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<title>Open Question: Freestyle about my dad drinking and smoking. Rate?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:05:31 GMT</pubDate>
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	I&#039;m watching my dad drink
its like watching the weakest link
hes back to drinking again
just when i thought he was my friend
addiction is something you can&#039;t fight off
you have to fight and don&#039;t be soft
he&#039;s sneaking out smoking
i thought he stopped but i guess he was joking
it won&#039;t be far until i see him choking
death cannot be stopped
as soon as you think you won
you&#039;ve just got locked
i thought you were clean
but you just like a confused teen
get your mind cleared
or you might get your ass reared
you need to stay on top and get lean
this is your future, its easily to be foreseen


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Just a freestyle from the top of my head, this wasn&#039;t pre-written. My dad has an addiction problem, I wanted to get my emotions out.

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<title>Open Question: help me please! my friend smokes!?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:43:50 GMT</pubDate>
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	ok he&#039;s only 13 and he told me he smokes on fridays and i really don&#039;t want him to because all these bad things happen from smoking and he really shouldn&#039;t do it what should i do to make him stop ????? please help me!!!

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<title>Open Question: how can i get my friend to stop smoking marijuana?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:34:31 GMT</pubDate>
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	my friend is smoking a lot and he has started experimenting with other drugs... but i feel like weed is the source of the problem. it isnt too serious yet with the other drugs but it can get worse. help?

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<title>Open Question: Air Force ROTC Drug Test HELP?!!?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:48:00 GMT</pubDate>
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	I am joining an AFROTC program. I just sent in my first application and will have the rest of it done within the next few weeks (its all due at the end of december). Anyways, I like to smoke, but am willing to give it up for the air force. Basically, when would i get drug tested if accepted? I know that  if they just did a urine test I wuold be fine because i would stop in time, but I have admitted in the app to have smoked, and fear that they might choose to use a blood test instead. Does anyone know if this is true? Or will they continue to just do a urine test?
Thank you soo much for looking.
Answers will be appreciated, I am kinda freaking out here.

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<title>Open Question: what to do a wife who sucks me with her advices?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:26:03 GMT</pubDate>
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	hello iam freddy antony.i am having a wife and she is a doctor.she is very beautiful,well mannered,lovely and very disciplined.i have passed engg and currently iam jobless.due to my characteristic behavior,nobody will give me a job.my wife is okay,she cares about me ,loves me and also respect my parents.but the problem is that she every time.ie every time iam in the house she showers me with her advices.&quot;fred you must be like this,you must work hard,you must stop drinking,you must quit smoking&quot;etc...and iam totally sucked up with this.iam a guy who doesnt like women to advice me,because i think they just dont have the right to interfere in a man&#039;s business.it is better to die than hearing a girl&#039;s advice.i accepts that iam little spoilt .&quot;alchohol,tobacco and gambling have spoilt me much&quot;.but also these are icons of masculinity.a female doesn&#039;t have the right to question me.but now iam not in a position to mess up with her.because all the pocket money iam getting is from her salary and if i quarrell with her i may have to sell my kidneys for a bacardi.but my friends say that iam cheating her,well i dont think so.what i should do to stop this bloody advicing of my wife.remember iam living in india where relations and family are still very important issues.shall i take her to a counsellor.or is it a problem of mine?do your wives advices you.in that case what will be your feelings.reply me .(sorry for my fuckin indian english)

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<title>Open Question: George Harrison interview?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:23:57 GMT</pubDate>
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	I need help finding a George Harrison interview. My dad saw it when I was maybe, 4, so I don&#039;t remember it.

It was right before he died. It was him saying that he was dying and it was because he smoked all his life. He was saying how everyone should stop smoking now, or they&#039;ll end up like him.

Was this an actual interview he did or is my dad lying?

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<title>Open Question: how do you stop someone from smoking marijuana that has been for 8 years straight?is there a cure or secret?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:01:35 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	please i need real answer its a really serious matter

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<title>Open Question: i really need good advice and help about my mom?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 01:37:06 GMT</pubDate>
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	I&#039;m currently 14. I have lived with my mother my whole live, and my parents have been divorced, she re-married to this man that i don&#039;t love but he isn&#039;t horrible. Anyways, back to where i&#039;m trying to get at.. my mom like hates me or something ever since 6th grade i feel so rejected by her, she is always at my grandmas and leaves me with my step dad who I don&#039;t like being around to much, only because I wish it was my dad. She never helps me with my home work, she never like cares about me like makes me try in school, makes me go to school, does everything a normal mom would.. i know some people wish there mom was like that but i wish the opposite and when i try to talk to her she yells at me.. and if she isn&#039;t at my grandmas shes in the garage on her blackberry smoking, which is what i hate too i have begged her to stop, i understand she can&#039;t but her and my step dad don&#039;t need to give me the second hand smoke.. because i can&#039;t stand the smell and it makes me have a harder time breathing then normal.. she never listens to me and when i try to have a life with my friends.. i never can because if we try to go to the mall.. or something she blows me off and leaves so i don&#039;t have a ride.. or money.. or anything.. and she makes me go to bed, make my dinner, everything and treats me like im 18 or something. but when it comes to privileges she treats me like im 10 still.. i hate that she does this i always see other moms being happy with there daughters like they love them to death.. my mom just doesn&#039;t do that. i&#039;m also very emotional so one thing she does makes me cry which then when she catches me she calls me a baby.. i also get really frustrated with her sometimes because, i don&#039;t have my own room, i sleep in a hallway since my step brother had to have my room.. so i never have any privacy and since its next to the kitchen if i&#039;m trying to sleep for school and she comes in and turns on the light and i ask her not to in the morning nicely she yells at me again.. she never listens to me at all and i hate it so much.. i really just need help on something i can do.. i have tried talking to her.. i wrote her a letter.. everything she won&#039;t listen.. what do i do :/

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<title>Open Question: Help me please. (involves boy, a b*tch, and a juicy story)?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:35:21 GMT</pubDate>
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	(( I&#039;ll try to make it short, but whoever gives me the best answer will get 10 points! (;  ))

So I like this guy but he&#039;s a pretty  bad kid ( a problem already ). He drinks, smokes, does weed...and who knows what else. But he &#039;seems&#039; pretty nice. I met him at our dance and he asked me to dance so we grinded. It was weird because he was the first guy that grinded with me that held my hands. We weren&#039;t facing each other, we were both facing one way. I moved my head a little and he put his cheek on mine. I swear it was the sweetest thing, especially since grinding isn&#039;t meant to be romantic.

Anyways I became his friend on facebook and he talked to me. But then I stopped talking because I had nothing to say. A couple weeks later, I talk to him on facebook chat,( the day before yesterday), and we talked for awhile. he added me on msn and we continued talking.

But yesterday, he was online but he didn&#039;t talk to me AT ALL. I don&#039;t want to keep making the first move. So what does this mean? Does he like me? However, at school he constantly looks at me ( and no I&#039;m not imagining it or just being hopeful. I&#039;m more sensible than that )

Another thing is that there&#039;s this huge bitch that&#039;s tight with him, and she hates me and I hate her. If she talks sh*t about me to him, is it common for guy&#039;s to listen and believe it?

(( GUYS AND GIRLS ANSWER PLEASE! THANKS))
-any questions just ask, thanks!

summary question:
1. Does he like me
2. Would he believe the b*tch about sh*t she says about me.

``
Becky: yeahh that might be true, I guess the truth hurts. But heck I&#039;m not gonna let it hurt me that much :P
 Thanks

No name: I honestly hope you&#039;re right, because before I left for the leadership clowning, my class was in the cafe and he was there with his friends, and every time I looked up at him, he would already be looking at me.



The only thing I find weird is why he doesn&#039;t talk to me on msn, when he&#039;s online..

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<title>Open Question: Is marijuana a sin? Where does it say in the bible?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:22:03 GMT</pubDate>
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	Guys is smoking marijuana a sin in christianity? I&#039;m not addicted to weed and i dont let it control me. i smoke around once every 2 weeks and is it a sin? if it is against God than i will gladly stop, so it would be great if you guys can tell me.

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<title>Open Question: Athleticism and Marijuana?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:18:23 GMT</pubDate>
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	I am currently a junior in high school playing a high level of soccer. I play varsity as well as a high level club team. I am aiming to play college soccer and i am scared if my performance will be affected by marijuana. I DO NOT SMOKE FREQUENTLY. i quit because i became very paranoid, and if i did start i would smoke around once every 2 weeks. Would this stop me from getting better and faster? not stay the way i am, but would it stop me from getting better? I enjoy smoking weed, but if it is to affect my soccer career, than i will gladly stop. help me :[

