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I am a single mother of a two sons 8 and 1 1/2 years old and two daughters 6 1/2 and 5 1/2 years old. I am in the process of a divorce after being together for almost 9 years, life is definately changing for me. I work part time as a Legal Secretary and full time as a Mother.

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    Okay so my boyfriend and I (who both just came out of 10 year relationships, where our exes didn't do or enjoy anything romantic or special and we are both romantics) are celebrating our first Valentine's Day together this year. I have a bowling tournament during the day and he has to work. I want to do something creative and inexpensive. However, I'm unsure of what to do. I'd like to leave something at his work, in his car, work truck, house, etc. So that while we are both missing each other during the day he can get little reminders of my love for him. Then save something big for at night. Any suggestions or ideas would be welcome. And if there are any males interested in answering, what do you think are nice gifts, etc.

    THANKS!

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 decade ago
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    5 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships1 decade ago
  • How to tell our children that we are "boyfriend/girlfriend" after a divorce?

    My husband and I separated about 7 months ago after quite a few years of ups and downs. Our children never really saw us together except for Sundays due to our work schedules, so the separation process hasn't been a big adjustment to them since we were never together anyways. About 4 months ago I began talking to a wonderful man, that I have known for years but we were both married. Now he is divorcing as well as myself. I have an 8, 6, 5 and 1 1/2 year old and he has an 8 year old and almost 4 year old. The kids get along great and we all enjoy each others company. We gradually introduced the kids to each other and began doing things all together. Just recently we decided to make it official that we are a couple, how do we tell our children? They see us together quite often and on New Year's Eve when we had a gathering they saw us kiss for the first time. So I need some help explaining it to them, any suggestions?

    14 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • How do you tell your children you have a "boyfriend" after divorce?

    My husband and I separated about 7 months ago after quite a few years of ups and downs. Our children never really saw us together except for Sundays due to our work schedules, so the separation process hasn't been a big adjustment to them since we were never together anyways. About 4 months ago I began talking to a wonderful man, that I have known for years but we were both married. Now he is divorcing as well as myself. I have an 8, 6, 5 and 1 1/2 year old and he has an 8 year old and almost 4 year old. The kids get along great and we all enjoy each others company. We gradually introduced the kids to each other and began doing things all together. Just recently we decided to make it official that we are a couple, how do we tell our children? They see us together quite often and on New Year's Eve when we had a gathering they saw us kiss for the first time. So I need some help explaining it to them, any suggestions?

    5 AnswersParenting1 decade ago
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    Okay, I won a 3 month membership to a gym and I'm really excited but I don't know what to do first and how to get a routine going. I am a mother of 4 - 5'3" 125 lbs. My object is not to loose weight but to tone my body. My main issue is to gain strength in my legs, tighten the butt, and gain endurance again. I've never really worked out before. I could use some suggestions or knowledge as to how to go about this.

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    6 AnswersLaw Enforcement & Police1 decade ago
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    7 AnswersNewborn & Baby1 decade ago
  • When does the baby babbling start?

    My son is 8 months old, he is my youngest of 4 and hasn't started babbling yet. I don't want to compare, but I know the older 3 started saying "mama" "dada",etc. around 6-9 months. He screeches, and does raspberries, but no real words/sounds. Except when he is crying with his hands in his mouth in his crib. You might get a mama out of it because he's chewing. I'm not really concerned because he crawls, sits, eats finger foods, etc. But I can't wait to hear his little voice. Any input?

    2 AnswersNewborn & Baby1 decade ago
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    I know I asked the question yesterday, but I need some new input. I'm going to sunday's game and will be in the south endzone in clear view of the TV. I need some suggestions for a sign, particullary for after they win. Positive input would be appreciated. Thanks and watch for me!

    6 AnswersFootball (American)1 decade ago
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    18 AnswersFootball (American)1 decade ago
  • Why does my baby move his head side to side when sleeping?

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    6 AnswersNewborn & Baby1 decade ago
  • United Health Care Question: Preexisting Condition?

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    1 AnswerPoetry1 decade ago
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