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  • Best site to post a blog about my recent breast reduction story?

    So, I recently had a breast reduction surgery done at only 18 years of age. I wanted to blog about it, mostly because hardly anyone around my age gets such a huge surgery done. I just thought I might be able to help younger women out who may be considering this surgery, but I have NO idea where or how to blog about it. I d like it to be a site where a lot of people can see it. Anyways, thanks in advance for any and all help.

    2 AnswersWomen's Health3 years ago
  • Tips on beginning a music club in college? (The college has no instruments though)?

    Hey guys! I m about to start my freshman year of college. I was looking at all of their clubs and organizations the other day and something that really bugged me was that there was no music club! This college doesn t have a music ed program either so I was really hoping for at least some type of music club, but unfortunately, there was nothing. I spoke to my mom and a few friends about it and they all suggested I start my own music club here! The only problem is that the school has no instruments and idk how to get any when I m super duper broke right now. Does anyone have any advice or tips on what to do in a music club other than playing instruments? We could maybe start fundraising to get money for instruments but that would take a really long time! Anyways, thanks for any tips y all leave me!

  • Am I selfish for this?

    Okay, so I was talking to my sister about something and she ended up calling me really selfish for my beliefs. Basically, we were talking about a movie where a high school boy who's a really good basketball player gets the opportunity to show his skills to college scouts. His friends who are also basketball players, and who don't get the same opportunity, begin to get angry at the fact that this boy is getting this opportunity and they are beginning to get ignored by that boy. They claimed he was a jerk for "abandoning" them. To me, I didn't think he was selfish for that at all. Those college scouts were promising him scholarships and a good future so why would he stop to take the time what others are thinking when his future could be very positive. To me, his friends should take the time to congratulate and be happy for him rather than get angry at him. Idk, my sister ended up saying I was mean and selfish for thinking like that. My personal beliefs are that you should put yourself before others when it comes to your own life and career. I'm not saying that you always put yourself before others in every situation, I just mean that if you get the opportunity to further yourself, take it instead of worrying about what others are thinking. What do you guys think?

    3 AnswersFriends4 years ago
  • Why did this happen? High coming back?

    So, I smoked weed for the first time today with two of my friends. I got SUPER stoned. Like, the kind of stoned when I immediately just felt like crashing and my mind completely went blank. It was an amazing feeling. This happened at around 3 PM. The high lasted until about 6 or 7. However, about 10 minutes ago, the high began coming back again and now I'm starting to feel stoned again lol (it's 11:30 PM here right now). Why does this happen? All answers are appreciated. Thanks!! :)

    2 AnswersBeer, Wine & Spirits4 years ago
  • Cigarette made me feel super dizzy, like I was going to fall down?

    So, I'm 17 and recently just smoked my first cigarette. Trust me, I have no intention of continuing it because the first experience was bad enough. It tasted disgusting and I don't think it's meant for me. However, after only a few drags, I started to feel super dizzy and lightheaded? I understand that it was most likely because it was the first time I've ever smoked a cigarette so it was reacting badly in my body but are there any other possible reasons? Again, the first experience was enough to tell me to stop so please don't respond with "You shouldn't be smoking in the first place" or something. Thanks! :)

    3 AnswersOther - General Health Care4 years ago
  • Do large breasts affect your body weight?

    I'm 17 years old and I have 40 DD sized breasts. My question is that if I lost weight, causing my breasts to drop to maybe about a C, would that effect my total body weight? Would that help me drop a lot of weight or not too much weight?

    2 AnswersDiet & Fitness4 years ago
  • I never see my crush anymore?

    I ve had a crush on the same guy for almost three years now. However, this is our senior year and I don t have any classes with him, nor do I have time to go hang out with him any time like I used to. We re about to graduate and I kind of want to just find out if he has ever liked me back. We re so close to graduation so why not? I just don t know how to bring it up, especially because we haven t talked in a while since we don t see each other much anymore. What should I do?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • How does this happen on Instagram?

    A boy I know from my school but don't talk to has an Instagram. I don't follow him and he doesn't follow me, but I've seen that he likes my photos. How does that happen if my photos aren't in his feed?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Have you ever let someone who you thought could've been a potential love of your life slip from your grasp because you were too afraid?

    I got a new job a month ago and I'm the only underage person there. (17) I met this one employee named Blake who I found out is 19 and in college. I thought he was very attractive and sweet, we had a lot in common. But I always felt worried, I felt like he thought of me as a little sister. But I started to notice that he was flirty with me. So I fell for him very hard and I kept telling myself to at least get his number b/c I really wanted to get closer to him. I talked to my parents about him and my dad surprisingly said to go for it because he said the age gap wasn't bad at all and that if I really liked him, I should go for it. So more weeks went by, but b/c I was scared, I never made any attempt to get closer and then the other day, I walked in work and he told me that it was his last day there b/c he got a job somewhere else that paid more. He said the only reason he accepted the job was because of the money and b/c it was closer to where he lived. I was devastated the whole day but I did talk to him as much as I could since he was about to leave for good. So basically by the end of my shift, I hugged him and I was so close to asking if he would like to hang out with me but of course, a customer walked in and I started waiting for him but then I got really scared AGAIN and waved at him and then left and now he's gone. I can't get him out of my head though I only knew him for a month. I can't help but think that he could've been a perfect match for me but I chickened out.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • What do these boys mean when they say this kind of stuff towards me?

    Okay, I've always been a bit self conscious about my looks growing up. Many of my friends always have all these boyfriends while I just stick to getting my grades up and hanging out with my friends. I think my calm personality makes a lot of people think I'm rude when really keep to me myself. Anyways, the other day I was leaving a class of mine and a group of guys behind me started making sexual comments about some girl and because it made me a bit uncomfortable, I sped up. All of a sudden, one of them grabbed my backpack and said, "Hey girl, you see my friend over there?" And then he pointed at a kid standing with a few other guys and they were all sort of looking at me and smiling and I responded "Yes" and he said "He wants to know if he can get your number." And I just said "No thank you" and kept walking. When all the guys heard me say that, they all started laughing and they immediately started yelling words like "*****". That made me pretty upset but I ignored it. THEN, the next day, I was walking through the cafeteria and when I passed a table full of a bunch of guys, one of them was looking at me and so I just made eye contact and gave him a friendly smile because I recognized him from one of my classes. He smiled back and when I passed him completely all of a sudden I heard "Mmm damn girl!" I wasn't sure who he was talking to so I didn't turn around and then I heard him yell "Bring that *** back over here." And again, I just kept walking. What does this stuff mean?

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • What does it mean when you dream about your crush?

    Okay so lately, there's this guy that I really like who's been popping up into my dreams. I've liked him for about a year now and though I had dreams about him last year, they have begun to pop up more often now. A few weeks ago, I had a dream that I spent a summer in some nice beautiful place inside a huge beach house located right next to the ocean. And somehow, my crush was in the dream staying at the same place I was, and we ended up spending the whole summer together. And just last night, I had a dream when my crush was for some reason punched and knocked out by someone and I hurried to kneel next to him and hold him while yelling for help. I know both of these dreams sound like movie scenes out of some cheesy romance movie, but they have been popping up more and I'm just wondering what these might mean, if anything. Also, if you're wondering, my crush and I are great friends, we tell each other everything and I'm pretty sure he likes me back though I have a few doubts. But anyways, please answer my question on your thoughts on the dreams. Thank you! :)

    1 AnswerDream Interpretation5 years ago
  • What do guys mean by this?

    There's a guy I like and I really think he likes me back but sometimes, right in front of me, he'll start talking about things like farting or burping or having to poop really bad. If guys talk this way in front of a girl is it because they see that girl as a sister or like a "dude" or is it because they feel comfortable enough around them that they're not worried about you judging them?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Do guys mimic the behavior of the girl they like?

    I'm curious because there's this guy who I really like and I'm pretty sure he likes me back based on the basic signs that shows someone likes you. Anyways, I heard that when a guy likes a girl, they mimic their behavior without even realizing it. So I've been trying to test that out with the guy I like and I've been noticing lately that days when I'm not in a great mood, he won't be in a good mood. Same when I'm in a good mood. And I notice a lot that when I smile, he smiles or when I turn my head a certain way for a while, he'll do the same. Do you think this is a way of his feelings coming through or am I just overreacting?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • How do you know when you are truly in love with someone?

    What does being in love feel like? What do you feel when you see that person? When you think of that person? When you talk to them? I have strong feelings for a guy and it has gotten to the point where I think I may be in love but I'm not sure. So explain to me what being in love feels like and how you feel about that person you're in love with. Thanks! :)

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Does this guy like me?

    Okay, so I met him this past school year because we had a class together. We became fast friends, mainly because we're both friendly and we have a lot in common so we always had a lot to talk about. Anyways, as the year progressed, I found myself falling for him. I always tried to check for signs to see if he liked me. I noticed that he did the basic things I always hear about if a guy likes a girl; I would always catch him staring and he would look down quickly, he would always walk me to my next class, he would ALWAYS remember small details about me that I'd mention to him and he always talked to me about the things we have in common like musical artists or movies. However, one thing that sometimes made me feel like he didn't like me was that he would sometimes openly talk about how cute a girl is right in front of me and sometimes even to me. My friends would always tell me it was him trying to make me jealous but I don't know. I would still feel upset. Anyways, when the school year ended, we had each other's numbers and we would sometimes text.

    I just recently got a job as a waitress at a restaurant and he texted me and asked me about it. The other day, he texted me and told me he wanted to apply at the same restaurant. I told him to go for it of course and he did and he got the job. So now we'll be working together! But I still don't know if he likes me and I don't want to jump to conclusions. What do you guys think? Thanks in advance!

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating6 years ago
  • Why does he keep doing this?

    Okay. So there's this guy that I have a HUGE crush on and I'm pretty sure he likes me back. All the signs are there. We talk all the time, make each other laugh, walk to certain classes together, and we always catch each other staring at each other. A lot of my friends tell me that they're certain he likes me back. However, there's one weird thing he always does around me. And it's that whenever I'll bring up a friend of mine or just a random girl in general in a conversation, he'll say something like, "She's cute." He's done this a couple of times and it honestly makes me feel a little down, but at the same time I don't wanna overthink it. My friends tell me he's just trying to get a reaction out of me or that he's trying to make me jealous. But I don't know, what do you think? Thanks in advance! :)

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years ago