of wanting to be alone and such and such. frankly he is too traditional, but if he wants to be alone then i will leave him alone, i just do miss him, i will continue dating and ask the same thing for my next partner. i just dont want the drama in the relationship anymore, i just want to focus on laughing and not worrying about all of this stuff, all that the man has to do is to be willing for me to love and give him attention, this i dont get./

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • do you think that what i want from a relationship is too weird?

    me and my boyfriend broke up, he said he wanted to be alone, to be with himself and that he is just tired of having a girlfriend. for me that does not seem to be a problem, in fact i also broke up with him in the past because i did not want us to get married, it just go things complicated, what i just want to do is to just visit him, have sex with him, give him a massage and just watch a movie with him nothing else, i dont want him to be meddling with my family or my friends, we are just not that compatible on that area, you see this is how love works for me, i dont even want him to text me frequently because honestly i love the times when i am alone, i have no problem eating alone, i dont even like us talking to each other regarding religion or anything, i have tried that before and our personalities and beliefs just do not fit. but i want to continue buying clothes for him, sending him surprise gifts, things like that and i dont want him to give anything back at all just to receive the attention, you see im so busy i have lots of work to do, dreams to do and we just cant work on the couple thing, he can go on with his life and his work and even date others if he likes. its just that i love him this way, i just dont understand why he has to be this dramatic about the part of wanting to be alone and such and such. frankly he is too traditional, but if he wants to be alone then i will leave him alone, i just do miss him, i will continue dating and ask the same thing for my next partner. i just dont want the drama in the relationship anymore, i just want to focus on laughing and not worrying about all of this stuff, all that the man has to do is to be willing for me to love and give him attention, this i dont get./

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • i never want to get married is that wrong?

    i really have understood that love can be shown in so many ways and in order for it not to get destroyed we should not aim for monogamy, having one partner in life and thinking that we can get everything or we can understand love by trapping it. my first relationship failed because we tried so hard to control the other, i wanted him to be like me an artist, a painter, a photographer, all of those things, i wanted him to travel with me, but we think so differently he just likes to stay at home

    work all day those are the things that make him and because of that we have competed, proving the other is right and the other is wrong

    i just go sick of it, i love this man, i love him so much but the pressure of so many things went in, in truth i just wanted his time, not the promise of marriage, not the promise of a big house, not even children,just him, being with me laughing with me,

    and so i have understood that i will never want to get married, never want to be trapped in there , i know i will love many and hope that the men i will be with will understand this. the importance of time. all i want is time, time to talk, time to laugh, time to eat together, enjoy all of those things and show that we care. we are there. even without the commitment

    and if by any chance one relationship will not work,we have to learn to set it free and find it again without trapping anybody.

    9 AnswersMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • if your ex girlfriend told you this would you accept her offer?

    we both dont want to get married , you want kids, i dont want kids.

    in truth i just want to share my time with you.

    however i do know you are too busy nowadays

    with your work and all that

    and i also have a lot of things going on in my life

    however i dont want to be angry with you anymore

    i still want you to be a part of my life

    i am still here to help you out if you need somebody to talk too

    i cannot promise loyalty anymore and i dont like you to promise it as well

    but i would like to continue showing you how much i care

    when we are in a relationship,we tend to fight and expect

    and i dont want to expect anything from you anymore

    i just like to be with you if time allows

    i just want to be there for you when i can

    to not promise you anything

    except that i will think of you

    you can count on me

    my love for you is like this,

    i dont really like to lose you

    i dont even know if you still love me

    i dont want to talk about the past

    with what happened

    i just want to be there for you

    if i have time i will visit you

    if you like we can eat together sometime

    sometimes we can watch movie together

    sometimes we can travel together

    i dont need to be your girlfriend anymore

    we dont need to meet the family of each other

    but i still want to retain this connection with you

    because i still love you. this is a crazy offer i know. i dont know if it will work or we will end up coming back on a stressful relationship

    but this is what i am offering. us being together, doing what couples do, without the need for commitment, no need for marriage,no need for kids. no need for family introduction. just us.

    7 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • if you are my ex and i told you this what would you say?

    we both dont want to get married , you want kids, i dont want kids.

    in truth i just want to share my time with you.

    however i do know you are too busy nowadays

    with your work and all that

    and i also have a lot of things going on in my life

    however i dont want to be angry with you anymore

    i still want you to be a part of my life

    i am still here to help you out if you need somebody to talk too

    i wont be your girlfriend anymore

    but i would like to continue showing you how much i care

    when we are in a relationship,we tend to fight and expect

    and i dont want to expect anything from you anymore

    not even your time,

    i just want to be there for you when i can

    to not promise you anything

    except that i will think of you

    you can count onme

    my love for you is like this,

    i dont really like to lose you

    i dont even know if you still love me

    i dont want to talk about the past

    with what happened

    i just want to be there for you

    if i have time i will visit you

    if you like we can eat together sometime

    sometimes we can watch movie together

    sometimes we can travel together

    i dont need to be your girlfriend anymore

    we dont need to meet the family of each other

    but i still want to retain this connection with you

    because i still love you.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago