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<title>Open Question: Is he Using me for my Money - PLEASE READ IT ALL?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 15:34:10 GMT</pubDate>
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	New guy i met a week ago seemed nice and handsome.  He has one son but is out of work right now broke.  We went on 3 dates.  He bought me wine the first night.  The 2nd night i bought us a hotel to use the jacuzzi + chanpagne + movie total $135.  I also bought him 3 packs of cigarettes in the last 2 days.  His so called Cadillac is in the shop, doesnt know when it will be done but now hes thinking of just trading it in for cash.  

I havent seen his caddy only the 92 contour he drives around in.  I drive a BMW.  We drive my car everywhere we go he has never payed for gas.  Our 3rd date I payed for our drinks in the club and admission.  This morning knowimng hes STILL broke he shows up at 7am unannounced at my door while ringing and texting me to go shopping with him.   I bet he wants me to buy him stuff so he can &quot;pay&quot; me back later.  He has already asked me to buy him a baseball hat twice.  But i still have not done that.  And will not.

What do you all think ?  Thanks.  Hes 29 Im 23.

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<title>Open Question: Is my friend holding a grudge against me?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 08:30:01 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	I have so much love and respect for her my closest friend. We have much in common w. tastes and values and is omeone who I know I can trust and be very loyal to. About a month ago, we were supposed to meet up at a club. (Me, her, her boyfriend, and 2 of her friends). I got asked out by someone for the same day and told him I had plans. I told her and she compromised and said go to dinner w. him first and then meet them there later. So that was what they did. I tried convincing him to go to the club but he wasn&#039;t into it. Okay, just as long as you drop me off. After dinner, we were kinda buzzed from all the wine. I talked w. her briefly and told her we would be leaving after a few minutes. This guy suddenly got horny and (I think) wanted something very physical. I stopped him before anything happened and got into this big argument/talk about what his intentions are. I was on a roll, very passionate (not dramatic)...it was just very bad, disappointing and kinda scary. By the time it was over, the doors were closed to the club and I had called her quickly and texted her - apologizing and summing up what happened. At the end of the night, she got the impression that I had ditched her (i didn&#039;t). She texted me at the end of the night saying it was okay, we&#039;ll talk later and &quot;chicks before ducks&quot;. I left it alone for about a week and a half - had to give it time and we were both busy. Apparently she confided in one of our mutual friends and accordin to her, it &quot;disappointed&quot; and upset - and I don&#039;t blame her. I understand that was not fair of me to keep her waiting but I wasn&#039;t planning on what happened that night w. that guy. (AND NO, we did not have sex!) It was just a crazy fight and all of the above. 

I met up w. our mutual friend and gave her a card to give to her. It was just a simple yet sincere apology admitting how I shouldn&#039;t have let her and tried to sum up it was a bad night, not plannin that fight w. the guy. I haven&#039;t talked to her since (gave the card a week ago). She texted all of us 3 girls regarding something about christmas. I asked a question and she didn&#039;t respond back. I have a feeling she&#039;s gruding against me. Here&#039;s my view: I sincerely am sorry for what had happened - i love my friend and she&#039;s the last person I would hurt and I&#039;m not the type (nor was I ever the type) to choose a guy over a girl. It&#039;s been over a freakin month and I&#039;m sorry but if she&#039;s still goin to be gruding over this...that just seems so childish. Move on and get over it. I don&#039;t expect open arms and &quot;oh i love your card&quot; kinda reaction. Just know I was sincere in my apology and be done. 
What&#039;s up?
Will she drop our friendship bc of this?

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<title>Open Question: Do capricorns hold grudges?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 08:27:53 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	My closest friend is a cap and I have so much love and respect for her. We have much in common w. tastes and values and is someone who I know I can trust and be very loyal to. About a month ago, we were supposed to meet up at a club. (Me, her, her boyfriend, and 2 of her friends). I got asked out by someone for the same day and told him I had plans. I told her and she compromised and said go to dinner w. him first and then meet them there later. So that was what they did. I tried convincing him to go to the club but he wasn&#039;t into it. Okay, just as long as you drop me off. After dinner, we were kinda buzzed from all the wine. I talked w. her briefly and told her we would be leaving after a few minutes. This guy suddenly got horny and (I think) wanted something very physical. I stopped him before anything happened and got into this big argument/talk about what his intentions are. I was on a roll, very passionate (not dramatic)...it was just very bad, disappointing and kinda scary. By the time it was over, the doors were closed to the club and I had called her quickly and texted her - apologizing and summing up what happened. At the end of the night, she got the impression that I had ditched her (i didn&#039;t). She texted me at the end of the night saying it was okay, we&#039;ll talk later and &quot;chicks before ducks&quot;. I left it alone for about a week and a half - had to give it time and we were both busy. Apparently she confided in one of our mutual friends and accordin to her, it &quot;disappointed&quot; and upset - and I don&#039;t blame her. I understand that was not fair of me to keep her waiting but I wasn&#039;t planning on what happened that night w. that guy. (AND NO, we did not have sex!) It was just a crazy fight and all of the above. 

I met up w. our mutual friend and gave her a card to give to her. It was just a simple yet sincere apology admitting how I shouldn&#039;t have let her and tried to sum up it was a bad night, not plannin that fight w. the guy. I haven&#039;t talked to her since (gave the card a week ago). She texted all of us 3 girls regarding something about christmas. I asked a question and she didn&#039;t respong back. I have a feeling she&#039;s gruding against me. Here&#039;s my view: I sincerely am sorry for what had happened - i love my friend and she&#039;s the last person I would hurt and I&#039;m not the type (nor was I ever the type) to choose a guy over a girl. It&#039;s been over a freakin month and I&#039;m sorry but if she&#039;s still goin to be gruding over this...that just seems so childish. Move on and get over it. I don&#039;t expect open arms and &quot;oh i love your card&quot; kinda reaction. Just know I was sincere in my apology and be done. 
Are all caps like this?
Do you think we&#039;ll stop being friends over this?

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<title>Resolved Question: Can doctors do testing to find out why my stomach rejects alcohol?</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 11:02:54 GMT</pubDate>
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	When I was younger 17-18 I probably drank 3-5 times. Each time I had maybe 4 drinks (vodka and orange juice, these were less strong than a typical screwdriver &quot;recipe&quot; on google) and this was just enough to get me drunk. Never blacked out or passed out or had a hang over. I didn&#039;t drink for maybe a year or so after that. When I tried to have an alcoholic drink my stomach would reject it. I&#039;d get a stomach ache after one drink and throw up if I had another. I&#039;ve tried beer, wine, and vodka and it&#039;s the same with all of them. I&#039;m only 20 and a half right now so I know I&#039;m still a minor and shouldn&#039;t be drinking. I never ever party. I just like to have a few drinks with a couple close friends and be silly. My questions are: 1) Does anyone understand why my body rejects it so quickly when I didn&#039;t have a problem before? 2) When I turn 21 would a doctor be able to determine the exact reason such as an allergy? When I turn 21 I want to be able to go out to the clubs and go dancing and be able to have a drink. I wanna be able to have a beer with the guys. I wanna be able to celebrate with wine. It&#039;s not the end of the world if I can&#039;t drink; it would just be nice to have a reason why.

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<title>Voting Question: I need a store to buy things for all these people.?</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 05:38:05 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	as in a different store for all these people. not necessarily ONE store

mom- shes very conservative who REALLY needs clothes
dad- he loves to cook, but has enough cooking things.... he too needs clothes and is very business-y but not suits and stuff
sister- she has two dogs, a nice and cozy house but its a little messy and needs a little more organization
brother- he has a nice house and has one dogs... he loves alcohol and partying
other brother- lives with other brother, loves having people over for wine wednesdays, very fashionable
nanny- but not anymore... shes my second mom... she recently lost a lot of weight. she dresses cute but also needs money
sisters best friend and her husband- they both love clothes and fashion and believe in the thought that counts
brother in law- rather large man(tall) loves clothes... jobs involves being in the clubs a lot
jewish best friend-(LOL) loves clothes, but thinks shes fat.... 

age
mom-50s
dad- 50s
sister-30s
brothers- early and late 20s
nanny-60s
sisters bf and her husband- 30s
brother in law- late 20s
friends- 16 like me

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<title>Resolved Question: What liquer do you think is the best for straight up shots without mixing it for guests that is strong!?</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 08:55:38 GMT</pubDate>
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	Whiskies
Tequila
Vodka
..
..
?

What is it and WHY?

Something that will suit for any body at any day or at least most of them for example i&#039;m inviting group of friends start with a beer or wine and after want to slam few shots of some liquer before going to a night club which liquer do you think is the best choice?

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<title>Voting Question: help answering the selection?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 10:56:46 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	Can u pls help answer the questions that follows in this selection ..thanks a lot
                                                             Moral Decay
                                                           Paul L. Fuentes
 
                           We Filipinos are very sensible. Look how the recent putsch was 
                   lambasted in the newspaper. Letters from the readers swarmed 
                   indicating that we cannot tolerate the cowardly and senseless killing of 
                   soldiers and civilians, wasted ammunitions, and budding economy
                   again jeopardized. We condemn the former regime, its havoc upon our 
                   lives. We condemn graft and corruption, so rampant; we condemn the 
                   violation of human rights allegedly committed against the leader of 
                   Alliance of Concerned Teachers (ACT); we condemn everything that is 
                   foul, inhuman, unjust, impure, indecent.
 
                           But look at the kind of movies and TV programs we go after; 
                   display of sex acts—under the guise of art, nude bodies, violent sex, 
                   fornication, adultery, vengeance, magical arts, sorcery, myths. Even an 
                   ordinary comedy sit-com is rated &quot;Parental Guidance.&quot; Is that 
                   wholesome entertainment?
 
                           You can glean from the entertainment that we are so crazy about 
                   what kind of people we truly are. Instead of censorship, awards were 
                   given to this filth.
 
                           The female body has become the hottest and fastest selling 
                    commodity, raking millions of profits for the movie industry, print, liquor 
                    and wine.
 
                            Every time a sex-oriented movie goes out for showing we are 
                    buying our own ticket to moral degradation, anarchy, and even 
                    destruction from VD epidemic, like what happened to Majuro Marshall 
                    Islandwhere more than one out of ten have VD. Homosexuality is now 
                    enjoined in full swing. Love of money just like lust of flesh is insatiable. 
                    The chain has already been started; we wonder when it will end and 
                    how. Then we aspire for peace and order and goodwill? Are we 
                    worthy?
 
                            A poverty-stricken Filipino bombarded with filthy movies, how will 
                    he react?
 
                            Concerned Women of the Philippines, Rotary Club, Philippene 
                     Alliance of Human Rights Advocates, we appeal to you. Will you 
                     remain indifferent?
 
   
       1.   What is the article about?
       2.   Whose opinions are presented in the article?
       3.   How does the writer present and organize his ideas?
       4.   Make a list of the “wrongs” people condemn and compare them with 
             the “wrong” we patronize.
       5.   Does the writer mention positive, interesting and negative values of 
             Filipinos? List them.
       6.   Do you agree with the writer when he says that we are indifferent to the present
             situation? Explain.

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<title>Resolved Question: Guys: I really need your opinion, please help?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 02:37:25 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	Since he is pulling away, I&#039;ve been cut all contact with him for over 1 month. Basically it&#039;s a breakup, even though we didn&#039;t verbal it. 1 month ago he invites our mutual friend and me to go to his place for party, he even reschedule the date for me to come. I left the wine opener, and he came to bring it ot me. we talked and end up happily with the conversation. 

Tonight he has a speech to make in our club activity, should I attend the activity?

Does it count that he wants to meet me? guys, if you want to reconcile, do you call to meet person in person? or do you prefer to maybe meet in public and meet each naturally in this awkward situation? I don&#039;t know it counts in this case as he wants to see me or not. 

what do you think?

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<title>Resolved Question: Guys help: what does this mean?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 02:11:33 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	Since he is pulling away, I&#039;ve been cut all contact with him for over 1 month. Basically it&#039;s a breakup, even though we didn&#039;t verbal it. 1 month ago he invites our mutual friend and me to go to his place for party, he even reschedule the date for me to come. I left the wine opener, and he came to bring it ot me. we talked and end up happily with the conversation. 

Tonight he has a speech to make in our club activity, should I attend the activity?

Does it count that he wants to meet me? guys, if you want to reconcile, do you call to meet person in person? or do you prefer to maybe meet in public and meet each naturally in this awkward situation? I don&#039;t know it counts in this case as he wants to see me or not. 

what do you think?

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<title>Resolved Question: what is he thinking? does it count that he wants to meet me in this case?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 02:08:39 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	Since he is pulling away, I&#039;ve been cut all contact with him for over 1 month. Basically it&#039;s a breakup, even though we didn&#039;t verbal it. 1 month ago he invites our mutual friend and me to go to his place for party, he even reschedule the date for me to come. I left the wine opener, and he came to bring it ot me. we talked and end up happily with the conversation. 

Tonight he has a speech to make in our club activity, should I attend the activity?

Does it count that he wants to meet me? guys, if you want to reconcile, do you call to meet person in person? or do you prefer to maybe meet in public and meet each naturally in this awkward situation? I don&#039;t know it counts in this case as he wants to see me or not. 

what do you think?

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<title>Resolved Question: Already breakup, what is he thinking in this situation?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 01:42:35 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	Since he is pulling away, I&#039;ve been cut all contact with him for over 1 month. Basically it&#039;s a breakup, even though we didn&#039;t verbal it. Then, he called me 1 month later inviting all mutual friends and me to his place, he might even have changed the date for me to come, cause I reject the initial date. Then I came with bottle of white wines in the party, and left my wine opener in his place. He came to return the wine opener last week. 

Since the party is a club activity. I don&#039;t know he really wants to invite me or just treat me like general friend. Tonight he has a speech to make in the club, should I attend the club activity? or should I keep distance and wait for his invitation to meet person in person? 

Basically I am confused if he really wants to get together with me again, or holding any thought like that? what do you think?

It&#039;s awkward situation. Since the club actually provide an oppournity for us to meet naturally, but it never count when we meet there, I won&#039;t know if he wants to meet or not.

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<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 14:45:47 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	Since he is pulling away, I&#039;ve been cut all contact with him for over 1 month. Basically it&#039;s a breakup, even though we didn&#039;t verbal it. Then, he called me 1 month later inviting all mutual friends and me to his place, he might even have changed the date for me to come, cause I reject the initial date. Then I came with bottle of white wines in the party, and left my wine opener in his place. He came to return the wine opener last week. 

Since the party is a club activity. I don&#039;t know he really wants to invite me or just treat me like general friend. Tomorrow night he has a speech to make in the club, should I attend the club activity? or should I keep distance and wait for his invitation for a date? 

Basically I am confused if he really wants to get together with me again, or holding any thought like that? what do you think?

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<title>Resolved Question: Already breakup, how to reconcile? delimma situation?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 14:45:01 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	Since he is pulling away, I&#039;ve been cut all contact with him for over 1 month. Basically it&#039;s a breakup, even though we didn&#039;t verbal it. Then, he called me 1 month later inviting all mutual friends and me to his place, he might even have changed the date for me to come, cause I reject the initial date. Then I came with bottle of white wines in the party, and left my wine opener in his place. He came to return the wine opener last week. 

Since the party is a club activity. I don&#039;t know he really wants to invite me or just treat me like general friend. Tomorrow night he has a speech to make in the club, should I attend the club activity? or should I keep distance and wait for his invitation for a date? 

Basically I am confused if he really wants to get together with me again, or holding any thought like that? what do you think?

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<title>Resolved Question: Cosy little cafe / restaurant in London good for book club?</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 17:09:51 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	We usually have a meal and a few glasses of wine then an informal chat about the month&#039;s book on the first Friday of every month, so somewhere calm, snug and relaxing would be perfect. Not too mobbed. Sofas or comfy chairs for the post-dinner chat would be great, but are not essential. We used to have Book Club in the Candid Cafe in Angel but the service (and food) got worse and worse over the months and now everyone&#039;s voted for a new venue. This will be my first bookclub as chairman and I kind of want to give a good impression by picking a nice place - any help would be appreciated!

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<title>Open Question: Wine Survey for Grad School Marketing Project?</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 04:26:29 GMT</pubDate>
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	Alex O
Marketing
10/29/09

Wine Survey



1. How often do you drink wine?
a. less than once per month
b. 1 to 2 times per month
c. Once per week
d. A couple of times per week
e. Almost every day 
 NOTES:



2. In what quantities do you purchase wine? (# of bottles)
a. 1 bottle at a time
b. between 2 to 4 bottles at a time
c. more than 4 bottles at a time
NOTES:



3. In which price range do the majority of your wine purchases fall? (per 750ml bottle)
a. less than $10
b. between $10 and $20
c. between $20 and $30 
d. greater than $30
NOTES:



4. For which purposes do you purchase wine? (circle all that apply)
a. gift
b. as a collector
c. for holidays
d. for yourself for immediate consumption
e. other
NOTES:








5. The majority of the time you consume wine with: 
a. by itself
b. with tobacco products
c. with finger foods (cheese, crackers, chocolate, fruits etc.)
d. with large meal (lunch, dinner)
e. other
NOTES:



6.  Where do you usually drink wine?
a. home
b. restaurant
c. bar/lounge
d. club
e. other
NOTES:



7. When heading into a wine store you already know which:
a. brand and type you want
b. type and region you want
c. region you want (Bordeaux, Napa Valley, Chile etc.)
d. type you want (Merlot, Cabernet Sauvignon, Pinot Noire etc.)
e. look to see what catches your attention
f. ask a store clerk for suggestions
NOTES:
If your answer is E, please describe what catches your attention, is it the label, is it a sale, maybe the position in the store?


8.  Do you have a favorite type of red wine?
a. Merlot
b. Bordeaux blend
c. Pinot Noir
d. Cabernet Sauvignon
e. Syrah
f. Zinfandel
g. Malbec
h. Sangiovese
i. Cabernet Franc
j. Chianti
k. Other ________________
NOTES:



9. What are your top two favorite regions to purchase wine from:  United States East Coast, United States West Coast, Chile, Argentina, Spain, Portugal, Germany, France, Italy, Australia, Other _______. Why?
1.
2.
NOTES:



10.  What type of wines do you prefer? Why?
NOTES:



11.  How would you rate merlot as a type of wine that meets your priorities? Please Explain
Excellent  
Very Good  
Good 
Fair 
Poor


What do you like most about Merlot?

What don&#039;t you like about Merlot?
   
NOTES:



12. Do you usually repurchase the wines you like or do you try new ones each time?
NOTES:



13.  Other than wine, which other spirits do you regularly enjoy?
NOTES:



14.  When thinking about wine, what words come to mind?
NOTES:



15. True/False – Professional wine ratings like Wine Advocate (WA) or Wine Enthusiast (WE) affect your decision.  If False, than why don’t you like WA or WE and what sources than usually prompt you to try new wines.  
NOTES:



16. True/False – Price and Quality of wine are directly correlated.
NOTES:



17. True/False – In a blind tasting you believe you could tell the difference between a $10 wine and a $50 wine of the same brand and grape variety.
NOTES:



18.  True/False – The older the wine the better it is?
NOTES:



19.  Male or Female
NOTES:



20. Age:
NOTES:



21. Nationality:
NOTES:



22. Favorite Color: 
NOTES:



23. Favorite Animal:
NOTES:



24. Favorite Fruit:
NOTES:



25. Favorite Comfort Foods:
NOTES:

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<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 15:44:40 GMT</pubDate>
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	is it normal that after having a pleasent night drinking fine wine in an event of a social club and getting drunk that i had lost part of my sexual appetite; the thing is that normally i am a very horny person (Very) now i really dont feel like doing nothing sexually talking, and when i get a hard on now &quot;IT&quot; doesnt get so hard as before that night, i mean hard enough but not that hard, and the same night i drank i really wanted to pee so i went to the bathroom, and i couldnt pee O_o.

Please tell me if it is normal !

whats happening with me? O_O

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<title>Voting Question: Do you think she stole my bag? My gut tells me so.?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 14 Nov 2009 14:51:35 GMT</pubDate>
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	Im a med student and I study abroad, I moved from a city to another same country and I met this guy, soon we started to hang out as friends and I got to know his other friends, one of his friends a female, his ex was invited by him when i had a party she was nice and all but after the party we talked about going clubbing but only three agreed to go out, me my new friend and his friend, I was careless thinking back, I had a couple of glasses of wine so I wasn&#039;t thinking and I brought my camera Cash and credit card with me...Anyway wen we got inside the club this girl, my friends ex, was insisting me to give her my bag BC i needed to relax and dance she could hold it for me, I told her I can hold my own bag thanks, later on as we kept drinking I placed my bag with hers along our jackets, I had my eye on them the whole time, except for a minute or two, when she came running to me upset, telling me our bags were stolen. My first thought was SHE DID IT, she stole my bag.
I told my friend to call the police, but she told me it is no use, the bags are gone and blaming her country full of people like that...I still called the police and made statement now after two weeks she called me about finding her bag and there was nothing missing, but no trace of mine, I asked her who came with it and she told me a police officer came to her apartment leaving the bag to her neighbor and this neighbor doesn&#039;t remember how the cop looked like.
I want to confront her, but this will create a problem for me with my new friend and I don&#039;t have many of the kind, im new to this city... What should I do?

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<title>Resolved Question: Chances of getting into a top 15 MBA program?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 14 Nov 2009 08:15:27 GMT</pubDate>
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	Hi,

I am currently getting undergraduate degrees in Finance and Management from the Kelley School of Business at Indiana University (top 15 bachelor&#039;s business school- I think it usually ranks at times number 5, number 7, number 9, number 11 and number 15) and minor degrees in french and journalism.

At graduation time, if I have a

-3.6 GPA
-Two internships
-A thesis paper published on a theory on immigrant entrepreneurship in America at different decades with statistical proof conducted in new york city (published in a scholarly journal)
-Started and am president of a Management Skills Improvement club (wrote a few case studies with the help of faculty)
-Started a philanthropy initiative raising a couple thousand dollars of money each year for inner city schools and volunteer program
-Member of and write in the journal of an Emerging Markets club
-Study abroad at Oxford University

(Among other things I am still planning on doing, and job experience of 2-3 years- at a place that is still to be decided where I work diligently and dexterously)

And hopefully, a GMAT score of high 600s or low 700s- right around the margin (based on practice tests) 

Major Hobbies:

-Wine making at home (from crushing the grapes, to fertilizing and preserving)- I think I might go into a small business of selling personalized wines before I graduate
-Horse Polo and riding (I attended a Polo camp in India as well)

What do you think, roughly, are my chances of getting into a good MBA program. Some of the ones I am considering are:

-Duke University Fuqua School of Business
-Yale School of Management
-Dartmouth College Tuck School of Business
-Cornell University Johnson School of Business
-Wharton at UPenn

However, ones in the tier just below, such as UCLA are considered as well.

Thanks!

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<title>Resolved Question: can anyone make sense...?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 18:44:10 GMT</pubDate>
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	About a year ago i spliy up with this boy i went out with for a few months. I told him when he dumped me i really liked him and stuff but he didnt like me enough to go out. We tried to stay friends but it was always a bit akward. 

Recently since the beggining of septe,ber we met again at a party and we talked lots. Then i invited him to my 18th and he stayed over because he was drinking and had his car. Other people styaed over too but he wanted to sleep next to me. We got a bit flirty and stuff like cuddling in bed. 
Next thing he invited me out clubbing for his birthday, which was good. Bu we were quite close like he said to me are you cold and put his arm around me and cuddled me and stuff. The on saturdday we were both going clubbing but we didnt plan to meet. I was at a party before hand and then he phoned me and asked where i was. So i went to meet him. Bu i was so drunk he had to carry to a taxi and take me home. ( i was drunk because myfriend poured vodka in my wine without me knowing). 

I think we have become much better friends, do you think he feels sis less akward now?? because its been so long. I still like him that little bit and always will, but surely if he knew this he wouldnt act like that..

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<title>Resolved Question: Girly mixed drinks? Wine and stuff?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 02:50:25 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	Okay, really quick explanation.... I live in Ohio. I&#039;m a 19 year old woman and I go to college. When I go out, I drink beer. Why? because its free. My boyfriend lives in Australia, and when i visit him, his parents always offer me drinks with dinner or my boyfriend&#039;s pals will buy me something when we&#039;re out at the club, and I don&#039;t know what to have. I feel kind of stupid and un-ladylike when this happens.
Can you give me some ideas about what kind of drinks a woman would have? favorites? what your girlfriend drinks? what wine goes well with dinner?

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<title>Resolved Question: I&#039;m 8 months pregnant, and last night I got really drunk on tequila, vodka shots, and two bottles of red wine.?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:12:31 GMT</pubDate>
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	I woke up in the hospital, the doctor said that I had alcohol poisoning and had to have my stomach pumped. I nearly choked to death on my own vomit. He also told me that I was about 30 to 32 weeks pregnant. I had no idea! So basically, I am eight months pregnant, and almost every night for the past two years or so, me and my girlfriends have gone to the bars and clubs after work and have gotten very, very, very drunk. I usually wake up in a strange place with out any recolection of what has happened the night before. I&#039;m not an alcoholic, but I do enjoy drinking and I don&#039;t want to give it up. Now that I know that I am pregnant, I&#039;ll try to stop, but do you think that my baby has been harmed? the doctor said that I have to come back in a week for him to run some tsts, and that i should get an OBGYM or something like that. I don&#039;t know what to do. I only gained about ten pounds, but I asuumed it was because of hte boozr. I know that booze has a lot of calories, so I dont eat during the day so that I can get really drunk at night because sometimes we end up getting fast food at three in the morning do you think that I am a bad person do you think that I have hurt bmy baby? i dont even know who the father is and i have no family and all of my friends are only my drinking buddies and we only drink together and nobody loves me what should i do

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<title>Resolved Question: Suicidal Thoughts Taking Over....HELP ?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:26:16 GMT</pubDate>
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	I don&#039;t know what to do, I&#039;m 20years old (Female) , Unemployed &amp; Not Studying. I&#039;ve been depressed since 15 , it began with my parents seperating , shortly after my grandfather died , my mother had my dog put down as neither her or my father are allowed pets at their new houses. When my parents broke up ( I always wanted this to happen because my father use to beat my sister and I and mentally abuse my Mother ) I was happy to be living with my mother because she&#039;s lovely and not strict like my father, For years i&#039;d begged my mother to leave my father but when she finally did i went completley off the rails. ( As much as I hated my father [ &amp; even today he still resents me for chosing to live with my mother &amp; her new man  &amp; he always degrades me, hes stopped physically abusing me and now mentally abuses me calling me useless, whore, ect ] I now realise that he only wanted the best for us, and If i&#039;d have gone to live with him , he wouldn&#039;t of let me go down this track ) - NOT blaiming my mother -  ) When my parents were together, my father made my sister I stay in school, play netball, athletics and tae kwon do. I hated sports but because of my father we were very good at it ( I represented my area for netball , I went to Austrlia for athletics and Became a 1st Degree Black Belt in Tae Kwon Do and represented my country and won 3 gold medals at the Junior World Champs at just 13 ) Since I was living with my mother I dropped out of boarding school , quit all my sports and began drinking . I took advantage of my mothers kind heart and refused to listen to anything she told me . I wasn&#039;t depressed when i began drinking but i was certainly on a downwards spiral . I would pretty much go out every night
drinking and I met this 30 year old guy who just got out of prison and told me he was really horny.
We texted for a few weeks and I actually thought he was interested in me as a gf ( despite the fact he told me how horny he was ) . We agreed to meet up again and he picked me up, he drove straight to the alcohol store and purchased 3 bottles of wine and told me to drink them, i listened.
He then drove us to a motel and paid $70 for a room, i knew we were going to have sex and we did. I was bleeding all over the sheets and didnt know what to do as it was my first time, but i really liked him and thought he liked me too so i didnt want to tell him to stop, even though it was my first time. We fell asleep and in the morning he kissed me goodbye, told me he had to go to work and gave me $50. I felt like a prostitute, but after i got home and showered i texted him, no reply, i sent him so many texts for about a month untill i realised he was purposley ignoring me and never had intentions of anything other then the 1 night stand. I felt used and stupid. By this time i was depressed and drank alcohol to &quot;forget&quot; about the pathetic failure i&#039;d become. Instead of playin sports I&#039;d taken to under-age clubbing with my cousin. One night while I was under-age clubbing with my cousin we were EXCESSIVLEY intoxicated and met some guys at the club, they were buying me drinks all night long and after the club closed they asked us if we wanted to continue drinking at a near-by beach, young and drunk my cousin and i agreed. We arrived at the beach and kept drinking, shortly after i needed to use the toilets which were in the bush , one of the guys said he would help me to go to the toilets incase anything happend to me. As we got out of sight of my cousin and the other boys , i remember he tripped me to the ground and then hit a rock across my head attempting to knock me out. I was struggling and screaming but no one heard me, i tried pushing him off and telling him NO but eventually he over powered me and began raping me. I gave up ( and now that i think about it, i realise that this was the day I gave up on life ) and i just lay there crying as he continued to rape me. He took off with his friends and left me laying in the dirt nakked and violated. My cousin came to find me and help me get dressed , I was devistated but I felt like she was more concerned about how we were going to get home then the fact I&#039;d been raped. We eventually got home and the next day I tried to talk to her about it and she didn&#039;t even care , she didnt try to comfort me or want to here me talk about it so from then on i kept it inside and never spoke about it again. From then on I began blaiming myself for the rape and told myself It was my fault because I was drunk and I put myself in that position going to the beach with men we&#039;d just met. Not being able to talk about the attack with anyone was really eating away at me. ( I just wanted to talk about so i could move on, but i never got the chance to so I feel like even today I havent dealth with it ) Now not only was I depressed , I&#039;d lost all myself. I  continued drinking and put on an extreme amount of weight which lead to me loosing all my confidence. I had zero self esteeme , I began to hate myself , I
Idk what happend to the rest of my story...

but if by any chance you want to help me please give me you&#039;re yahoo messenger or msn and i&#039;ll hit you up

thanks =]x

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<title>Resolved Question: Bar menu for my wedding?..?</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 20:52:24 GMT</pubDate>
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	My wedding is in July 2010 at a pavillion that my fiance and I have rented, on the beach. 

The only things supplied are the place its self are the chairs and tables. There is also a kitchen area with a stove/oven/refridgerator/freezer..

We are hiring a caterer, a DJ, and probably a bar tender. 

I was thinking of having a few drink choices rather than providing a full scale bar becuase I deff cant afford that. 
 I was thinking of making up a cute &quot;Bar Menu&quot; to place near the bar on some hot pink paper (my wedding color)... so that people know what their choices are

For example:
BAR MENU:

Margarita
Cosmopolotan
Malibu Bay Breeze
Screwdriver 
Vodka and Club Soda
Vodka and Cranberry 

Also listed would be the types of soda, beer, and wine that we have 

What do you think? 

It might be important for me to add that this is not a very formal wedding. I&#039;m not even wearing a wedding dress. I&#039;ll be wearing more of a white cocktail dress...and it&#039;ll be more casual/cocktail attire

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<title>Resolved Question: Need to clarify where she&#039;s going and plan accordingly. Help!?</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 15:33:06 GMT</pubDate>
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	So, I&#039;m a manager at my company. We&#039;re primarily a sales company and I run a team of 10 sales staff. My deputy (for want of a better term) has been with us for just over a year and was recently promoted. I&#039;m also a married man (10 years) and have a child. She is in an on-again, off-again relationship and is often dating. She is also extremely, and I mean extremely gorgeous.

Before anyone starts giving me sh*t please understand this: I do NOT want an affair. If I found myself single then she would be top of my list, but I am not and I am perfectly happy with my married life, thanks. The reason for asking my question is to try anf figure out if I am flattering myself (in which case, there&#039;s no problem) or if this lady does indeed have a &quot;thing&quot; for me, in which case I need to make some changes, the right ones, and quickly.

2 months ago I had an operation and couldn&#039;t drive or carry anything. She accompanied me on a two night trip out of town. On the first night our dinner meeting cancelled so we dined together. We had plenty of wine and got on very, very well. I should say we travel well together, have a lot in common, enjoy each others humour etc.

We get back to the small hotel and she looks into both rooms, pulls a funny face and says &quot;what are we doing about the sleeping arrangements...you might need to burp me&quot; which was a reference to my saying I&#039;d get a full nights sleep without my baby to burp (being a new Dad). I glossed over it and we obviously slept in our own rooms apart. Nothing more was said and her hangover was good for night two that we hit the hay sober and early.

Now, we&#039;ve finished road trip 2. This time one night one we have a great dinner, good wine and lots of fun conversation about all sorts of things. When dinner is finished she asks (for 2nd time) if I want to take her to a local (upmarket &amp; expensive) strip club. I agree (I know, maybe stupid, but in fact the club is one of our clients). We go, we have some more wine, and she has a shoulder massage from the massage girl (it&#039;s upmarket like I said).

In the taxi back she asks me to massage an area of her back the masseuse founf a problem with. When we get to the hotel she asks if I would keep going for her but in her room so she can lay down. I agree but have a smoke first outside. When I knock and get the &quot;come in&quot; she&#039;s on the bed in just her thong and bra (which is undone). She&#039;s also dug out some body lotion. I massage her back in the sore area and little up and down her kegs and leave. F&amp;#K it was hard, but I did leave. Hand on heart all I did was massage her, and she was face down, just moaning a little as I went.

Next day all is fine. She asks if I will say about the club to colleagues and i say no. She notices my hands went yellow as the lotion has self-tan in it. I joke my palms are yellow, but so&#039;s her butt. The conversation changes to the day ahead (oh, and we laughed at the joke). A little later she remarks on my hands again, asking what I will tell my wife. I say just that I used some lotion with tan in it and didn&#039;t wash it off. She says she decided not to tell the kinda-boyfriend about the club as they&#039;d talked about going to one together.

Fast forward to the end of the trip (and there is NO uneasiness or anything) and before we board the plane I say &quot;so what was the best oart of the trip&quot; and she says &quot;the first night was the best, it was fun&quot;.

OK, thats it.

She hasn&#039;t exactly made a move. Does she like me &quot;that&quot; way do you think? The massage...there WAS a big lunp in her back, for sure.

Obviously I need to be careful going forwards. But do I say anything to her? I certainly don&#039;t want her thinking it will harm her job, as it won&#039;t.

If she DOES have something for me then I need to reowrk our time together and build in some safety nets.

Then again I may just be flattering myself.

I just don&#039;t know. It&#039;s not a problem I have ever had before, assuming it&#039;s a problem.

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<title>Resolved Question: Is older wine better?</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 14:37:45 GMT</pubDate>
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	If I see a 2005 Ravenswood Cabernet Sauvignon  and a 2007 Ravenswood Cabernet Sauvignon which is going to be &quot;better&quot; of the two. Is the wine considered better after a couple years? Or does it depend on the wine for that year if it gets better or not. Or is the difference in the years immaterial. I don&#039;t need to know what you think of this particular brand so you can save that for your wine club. Thanks
The reason I&#039;m asking is because I got a four pack of Ravenswood wine at  Grocery Outlet (which is a place that sells close outs) All the Ravenswood at Safeway is 2007. But this that I got at the outlet is 2004,2005,2006. Its a variety pack.
The pour pack was 16.99 and it came in a decorative case thingy. So thats really only 4.25 a bottle. The normal price is at least twice that. Its a gift so I&#039;m not gonna test it.
Great answers. Actually this store has a policy that if it&#039;s not to your liking it can be returned, sounds like I might need to.

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<title>Resolved Question: What you think bout my rap (lyrics included)?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 22:43:21 GMT</pubDate>
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	Let me start off my saying that i&#039;m not a gangster or anything I just did this for fun. 


Verse 1
I can be automatic like the AK or semi like the glock
I run up in ya crib, and i won&#039;t take time to knock
I put the heater to ya melon and ya brains on the toaster
I treat ya like a strudell, never scared to toast ya
If i see you in the street, i wont hesitate to clap
it ain&#039;t nothin homie, i always stay with the strap

Chorus 1
Ima gangsta
i shoulda told ya
ima gangsta
i shoulda told ya
ima gangsta
i hit the trigger let the paramedics unfold ya (autopsy)

Verse 2
You know im ridin high, you see the diamonds in the whip
If i got a bad b****, its guaranteed she gone strip
I got the finest wine, all you gone need is a sip
Hit the button in the coupe, watch the trunk do flips
When you see me, cover ya eyes, the ice might blind ya
I won&#039;t stop to think, i put the lead right inside ya
I keep the realest shines, no my neck is never green
If the partys bumpin you know i&#039;m on the scene

Chorus 2
Ima pimp
I shoulda told ya
Ima pimp
I shoulda told ya
Ima pimp
I make one call, have the girls all on ya

Verse 3
Whether im driving by my house, or just rollin by the club
I gotta lift my car so the rims won&#039;t scrub
They say tomorrows never promised today
i say tomorrows promised if you ain&#039;t scared to spray
if you make the wrong move, you be layin on the pavement
you can act all hard but i&#039;m the wrong dude to play wit
if you see me pull the trigger, then you better not squeal
if i can&#039;t get to you, i know some N***** that will

Chorus 3
Ima G
I shoulda told ya
Ima G
I shoulda told ya
Ima G
I take one soft N***** and turn him to a soldier

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<title>Resolved Question: 22nd Birthday Ideas!?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 00:58:59 GMT</pubDate>
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	two of my friends wanna celebrate there 22nd bdays together.. and we all live in san diego what are some cool suggestions... we have all done all there is with the club scene.. im thinking maybe like a wine tour/party bus..Fun bar and dancing...or we were even considering a party bus to LA.. or if there&#039;s a cool spot in San Diego that&#039;s kind of a lounge spot with dancing like reserving a room.. idk so any ideas would help thanks!

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<title>Resolved Question: please can someone make sense of my situation..?</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:21:17 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	About a year ago i spliy up with this boy i went out with for a few months. I told him when he dumped me i really liked him and stuff but he didnt like me enough to go out. We tried to stay friends but it was always a bit akward. 

Recently since the beggining of septe,ber we met again at a party and we talked lots. Then i invited him to my 18th and he stayed over because he was drinking and had his car. Other people styaed over too but he wanted to sleep next to me. We got a bit flirty and stuff like cuddling in bed. 
Next thing he invited me out clubbing for his birthday, which was good. Bu we were quite close like he said to me are you cold and put his arm around me and cuddled me and stuff. The on saturdday we were both going clubbing but we didnt plan to meet. I was at a party before hand and then he phoned me and asked where i was. So i went to meet him. Bu i was so drunk he had to carry to a taxi and take me home. ( i was drunk because myfriend poured vodka in my wine without me knowing). 

I think we have become much better friends, do you think he feels sis less akward now?? because its been so long. I still like him that little bit and always will, but surely if he knew this he wouldnt act like that..

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<title>Resolved Question: Drinking too much? Alcoholism?</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 16:32:54 GMT</pubDate>
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	Im female, 23, a bit over weight, and working part time. I drink every day. weekdays, generally, about 2-3 glasses of wine a night. at the weekends, say on a night out, i can easily consume a bottle of wine for myself, on top of shots, and possibly a different drink, like vodka and coke, or malibu or something. I work at a pub, and at the end of every night shift i always have a drink, after every day shift, ill have 2 or 3. I drink generally when im out with my boyfriend, or my mates when we&#039;re at the pubs in the evening  so its always a social thing. 
im starting to notice that i dont like situations where im not drinking, because when i have a glass or two im completely relaxed and very chatty (overly sometimes). without a drink ,i feel immensely uncomfortable.
I like to drink alone sometimes, when i have the flat to myself, and generally if and when this happens, ill easily finish a bottle.
ive been drinking like this for 3 years, and have a constant want to cut-down/give up alcohol.
I fear giving up because everyone of my friends, knows me as a drinker, and we are all extremely social, and love going out pubbing and clubbing. so if i gave up,  i fear id lose my ability to have fun, or i would just crack and give in to drinking again to have fun.
Last night i went out for Halloween with friends and had one beer,2-3 glasses of wine, 2 tequila shots, and one vodka jelly. and i dont remember anything about leaving the pub. so i called in sick to work today because of the hangover.
im beginning to regret drinking every time i do, but i dont ever seem to stop, or rather i don&#039;t want to. 
i dont feel i possess an alcoholics profile, because it does not affect my friendships or my relationships with my friends and family. 

could someone PROFESSIONAL give me some advice on wether i possibly have a problem, or whether i just need to talk to someone like my GP, or can anyone ...i dont know.. 

im just starting to worry about my health, but i dont want to give up alcohol...

what problems, could arise from this? am i drinking too much? what is a reasonable amount to consume a week? 

im clueless.

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<title>Voting Question: Hi Im A 29 yr old mother of 2 babies and Im a house wife. I can&#039;t stand my husband and want a Divorce!?</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 14:35:23 GMT</pubDate>
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	I want to know what and how and who, can help with a divorce. I want my children of course, they are 20 months and 7 months. My husband would not let me work for over a yr now. I had really bad post partum depression with my last son. Thankfully Im past that. I went to a pyscharist and he put me on mood stabilarizers and colonopin. I Went out and got a job w/ out his permission, A bartender at a Country Club. Good Money. Never drank on the job. He was pissed and said it was a bad inviroment. I ended up quitting, he made it unbearable and I fiqured we would stop fighting. Didn&#039;t happen. My friend Suggested to bring the kids to Virgina for a couple days, at the time it seemed to be a good idea, He flipped when I metioned it and this is where it started. I had to take my father to get surgery on his back, I invited his parents over to watch the kids till I got back, I came back to an Empty house! He took my children ! I called the cops, They said he had a PFA on me, its a little blurry cause I was so furious! So, I called my friend and took off for Virgina for a couple days, I had to get my head striaght. Bad Idea, Shes a HUGE drama Queen and was pregnant and wanted me to baby her and go to the hospital and sit there with her everyday, There was nothing wrong with her and she is ALWAYS going to the hospital. I didn&#039;t drive 6 hrs to sit in the hospital. So when I was there I called lawyers and got thing set up for when I got home. I went out 2 nights I was there and drank. She called my husband and said I was shitfaced the entire time and that i had cheated on him. big fat LIE! I went also and sold my weddings rings, he had cancelled my credit card so, i had no money. He had a Emergency cosdide hearing for the children for the folllowing week. I tried to get a lawyer but, I had no money, he had it all. So I got a county lawyer appointed to me.Anyways, we went to court and he had said I was drinking and he was worried for the children. I think I may of drank 4 times during the span of 2 months. and when I did , the children and him were in bed, I would drink my wine and listen to music after a very long day! Never caused anyone harm.So the judge lady awared me custody of the kids form 9-6 mon-fri. Thanks full time babysitter and he would come pick them up and take them back to his moms for the nights and weekends. We did that on and off for a month, we tried to work it out and I kicked him out and then finally , I had the kids all the time. Not court ordered. He wasn&#039;t coming home and I had no money for 1 week ( thats a long time with little ones who need diapers and milk and formula) So, I went to welfare. That weekend he came and brought a whole bunch of grocerys! So I called welfare and said he did that and he said he would take care of us and we could work it out. We were still fighting like cats and dogs and lead me to use more colonpin than I should of. I had called the cops on him nuremous times for the mental abuse and torture of his mouth. They wouldnt do anything. So , One day I had fed and changed the boys and put there show on downstairs and went up to lay down for 20 mins. It was 5;20 and He would be home at 5;45. He came home and flipped shit and said I was passed out from the meds I was on. Bullshit, so the argueing got really bad and I called the cops again, this time he made me look like a horrible mother whos on drugs and leaves her children alone. Which complete BULLSHIT! I love my children with all my heart but, I was battleing Post Partum depression. He doesnt believe in post partum depression or the meds I was on to treat it. I agree the meds were to strong at first but, it had to take time I thought. Im not a dr I was just doing what I was told. But the fighting became a regular and it was just too much So, I took more than I should have to calm me down. So him and his family and My mother who knew nothing about what I was going thru, Hadnt talked to her in over 7 months came to have an Intervention on me... Are u fucking kidding me? He started all the fights and Was ALWAYS right! He knows everything and his family too. Italians very stubborn and conciede. So they made me go to rehab. I have to say it was a nice Experience , I met alot of nice people and was sort of a vacation away from everyone. So now Im out and going to meetings doing what Im suppose to do with a friend from rehab, I stayed out on a sat with my friend (whos gay) and we went to a meeting. had lunch and went to  a 5 below store. I never get out of the house, I was gone from 1030am to 5pm. The meeting was about 30 mins away and I got lost lol. But, I got home and he fought with me for an hr and putting me down and every time I go out its the same thing over an over. I just cant take it anymore! I want a Divorce but, Everythings in his name, he has a fancy lawyer, the car I drive is in his name and not paid off. I just want my kids and to leave him but, I don&#039;t want to put them in daycare. 
I dont have a job, Now of course
Ok first I would like to say, Im not unstable. He made me look this way because, of everything I was going through with my Post Partum, If youve never been through it U have no Idea How crazy you can be! Second, I had a job which he made me quit, In that time I did open a bank acct which I no longer have because, I have no job. I have tried since then to get a job, but the hrs I could work isnt possible with a reg job, thats why the bartending was perfect. If anyone knows about daycare, its a wash to work full time and pay for it. Ive been Supporting myself since I was 16. I know how hard it is out there, when I met my husband, I had my own apt and was working with him at Mercedes Benz. Ive been an Optician for 6 yrs ABO Ceritifed and would like to go back to school to be a dr. As far as the kids and leaving them downstairs, they were strapped into there chairs and love the show which is 30 mins long, they don&#039;t budge when its on. My husband,leaves them and washes his car outside!
Not to metion, I have to live up to his mother expectations. I feel like I married her too. He wants me to be Betty Fucking Crocker, Well shes dead! I cant fed them anything or him thats not HOMEMADE, do u know how hard that is when u have little  ones. I take care of the house, which by the way is for sale and I have to keep it spotless in case someone wants to look at it. I iron all his work clothes and make breakfast lunch and dinner, do everything with the kids. and I have men approch me all the time, I don&#039;t think I will have a problem finding a new one. I had a guy tell me he would work 3 jobs for me and I was dream girl. A week ago, Ive know him for quite sometime now. But, Im married and never took it there.
and did anyone read the part where he WOULDNT LET ME WORK, I had three job offers in a yrs span and he even told the judge, His pride he didn&#039;t want me working.

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<title>Resolved Question: French Club Halloween Party Costume ideas?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 01:43:49 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	ok i need help with a costume for a french halloween party
i have no clue what to be
all i know is that it has to be french i just cant be like a french student

like some ideas people chose were, the french flag, a wine bottle, a grape, marie antoinette, the eiffel tower, french poodle, an artists, chef etc

i want something really unique simple to do any ideas

and i really dont want to  be a french maid

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<title>Resolved Question: I drink a lot of alcohol, and I don&#039;t want to gain weight?</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 09:27:29 GMT</pubDate>
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	Don&#039;t tell me, &quot;ahh...diet and alcohol shouldn&#039;t be used in the same sentence.&quot; Blah Blah.

For real, though. I live in Rome, go out 3-4 nights a week - I am not quitting my alcohol. I mainly drink Vodka Orange Juice and Blush Wine. Italy is filled with nothing but Pasta and Pizza everywhere I turn. I do have access to a supermarket so what types of foods should I be buying that would, you know, prevent me from gaining weight from my alcohol-indulgence?

Yeah, I walk a lot and dance (at clubs ha).

If it ticks you off that I am asking this question, don&#039;t answer it. I don&#039;t want facts - I want understanding. LOL thanks.

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<title>Resolved Question: What are the rules on drinking wine you&#039;ve won in a raffle in a workingman&#039;s club?</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 23:04:26 GMT</pubDate>
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<title>Voting Question: I drink alcohol a lot, but I want to lose weight?</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 18:22:32 GMT</pubDate>
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	Don&#039;t tell me, &quot;ahh...diet and alcohol shouldn&#039;t be used in the same sentence.&quot;  Blah Blah.

For real, though.  I live in Rome, go out 3-4 nights a week - I am not quitting my alcohol.  I mainly drink Vodka Orange Juice and Blush Wine.  Italy is filled with nothing but Pasta and Pizza everywhere I turn.  I do have access to a supermarket so what types of foods should I be buying that would, you know, prevent me from gaining weight from my alcohol-indulgence?

Yeah, I walk a lot and dance (at clubs ha).

If it ticks you off that I am asking this question, don&#039;t answer it.  I don&#039;t want facts - I want understanding. LOL thanks.

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<title>Resolved Question: Do you think it&#039;s weird when guys order wine at a nightclub?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 19:16:01 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	I am cutting back on beer and mixed drinks, and I am starting to drink more red wine.  

The question is: do you think it&#039;s weird when men order red wine in a bar/club?  And is there any other glass I can order it in besides a wine glass?

Thanks!

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<title>Voting Question: DUI in the state of FL?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 01:14:47 GMT</pubDate>
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	I received a DUI last yr. I was at home and I drunk some wine and one of my friends called me and she need a ride from the club. I felt fine so I went trying to be a good friend. But she was acting retarded. Yelling out the window and stuff and a cop pulled us over.  They arrested me for DUI. I know I was wrong cause I should have told her to ask someone else. But my deadline is coming up for paying all the fines and I  am on probation.  Ive done everything else that I was suppose to do its just that money is tight because I lost my job.Will they sentence me to jail? What will happen ? This is the first thing I have ever done wrong in my life and I am 25 yrs old.

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<title>Resolved Question: How do you become an Oenologist?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 00:33:29 GMT</pubDate>
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	I am very inerested in wine making for a career or help with some wineries.  I have absolutely no idea on how to go about doing that.  I am fairly young but have had little less than 8yrs of wine experience (ie: wine clubs, tastings, retail).  Is it a profitable career?  Are there active wineries typically searching for Oenologists?  Anything about the actual job would be helpful.

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<title>Resolved Question: Did you know....? Random facts?</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 17:52:34 GMT</pubDate>
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	If you yelled for 8 years, 7 months and 6 days, you would have produced enough sound energy to heat up one cup of coffee.

The male praying mantis cannot copulate while its head is attached to its body. The female initiates sex by ripping the male&#039;s head off.

The human heart creates enough pressure to squirt blood 30 feet.

An ostrich&#039;s eye is bigger than its brain. (I know some people like that.)

Starfish don&#039;t have brains. (I know some people like this, too.)

On average, people fear spiders more than they do death.

A crocodile cannot stick out its tongue.

The ant can lift 50 times its own weight and pull 30 times its own weight.

Polar bears are left handed.

The flea can jump 350 times its body length. It&#039;s like a human jumping the length of six football fields.

A cockroach will live 9 days without its head before it starves to death.

Butterflies taste with their feet.

Elephants are the only animals that can&#039;t jump.

Debra Winger was the voice of E.T.

Pearls melt in vinegar. (and wine)

It takes 3,000 cows to supply the NFL with enough leather for a year&#039;s supply of footballs.

Thirty-five percent of the people who use personal ads for dating are already married.

The 3 most valuable brand names on earth: Marlboro, Coca-Cola, and Budweiser, in that order.

It&#039;s possible to lead a cow upstairs...but not downstairs.

Humans are the only primates that don&#039;t have pigment in the palms of their hands.

Ten percent of the Russian government&#039;s income comes from the sale of vodka.

The sentence &quot;The quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog,&quot; uses every letter in the alphabet. (Developed by Western Union to Test telex/two communications)

Average life span of a major league baseball: 7 pitches.

The reason firehouses have circular stairways is from the days of yore when the engines were pulled by horses. The horses were stabled on the ground floor and figured out how to walk up straight staircases.

The airplane Buddy Holly died in was the &quot;American Pie.&quot; (Thus the name of the Don McLean song.)

Each king in a deck of playing cards represents a great king from history. Spades - King David; Clubs - Alexander the Great; Hearts - Charlemagne; and Diamonds - Julius Caesar.

111,111,111 x 111,111,111 = 12,345,678,987,654,321

Clans of long ago that wanted to get rid of their unwanted people without killing them used to burn their houses down-hence the expression &quot;to get fired.&quot;

Hershey&#039;s Kisses are called that because the machine that makes them looks like it&#039;s kissing the conveyor belt. (Actually, I&#039;d heard that it was because of the sound the machine makes every time it shoots out a block of kisses; it&#039;s a smacking sound like an exaggerated kiss.)

Have fun with this and star if you like!!

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<title>Resolved Question: Is this a good infomercial about SOBE?</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 02:55:24 GMT</pubDate>
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	I have to research the city
find points of interest
events happening
interest, age, demographics
types of tours
accommodations 
food
(and present it in front of the class, it has to be about 3 minutes long)


                                           “South Beach, Miami”

        South Beach is a neighborhood of the city of Miami Beach, Florida, United States. It is the area south of Indian Creek and encompasses roughly the southernmost 23 blocks of the main barrier island that separates the Atlantic Ocean and Biscayne Bay. This area was the first section of Miami Beach to be developed, starting in the 1910s, thanks to the development efforts of Carl G. Fisher, the Lummus Brothers, John S. Collins, and others. The area has gone through numerous man-made and natural changes over the years, including a booming regional economy, increased tourism, and the 1926 hurricane, which destroyed much of the area.

History: 
       South Beach started as farmland. In 1870, Henry and Charles Lum purchased 165 acres for coconut farming, and his daughter Taylor named it &quot;South Beach&quot;. Charles Lum built the first house on the beach in 1886. In 1894, the Lum brothers left the island, leaving control of the plantation to John Collins, who came to South Beach two years later to survey the land. He used the land for farming purposes, discovering fresh water and extending his parcel from 14th Street to 67th in 1907.

       In both daytime and at nightfall, the South Beach section of Miami Beach is a major entertainment destination with hundreds of nightclubs, restaurants, boutiques and hotels. The area is popular with both American and international tourists (mainly from Europe, Latin America, Canada, Israel, the Caribbean and within the United States), with some having permanent or second homes. The large number of European and Brazilian tourists also explains their influence on South Beach&#039;s lax and overall tolerance of topless sunbathing, despite it being a public beach.

Points of interest:
Lincoln Road: is an open-air pedestrian mall, considered South Beach&#039;s premiere shopping area. It is home to many restaurants and several night clubs, such as Score and Funktion, as well as many retail outlets. 
Ocean Drive: is the easternmost street in South Beach, and stems from south of First to 15th Street, running in a north-south direction. Ocean Drive is responsible for the South Beach aesthetic that most out-of-town visitors expect. It is a popular Spring Break and tourist area, including the famous, yet predominantly local, Pearl and Nikki Beach night spots.
Washington Avenue: is one of the best-known streets in South Beach. Running parallel with Ocean and Collins, Washington is notorious for having some of the world&#039;s largest and most popular nightclubs, such as Cameo and Mansion. During &quot;season&quot; (October 15 to May 15) the street is jammed with traffic until early in the morning (as late as 6 am) every night of the week. In the 1990s explosion of South Beach as a nightclub venue, its nightclub moguls included Ingrid Casares, whose investors included the singer Madonna.
South Beach Park: on Ocean Drive and 2nd St
Washington Park: on Washington Av and 2nd St
Historical Museum of Southern Florida
101 W. Flagler Street
Miami, Florida 33130

Miami Metro Zoo
12400 SW 152nd Street
Miami, Florida 33177

Nightlife
 South Beach has an active club and bar scene. It is host to more than 150 clubs and other venues, most of which close at 5 am. South Beach can be expensive, and access to nightclubs is often difficult for non-locals who do not have connections, or do not plan their evenings. 
Nightlife in South Beach is dynamic and ever-changing, although The Clevelander and Mac&#039;s Club Deuce have remained steadfast tourist destinations on Ocean Drive for well over a decade. The average club is only open for about a season or less. Recently, the local government has been taking steps to prevent these short-lived venues from establishing themselves at all.
Events:
                                                         October 2009

Event:  WDNA&#039;s 12th Annual Miami Jazz Film Festival 
Dates:  10/1/2009 to 10/4/2009 
Description:  WDNA-FM 88.9 Public Radio presents its 12th Annual Miami Jazz Film Festival with over twelve documentary films with a focus on jazz and world music. 7 p.m. 
Location:  Tower Theater ~ 1508 SW 8th St. ~ Miami, FL 33131 
Little Havana 

Event:  8th Annual Wine on Harvest Moon 
Dates:  10-3-2009 
Description:  Fine wine, fine food and fine art under the golden light of the Harvest Moon over Biscayne Bay at the Deering Estate at Cutler. 
Location:  Deering Estate at Cutler ~ 16701 SW 72nd Ave. ~ Miami, FL 33157 



Event:  Italian Film Festival 
Dates:  10/8/2009 to 10/13/2009 
This award-winning festival features screenings of new films in competition as well as short films, seminars, a tribute to Italian Classic Cinema and closing ceremony awards. 
Location:  Regal

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<title>Resolved Question: What sounds like more fun to you?</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 00:10:44 GMT</pubDate>
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	Going out to a party/club and getting wasted on hard liquor

OR

Inviting 10 or so of your best friends to your apartment and eating something homemade with bread and wine?



I&#039;m just curious =] People are so interesting when it comes to alcohol

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<title>Resolved Question: Im so so so SEXUALLY frustrated ! Why won&#039;t the guy Im dating touch my private parts AFTER several months?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 01:13:56 GMT</pubDate>
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	If he hasn&#039;t touch me &quot;down there&quot; after 12 dates/4 months should I run away ? Red Flag ?
I have been friends long distance with a guy for 2 plus years.
during that time i had a boyfriend and then he a gf so we couldnt date.
finally this year we were both single.
he lives 3 hours away.
I am moving to his city for a new job and to be closer to friends in december.
we&#039;ve gone on 12 dates since Memorial Day.
he is 36 and im 30
i used to model and try to stay in good shape and stay um clean and neat &#039;down there&#039;
we seem to kiss well and he flirt with me in little ways
on the 7th date i slept over and finally gave him oral.
he said he was surprised i would do and that and be good at it since i seem so old fashioned.

since then ive done it twice more.
but he hasnt touched me there

finally i have brought it up in a lighthearted manner for the last 3 dates.
1 st time he replied he was protecting my chastity. (huh ? i already gave him oral lol)
2nd time he blamed being exhausted from drinking
3rd time (two days ago) we had spent the whole weekend together, eating, going out to clubs drinking, watching football and even attended church services. A very intimate together weekend.

he claimed he had too much wine and didnt even ask for oral, instead he kissed me for about 10 minutes in bed, felt my breast and hugged me and fell asleep.

the next more he kissed me again as he was making coffee.


i dont understand him.
does he just have a low sex drive ? is he &#039;waiting&#039; to touch me when he decides he wants to be exclusive couple ? is he gay ?

very confused and upset.

    * 1 hour ago
    * - 4 days left to answer.

Additional Details
ive only slept with 3 other guys in my whole life. but guys i have dated have all shown/expressed that they wanted to touch my private parts. i feel like he&#039;s a ken doll.
very handsome sexy but not a man.
i dont know, perhaps a madonna /wh0re complex ?

i mean i even found him posting last year on pick up artist sites on how to get girls. so i dont see him being gay. th eonly slightly gay signs are he once told me his married best childhood friend has nine inches and he certainly doesnt. that he once got a calf massage from his friends wife&#039;s gay brother who was a masseuse and also he a little preoccupied with staying very in shape with big pecs, having a perfect hair and no wrinkles. he also finds girls with tiny butts skinny legs and little boobs hottest and told me anything over size 10 is huge.


so i dont know if he wants me super skinny or he isnt attracted to me or is insecure or gay


going nuts. please help[ ! :(
and i dont even need to receive oral, im just talking about him touching me or *trying* to touch me there. im sorry but every other man ive been with has been respectful, BUT theyve all finally shown they&#039;re men with libidos after 6 or 7 dates!

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<title>Resolved Question: If he hasn&#039;t touch me &quot;down there&quot; after 12 dates/4 months should I run away ? Red Flag ?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 23:45:03 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	I have been friends long distance with a guy for 2 plus years.
during that time i had a boyfriend and then he a gf so we couldnt date.
finally this year we were both single.
he lives 3 hours away.
I am moving to his city for  a new job and to be closer to friends in december.
we&#039;ve gone on 12 dates since Memorial Day.
he is 36 and im 30
i used to model and try to stay in good shape and stay um clean and neat &#039;down there&#039;
we seem to kiss well and he flirt with me in little ways
on the 7th date i slept over and finally gave him oral.
he said he was surprised i would do and that and be good at it since i seem so old fashioned.

since then ive done it twice more.
but he hasnt touched me there

finally i have brought it up in a lighthearted manner for the last 3 dates.
1 st time he replied he was protecting my chastity. (huh ? i already gave him oral lol)
2nd time he blamed being exhausted from drinking
3rd time (two days ago) we had spent the whole weekend together, eating, going out to clubs drinking, watching football and even attended church services. A very intimate together weekend.

he claimed he had too much wine and didnt even ask for oral, instead he kissed me for about 10 minutes in bed, felt my breast and hugged me and fell asleep.

the next more he kissed me again as he was making coffee.


i dont understand him.
does he just have a low sex drive ? is he &#039;waiting&#039; to touch me when he decides he wants to be exclusive couple ? is he gay ?

very confused and upset.
ive only slept with 3 other guys in my whole life. but guys i have dated have all shown/expressed that they wanted to touch my private parts. i feel like he&#039;s a ken doll.
very handsome sexy but not a man.
i dont know, perhaps a madonna /wh0re complex ?

i mean i even found him posting last year on pick up artist sites on how to get girls. so i dont see him being gay.

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<title>Voting Question: Im not sure if my friend is talking to me. Any ideas?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 17:39:18 GMT</pubDate>
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	My friend lives in London and I live in Edinburgh. She is a very dear friend/lover (it&#039;s complicated, not just f**ck buddies). Anyway I hadn&#039;t seen her for months so I went down to London for her birthday but had a fight the night before I left (the night of her birthday) because I had said I wanted to go clubbing with her and and other friends but when I realized I had very little money and that the club closed at 5am(I had to leave at 6am) I told her I couldn&#039;t go and she got pissed off.

I have sent her a few texts and I called her when I got back home. She answered that call but said she was in a hurry so it was short phone call. I haven&#039;t heard for her other than that since London. 

She is in edinburgh this weekend and it would be cool to know if she is talking to me... What do you think and what should I do to say sorry to her? I was thinking of getting her some ice cream and maybe a nice bottle of wine.
Pleading is just pathetic and doesn&#039;t work with anyone, ever.

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<title>Resolved Question: Who do I contact to get our wines into Disneyland clubs, restaurants, and hotels?</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 21:06:53 GMT</pubDate>
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	I&#039;m representing a winery in CA, I want to know who I can contact to get our wines at Disneyland clubs, restaurants or hotels?

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<title>Resolved Question: I can&#039;t take my mother anymore...help!?</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 16:08:16 GMT</pubDate>
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	Ok, not to toot my own horn, but I&#039;m a decent kid.
I&#039;m 17, and a junior in high school. 
I get good grades, I have a job, I participate in a lot of school things...
GSA, Student Government, Art club, Pledge, NHS...plus I TA and I&#039;m in youth group (I&#039;m a devout Christian, my mother is NOT)
I do not smoke or do drugs. I do not drink (except I have had a glass of wine at my aunts wedding WITH permission)
Yet my mother insists that I&#039;m so horrible while she raises my slacker siblings on pedestals. I get more support and love at school than at home...and if I talk to her about it she says shut up and quit exaggerating!! What can I do?!

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<title>Voting Question: I can&#039;t deal with my mother any more....I&#039;m going insaaane!!?</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 15:26:18 GMT</pubDate>
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	Ok, not to toot my own horn, but I&#039;m a decent kid.
I&#039;m 17, and a junior in high school. 
I get good grades, I have a job, I participate in a lot of school things...
GSA, Student Government, Art club, Pledge, NHS...plus I TA and I&#039;m in youth group (I&#039;m a devout Christian, my mother is NOT)
I do not smoke or do drugs. I do not drink (except I have had a glass of wine at my aunts wedding WITH permission)
Yet my mother insists that I&#039;m so horrible while she raises my slacker siblings on pedestals. I get more support and love at school than at home...and if I talk to her about it she says shut up and quit exaggerating!! What can I do?!
&quot;M&quot;...that&#039;s my opinion! 
I mean, I&#039;m off to Spain for college in a year...and I plan on cutting her out completely- no communication, she will cease to exhist. But then my youth pastor tells me that I shouldn&#039;t do that, while other people say I should! And I feel I should! She&#039;s unhealthy for me...
Advise please- haaaha! I can&#039;t stand her...but I don&#039;t hate her that much! Plus, I&#039;m not fond of chili.... =)

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<title>Resolved Question: I can NOT handle my mother! She&#039;s driving me INSANE!!!?</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 15:24:52 GMT</pubDate>
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	Ok, not to toot my own horn, but I&#039;m a decent kid.
I&#039;m 17, and a junior in high school. 
I get good grades, I have a job, I participate in a lot of school things...
GSA, Student Government, Art club, Pledge, NHS...plus I TA and I&#039;m in youth group (I&#039;m a devout Christian, my mother is NOT)
I do not smoke or do drugs. I do not drink (except I have had a glass of wine at my aunts wedding WITH permission)
Yet my mother insists that I&#039;m so horrible while she raises my slacker siblings on pedestals. I get more support and love at school than at home...and if I talk to her about it she says shut up and quit exaggerating!! What can I do?!
I mean, I&#039;m off to Spain for college in a year...and I plan on cutting her out completely- no communication, she will cease to exhist. But then my youth pastor tells me that I shouldn&#039;t do that, while other people say I should! And I feel I should! She&#039;s unhealthy for me...
I mean, I&#039;m off to Spain for college in a year...and I plan on cutting her out completely- no communication, she will cease to exhist. But then my youth pastor tells me that I shouldn&#039;t do that, while other people say I should! And I feel I should! She&#039;s unhealthy for me...

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<title>Resolved Question: I can&#039;t take my mother anymore? She&#039;s honestly driving me insane!?</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 15:24:12 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	Ok, not to toot my own horn, but I&#039;m a decent kid.
 I&#039;m 17, and a junior in high school. 
I get good grades, I have a job, I participate in a lot of school things...
GSA, Student Government, Art club, Pledge, NHS...plus I TA and I&#039;m in youth group (I&#039;m a devout Christian, my mother is NOT)
I do not smoke or do drugs. I do not drink (except I have had a glass of wine at my aunts wedding WITH permission)
Yet my mother insists that I&#039;m so horrible while she raises my slacker siblings on pedestals. I get more support and love at school than at home...and if I talk to her about it she says shut up and quit exaggerating!! What can I do?!

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<title>Resolved Question: I&#039;m looking for suggestions for a 3-4 day weekend for about 150-200 adults between 35-55 years old.?</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 06:45:54 GMT</pubDate>
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	My ski club has a summerfest every year.  For 2010 I&#039;m on a committee to suggest a getaway.  Two years in a row, we went to South Beach and blocked rooms in a hotel and had several group activities (beach ball, dinner, games, etc.)  This year, we went on a cruise.  So I&#039;m looking for something we can do together in 2010 and that means we&#039;ll need a place to stay and nearby should lend itself to several fun group activities that will allow people to choose from one or two activities.  I thought about a wine tasting weekend, but don&#039;t know what we could do when not winetasting.

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<title>Resolved Question: am i weird that i spent the night painting and creating than out clubbing and drunk?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 13:06:16 GMT</pubDate>
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	its saturday night, i am 22 and instead of clubbing and getting drunk off my face i am choosing to stay in put some of my fav music on, have a glass of wine and paint on canvas.

i love to paint and create new things, a glass of wine has def helped and i am taking a break, i just finshed a huge canvas painting (arcylic paint).

I prefer to do this and be creative and have fun on my own like this than be out and drunk ect

am i weird? is this abnormal for a 22 year old?

iv been on the party scene since i was 18 and just got back from london 2 weeks ago and canberra just isnt london when it comes to clubs lol

am i odd?

honest asnwers only please :)

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