• My boyfriend says he loves me and he wants me to move back in....but he wont marry me. please help.?

    He and i went through a lot just to be together. i ran away from home to get away from y parents and to be with him and he took me in....saying he wanted to marry me. when my furious mother found out where id gone she had us both arrested on false charges. we spent nearly two days in jail before he was able to bail us out. he got a proper lawyer and... show more
    He and i went through a lot just to be together. i ran away from home to get away from y parents and to be with him and he took me in....saying he wanted to marry me. when my furious mother found out where id gone she had us both arrested on false charges. we spent nearly two days in jail before he was able to bail us out. he got a proper lawyer and was able to have his charges dropped in less than a month. i had no money and got stuck with a public defender. took six months to have mine dropped. we lived together for eight months before he got tired of supporting me and asked me to move out. (I had been trying to get a job the whole time....but as fate would have it i didn't get one until the day after he demanded that i leave.) I lived in the projects in a shitty apartment with my best friend for a year . During most of that period we argued on and off. he'd get drunk and call me fat or criticize my religious beliefs. he'd become furious when i went out with my friends and had an absolute meltdown when i told him id had a miscarriage and that if i got pregnany again i would have an abotion like he wouldn't. Eventually i got the money and had the option of my own apartment in another town. he started being real sweet and tried to convince me not to get the apartment and "come back home" with him. i refused and said i didn't feel he respected me or loved me for who i am as a person. he was furious. first he tried to guilt trip me....then he picked more fights with me....and now he's saying he won't marry me because I'm not the same person i used to be. he still wanta me to move back in.....he says he loves me....but he won't marry me unless i change various aspects of myself to fit his standards. i don't know what to do anymore. i love him a lot but he's breaking my heart. Should i even bother with him anymore?
    7 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 5 years ago
  • Whats goes through a guy's mind when he is at Hooters?

    I'm a hooters waitress, and I love it. I can't help but ask what goes through a guys mind when he is being waited on. Do they think they have a chance? Are they nervous? And I really wanna know what a guy is thinking when he comes in with his wife. So please tell me!
    I'm a hooters waitress, and I love it. I can't help but ask what goes through a guys mind when he is being waited on. Do they think they have a chance? Are they nervous? And I really wanna know what a guy is thinking when he comes in with his wife. So please tell me!
    5 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 5 years ago
  • Am I overly sensitive?

    I was in a supermarket waiting to pay for my groceries. There was a guy in front of me. His hair covered most of his eyes. He wore this huge shirt which was too big for him because he was a skinny guy. His groceries came out close to $20. He used his food stamp/welfare card. The cashier tells him that he was declined, it came out that he... show more
    I was in a supermarket waiting to pay for my groceries. There was a guy in front of me. His hair covered most of his eyes. He wore this huge shirt which was too big for him because he was a skinny guy. His groceries came out close to $20. He used his food stamp/welfare card. The cashier tells him that he was declined, it came out that he didn't have sufficient funds. The guy stood there, not knowing what to say. He then says there should be enough for his groceries. The cashier tried again, but the same thing came up. He then looks at his groceries, and picks the milk and pays for the milk with cash. The cashier asks him if he will come later for the rest, and he says he can't. He then leaves. I'm there looking at the whole thing. I could've paid for him, I wanted to so badly. My heart broke and I should've just paid for him. After I paid my groceries, I went into my car and just cried. I cried so much. I felt so guilty and bad. The food was probably what he needed and couldn't afford. I'm so horrible...
    5 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 5 years ago
  • Im 36 years old and my wife is 24 years old?

    Me and my.wife been trying to have baby almost over three years what should I.do my.wife got off her birth control depo shots in 2011 and we been trying for a longtime can somebody help me please thanks
    Me and my.wife been trying to have baby almost over three years what should I.do my.wife got off her birth control depo shots in 2011 and we been trying for a longtime can somebody help me please thanks
    9 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 5 years ago
  • Is his and hers jewelry dumb?

    I'm in my mid twenties and so is my girlfriend. I was thinking of getting her and I matching bracelets with our initials engraved for Christmas. Is this a lame idea? Especially in mid-twenties? Immature? Thanks for the input
    I'm in my mid twenties and so is my girlfriend. I was thinking of getting her and I matching bracelets with our initials engraved for Christmas. Is this a lame idea? Especially in mid-twenties? Immature? Thanks for the input
    4 answers · Fashion & Accessories · 6 years ago
  • Do you think people get married too easily in todays day and age?

    I have been married for 2 amazing years to my husband. You may say we are still in the honeymoon period but I think I have a stronger commitment to him than a lot of other people in the world. I am 24 years old, but am in no way immature. People get married because they love someone. That is fair enough. People get divorced because life gets too... show more
    I have been married for 2 amazing years to my husband. You may say we are still in the honeymoon period but I think I have a stronger commitment to him than a lot of other people in the world. I am 24 years old, but am in no way immature. People get married because they love someone. That is fair enough. People get divorced because life gets too hard, or they "fall out of love" with their partner. This is bullshit in my opinion. People fall out of love with other people because they are not getting what they need from a relationship. My husband and I may well go through hard times in the future. We might go through times where we might think we don't love each other anymore. I don't see this happening because he is my best friend in every way, but if we do, I know that we will work through it. My question is, Do you think divorce is too easy? Do people just get married because it seems like a good idea at the time, and if it doesn't work out, who cares, there's always divorce? Debate Really??? How's that working out? Ok fair call, but that's not what I meant to say. Bad sentence on my part. What I meant to say is that people get married too quickly and too easily without considering the future. I did not mean to imply that my relationship is better than anyone else's, I just think I have a more realistic approach to what may happen in the future and how to deal with it instead of turning to divorce. But the whole point of my question was to get other peoples opinions to see if mine were valid. Also, fairly sure I didn't say "stronger commitment than most".
    6 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 6 years ago
  • Women, would you marry a homeless man?

    I want to know more about how women think. If a man you know had good looks and personality and everything you wanted in a man, but recently lost all his money and home, would you still be willing to get with him and potentially marry him? I ask this because I think roughly 90% of men would if it was a woman in the same situation and I want to... show more
    I want to know more about how women think. If a man you know had good looks and personality and everything you wanted in a man, but recently lost all his money and home, would you still be willing to get with him and potentially marry him? I ask this because I think roughly 90% of men would if it was a woman in the same situation and I want to know more about how women think.
    16 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 7 years ago
  • Does a guy have to sleep with a lot of women to become a good lover?

    answers/opinions please
    answers/opinions please
    15 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 7 years ago
  • Is my wife a wife-material woman?

    As far as love and that kind of thing is concerned, she's perfect. We still date each other, laugh, fight, sex and stuff. However, when it comes to doing housework and little washings she's not a bit interested in doing anything around, she's idle most of the time. I have to admit she works too and is a bread-winner just like me, but in... show more
    As far as love and that kind of thing is concerned, she's perfect. We still date each other, laugh, fight, sex and stuff. However, when it comes to doing housework and little washings she's not a bit interested in doing anything around, she's idle most of the time. I have to admit she works too and is a bread-winner just like me, but in this society that teaches you that a wife has to clean and do "women thing around the house is freaking me out" married 2 years now ah she's a wonderful cook, she cooks, I dont complain about that
    20 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 7 years ago
  • How do you get turned on if your newly wed husband is a preacher?

    how do you feel turned on and freaky without feeling guilty.
    how do you feel turned on and freaky without feeling guilty.
    9 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 7 years ago
  • My husband wont help?

    I have Lupus and some of the time i get very sick. I have pain all over my body and fevers. Lately when i have been asking my husband to help me with something or can he do something or even spend time with me while i am sick he brushes me off and says im not ready to go to bed or what do you need or even when i ask for water after he is in bed he... show more
    I have Lupus and some of the time i get very sick. I have pain all over my body and fevers. Lately when i have been asking my husband to help me with something or can he do something or even spend time with me while i am sick he brushes me off and says im not ready to go to bed or what do you need or even when i ask for water after he is in bed he will tell me im not going back down stairs. I am so sad because when my husband is sick i take care of him from top to bottom and all the kids. My two boys help out alot i dont know what i would do without them.My leg was bothering me both days last weekend to the point i had to go to the ER i took myself he stayed with the kids. That night before he went out with his friends and then after i got back from the hospital after him putting the kids away to bed he went to a boxing party. I am so emotionally hurt to no end. I keep trying to tell him that you reap what you sew but he doesn't listen. What should i do???????
    2 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 7 years ago
  • My home state is west virginia and i miss it and want to move back but my wife refuses. what should i do?

    We have an 18 month old son also. I keep going back on Google maps but its not the same . I have lots of friends I keep in contact with and I hate the state we live in now which is of course where she's from. I want to go home . this would also involve leaving my parents and hers behind but I miss my home .
    We have an 18 month old son also. I keep going back on Google maps but its not the same . I have lots of friends I keep in contact with and I hate the state we live in now which is of course where she's from. I want to go home . this would also involve leaving my parents and hers behind but I miss my home .
    3 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 7 years ago
  • I found vodka in my brothers room.?

    my brothers 17 and i'm 16 So i walked in my brothers room while he was at his friends house to borrow a pen from him and in the corner of his room a saw a backpack on the floor so i went to put it away for him i found a bottle of vodka in it and i dont know i freaked out(i'm worried about my brother and know what alcohol can do.) I freaked... show more
    my brothers 17 and i'm 16 So i walked in my brothers room while he was at his friends house to borrow a pen from him and in the corner of his room a saw a backpack on the floor so i went to put it away for him i found a bottle of vodka in it and i dont know i freaked out(i'm worried about my brother and know what alcohol can do.) I freaked out and poured it all down the drain and filled the bottle with water. what do i do? i put it back but now im afraid what he'll do when he finds it >.<
    6 answers · Family · 7 years ago
  • What do LDS wear to get married in the temple?

    I was told that women just borrow (from the temple) a simple white gown and then when they leave the temple they put on their own wedding dress, as fancy as they like it to be as long as its modest? but apparently women can just wear their fancy wedding dress for the temple ceremony too? but it has to be bright white? ..i kind of dont think it would... show more
    I was told that women just borrow (from the temple) a simple white gown and then when they leave the temple they put on their own wedding dress, as fancy as they like it to be as long as its modest? but apparently women can just wear their fancy wedding dress for the temple ceremony too? but it has to be bright white? ..i kind of dont think it would be right to wear a big fancy dress in the temple.. besides i want an off-white creamy wedding dress haha.. also what do men wear???
    12 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 7 years ago