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  • I Want The Other Man, What Should I Do?

    So here is my delima, my man and I have been living together since we first started dating (4 years) Im 25 he's 22. He has been 100% faithful, does anything and everything for me, provided a roof over our head and loves me for me. Started having ups and downs as time progressed. Whether it be family issues or relationship, his parents gave us their house and they are always in our business, wont allow us to have a pet and we pay the mortgage. Then they and his older sister have issue with me because of the style of modeling I do. Its like they are treating us like children and we have no say so.

    Now Im really big on astrology hes a Leo and Im a Scorpio. Ive noticed the negative traits of his sign that really are taking a toll on our relationship. One hes over protective, obsessive, annoying, and we debate about EVERYTHING. Sometimes I feel I cant live my life the way it was before him, I was actively social, independent, never depending on a man and cheerful.

    Now or days because of all his negative traits Ive become snappy towards him. When I feel the need to just keep to myself sometimes he doesnt understand that and bugs me over and over about what is wrong. For one Scorpios like to have "me time" and since being together everyday it seems impossible.

    Sex has gotten so routine and it seems like a marriage. Me I look at myself as an undercover perv thats that Scorpio in me, I love watching porn, Im bi and want the feeling of being man handled sexually. Him hes not so into porn like most guys, says he satisfied with me, he doesn't even masturbate. Like he doesn't have the same sexually energy he had when I first gave him some. Like Im tired of "love making" I want that porn star energy from him but can never picture him doing most of the things I fantasize about.

    A few weeks back he went on a business trip hes a music artist and he started up with that bug a boo phase like always wanting me to "check in" with him every damn min or tell him what Im doing. He even gave me a curfew on a Sat night but he's out of state telling me this, WTF! But its like after so many years why are you being like this. Ive never cheated or gave him a reason to think so regardless of all the issues we have. For one I understand you are out on business but why are you calling me very second or the min I dont text back quick enough you wanna call my phone. Its getting irritating like damn you know my everyday routine but yet you wanna say side remarks if I dont answer my phone but claim "you were just joking" or that "you just miss me".

    Now here cums man #2.....He springs in my life out the blue (met online), honestly I'm really attracted to woman and never looked at another man cus I was happy with the one I have, so having this new guy come around meant there was something that intrigued me about him.

    Hes my age, a sexy Virgo makes me feel alive. Has the same sexual energy as me (we haven't met yet) and is also a model like me. When he calls I feel butterflies, we talk about our careers, stalks and investments, we have long late night convos that always leads to phone sex and I love it. He says all the nastiest things that I like, then I wonder why my own man doesn't do that. Man #2 knows Im in a relationship and the problems we have. But wants me to be his when I get my decision together. He sees a woman with mad potential and with a lot of compatibilities. I dont ever make myself too available for him so I wait for him to contact me just to see if its real or just some guy trying to hit it. He honsetly is someone I could possibly see myself with but @ the back of my mind I want to remain with my current boyfriend. Ive told man #2 my fears of thinking the grass is greener with him.

    Part of me having mixed feelings has to deal with an issue last year. Since day one my boyfriend wanted kids, year 2 I got off birth control and we tried for a baby all of 2008. He'd always ask me are u preggers yet everyday. So a week after his B-Day I finally find out Iam. I call everyone to tell them the news because we had been trying for so long. The all of a sudden he has a change of heart and makes me get an abortion :(. Now Ive been preggers before and the circumstance I was in I didnt want to have a child young and with the guy I was dating at the time. So I made a huge promise to the LORD I wouldnt get another abortion because in the end thats bad. Since then I have been real emotinal and hurt and felt betrayed. How can someone fill you head that they want a family so bad and renig on the situation and expect everything to be like it was?

    Its like he sold me a dream and thinks that he can make it up but part of my heart is damaged. I let him know now that a baby is the last thing on my mind now and just want to focus on my career. He feels Im being selfish. Ive been feeling distant with him and even though hes good looking my sexual desire for him has lessened.

    Has our relationship ran its course and its time t

    13 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • I Want The Other Man, What Should I Do?

    So here is my delima, my man and I have been living together since we first started dating (4 years) Im 25 he's 22. He has been 100% faithful, does anything and everything for me, provided a roof over our head and loves me for me. Started having ups and downs as time progressed. Whether it be family issues or relationship, his parents gave us their house and they are always in our business, wont allow us to have a pet and we pay the mortgage. Then they and his older sister have issue with me because of the style of modeling I do. Its like they are treating us like children and we have no say so.

    Now Im really big on astrology hes a Leo and Im a Scorpio. Ive noticed the negative traits of his sign that really are taking a toll on our relationship. One hes over protective, obsessive, annoying, and we debate about EVERYTHING. Sometimes I feel I cant live my life the way it was before him, I was actively social, independent, never depending on a man and cheerful.

    Now or days because of all his negative traits Ive become snappy towards him. When I feel the need to just keep to myself sometimes he doesnt understand that and bugs me over and over about what is wrong. For one Scorpios like to have "me time" and since being together everyday it seems impossible.

    Sex has gotten so routine and it seems like a marriage. Me I look at myself as an undercover perv thats that Scorpio in me, I love watching porn, Im bi and want the feeling of being man handled sexually. Him hes not so into porn like most guys, says he satisfied with me, he doesn't even masturbate. Like he doesn't have the same sexually energy he had when I first gave him some. Like Im tired of "love making" I want that porn star energy from him but can never picture him doing most of the things I fantasize about.

    A few weeks back he went on a business trip hes a music artist and he started up with that bug a boo phase like always wanting me to "check in" with him every damn min or tell him what Im doing. He even gave me a curfew on a Sat night but he's out of state telling me this, WTF! But its like after so many years why are you being like this. Ive never cheated or gave him a reason to think so regardless of all the issues we have. For one I understand you are out on business but why are you calling me very second or the min I dont text back quick enough you wanna call my phone. Its getting irritating like damn you know my everyday routine but yet you wanna say side remarks if I dont answer my phone but claim "you were just joking" or that "you just miss me".

    Now here cums man #2.....He springs in my life out the blue (met online), honestly I'm really attracted to woman and never looked at another man cus I was happy with the one I have, so having this new guy come around meant there was something that intrigued me about him.

    Hes my age, a sexy Virgo makes me feel alive. Has the same sexual energy as me (we haven't met yet) and is also a model like me. When he calls I feel butterflies, we talk about our careers, stalks and investments, we have long late night convos that always leads to phone sex and I love it. He says all the nastiest things that I like, then I wonder why my own man doesn't do that. Man #2 knows Im in a relationship and the problems we have. But wants me to be his when I get my decision together. He sees a woman with mad potential and with a lot of compatibilities. I dont ever make myself too available for him so I wait for him to contact me just to see if its real or just some guy trying to hit it. He honsetly is someone I could possibly see myself with but @ the back of my mind I want to remain with my current boyfriend. Ive told man #2 my fears of thinking the grass is greener with him.

    Part of me having mixed feelings has to deal with an issue last year. Sice day one my boyfriend wanted kids, year 2 I got off birth control and we tried for a baby all of 2008. He'd always ask me are u preggers yet everyday. So a week after his B-Day I finally find out Iam. I call everyone to tell them the news because we had been trying for so long. The all of a sudden he has a change of heart and makes me get an abortion :(. Now Ive been preggers before and the circumstance I was in I didnt want to have a child young and with the guy I was dating at the time. So I made a huge promise to the LORD I wouldnt get another abortion because in the end thats bad. Since then I have been real emotinal and hurt and felt betrayed. How can someone fill you head that they want a family so bad and renig on the situation and expect everything to be like it was?

    Its like he sold me a dream and thinks that he can make it up but part of my heart is damaged. I let him know now that a baby is the last thing on my mind now and just want to focus on my career. He feels Im being selfish. Ive been feeling distant with him and even though hes good looking my sexual desire for him has lessened.

    Has our relationship ran its course and its time to

    2 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Why Did They Bring Marty Back??

    OK SO LEE HAS MARTY BUT WHY DIDNT THEY HAVE THE LAST LADY WHO PLAYED HER??? THIS ONE IS A BLONDE HOW CAN A WOMAN IN HER CONDITION CHANGE IT WASNT SHE A BRUNETTE?

    10 AnswersSoap Operas1 decade ago
  • Jealous Mom??

    I seen similar questions but wanted to get my own answers. First off Im 24 engaged and we own a home....Here is my senerio:

    My mom and stepdad split when I was 14 and my sis was 4 (Her dad). At some point my mom became overly controlling and I had no life outside of school. She wk 3 jobs because he left her with expensive bills. Now we have family but she wouldnt ask them to sit for her so as a teen I was stuck in the house every weekend, school dances/activities and holiday babysitting my sister. She would always say that its not considered babysitting because shes my sis. If I didnt do something the way she wanted, she would make sure my sis snitched on me and we know childeren at her age dont know any better and with the negativity my mom has towards me my sis was just as nasty to me. If something was misunderstood between me and my mom she would physically and mentally abuse me, then later try and apologize to me. It got to a point where Id cry to GOD and ask does she even love me

    6 AnswersFamily1 decade ago
  • Is Wendy Williams A Trany?

    I keep hearing from various gossip blogs that Wendy Williams is a trany. Is this true or she just has manish looking features?

    7 AnswersCelebrities1 decade ago
  • Does anyone have a Nintendo Wii for sale? I dont want to pay an arm and a leg for one.?

    I played it for the first time with my nephews during the Thanksgiving Holiday and had hella fun. If you have one for sale or know when it comes back out please let me know.

    3 AnswersVideo & Online Games1 decade ago
  • Body Wrap At Home?

    I would like to know what supplies I need to do my own body wrap at home because I'm on a budget. I have 2 events this week: photoshoot and a huge newtworking event/party. So if anyone can give me a straight answer on what I need and how long it has to be done I'd truely appreciate it and Thank You For All Responses!

    5 AnswersOther - Beauty & Style1 decade ago