All right, so we broke up two months ago. I guess it was mutual, he was being distant, he lied by saying he was busy with work but then I found out he went to the club and that's why I hadn't heard from him. He was perfect for a month, and then when it started to get exclusive he drifted away out of nowhere. Assured me everything was fine when it wasn't, tried to communicate numerous times but just kept telling me he was a bit frustrated not find a new job, or that was busy.
All right, so he didn't care, I ended it.
Two months later, he sends me a happy birthday text and said he knows things didn't end well and when you have time, we can talk about it.
All right, I asked what he wanted to talk about.
He said that we could just talk, and about why things ended. And he said that in that moment, he didn't want to be in a relationship and that he still wasn't in one. And he said he didn't contact me to ruin my day and that he enjoyed his time with me, and that now that we are in contact we can talk or something like that.
I told him I was surprised that he had contacted me as its been such a long time and it doesn't matter to me anymore and to take care. And he responded by saying again he hoped I had a great day or whatever. I didn't respond to that.
Why would he ******* contact me just tell me he wanted to be single and on my birthday too. Does it mean he cares? Obviously its over but I am curious why he would do this.