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<title>Open Question: Am I being unfair or unreasonable? I&#039;m not giving him an ultimatum...He has known how i am since day 1. help!?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:06:05 GMT</pubDate>
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	Am I being reasonable, or unreasonable?
I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. I&#039;m 24, he&#039;s 26. He is amazing, i love him alot. Before we started dating, I told him all the reasons why I&#039;m not casual relationship material. I&#039;m a practicing christian, I rarely party [maybe twice a year], and i&#039;m looking for &#039;the&#039; relationship- to have kids, get married etc. He said he wanted a serious relationship too, and after a little while of being friends we were a couple. Here&#039;s the thing. He was a Pothead at the time he met me. I didn&#039;t know it until one night when we were on a date and I asked him, because a friend of mine suspected he was. He admitted to it, but said he was quitting, because he wanted to when he turned 25 anyway. he was completely done with it the first 3 months of &#039;us&#039;. Then he occasionally [maybe once a month] smoked with friends. I told him very rarely was ok, but i can&#039;t be w/ someone who has a habit. We had our ups and downs...[the usual- where you&#039;re learning about e/oth and how to get along] I stayed at his place for a few months [out of necessity, it wasn&#039;t something i wanted to do] and now I&#039;ve lived seperate from him for a couple months. He is smoking again. I&#039;m heartbroken over this, b/c i saw how happy and confident he was when he stopped- he had no anxiety, he was feeling and looking healthy. Now he&#039;s anxious again etc. [but denies it of course.  i see a definite difference though]  He asked me the other night about getting married [not official proposal]. I told him i can&#039;t right now because of this smoking thing. I told him my feelings on weed- i&#039;m not a hater..i have probably 3 friends that smoke it and that&#039;s their choice. I have smoked before, but for me it&#039;s something that happens once a year if that. his idea of &#039;occasional&#039; and mine are very different. I just told him i don&#039;t want it part of my life. If i marry him and he smokes it&#039;s about me too, not just a personal choice of his that wont affect me. He&#039;s taking it personal- that i don&#039;t love him and accept &#039;who he is&#039;. i LOVE who he is, i just hate the substance as a regular thing. it would be the same if it were opposite, and he got drunk all the time. I want to be with him, but only want a marriage if/when he isn&#039;t doing that b/c frankly i don&#039;t see myself married to someone who smokes weed every weekend especially because we want children. I should think it would be a good thing.....you know, that he can enjoy this time to hang with his friends and smoke on the weekends/ every few days. Then when he&#039;s over it we can marry. Why is he pushing the marriage thing though? HE is the one that wants it badly, but i told him i can&#039;t accept weed. Never have, never will. Why is he pressuring me so much? am i being unfair? He knew this about me from the beginning. He likes my morals, says he doesn&#039;t want to date someone that smokes but expects me to accept it on the regular!  I&#039;m pretty much a believer of moderation for anything- i hate addictions.
 
It&#039;s just hard. He is a christian too, but we differ on this. And  I don&#039;t mind occasional beer [in moderation]. Weed is illegal for one, and bad for your lungs. Plus, i know that the parannoia and anxiety don&#039;t happen often with beer. yes the illegal part scares me also. I think he could hold down a good job, but what if he loses it, and then needs another asap but can&#039;t get one b/c of weed? that could be bad if we had a baby or something.
 
as i said, i&#039;m not a hater and i love being with him.  but i can&#039;t just give into his pressure and MARRY him like this.  I see marraige as something for us when we are both mature and don&#039;t have anything like this in our lives- he isn&#039;t there yet.

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<title>Open Question: How can i get my mom to stop smoking?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:04:34 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	My mom says she under alot of stress but she has high blood pleasure and she smokes ALOT, i tired telling her thats its bad for her but she want listen. How can i get her to stop or at least slow down???

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<title>Open Question: How to help a kid stop smoking?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:48:42 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	I have been smoking for over 6 months and in order to keep my girlfriend happy i decided to quit i have just about a weekend, how? what do i use to keep me busy? i am 13 btw

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<title>Open Question: Am I being reasonable, or unreasonable?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:24:41 GMT</pubDate>
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	I have been with my boyfriend for a year now.  I&#039;m 24, he&#039;s 26.  He is amazing, i love him alot.  Before we started dating, I told him all the reasons why I&#039;m not casual relationship material.  I&#039;m a practicing christian, I rarely party [maybe twice a year], and i&#039;m looking for &#039;the&#039; relationship- to have kids, get married etc.  He said he wanted a serious relationship too, and after a little while of being friends we were a couple.  Here&#039;s the thing.  He was a Pothead at the time he met me.  I didn&#039;t know it until one night when we were on a date and I asked him, because a friend of mine suspected he was.  He admitted to it, but said he was quitting, because he wanted to when he turned 25 anyway.  he was completely done with it the first 3 months of &#039;us&#039;.  Then he occasionally [maybe once a month] smoked with friends.  I told him very rarely was ok, but i can&#039;t be w/ someone who has a habit.  We had our ups and downs...[the usual- where you&#039;re learning about e/oth and how to get along] I stayed with him for a few months [out of necessity, it wasn&#039;t something i wanted to do] and now I&#039;ve lived out for a couple months.  He is smoking again.  I&#039;m heartbroken over this, because i saw how happy and confident he was when he stopped- he had no anxiety, he was feeling and looking healthy.  Now he&#039;s anxious again etc.  It&#039;s not horrible, but i notice it.  He asked me the other night about getting married [not official proposal].  I told him i can&#039;t right now because of this smoking thing.  I told him my feelings on weed- i&#039;m not a hater..i have probably 3 friends that smoke it and that&#039;s their choice.  I have smoked before, but for me it&#039;s something that happens once a year if that. his idea of &#039;occasional&#039; and mine are very different.  I just told him i don&#039;t want it part of my life.  If i marry him and he smokes it&#039;s about me too, not just a personal choice of his that wont affect me.  He&#039;s taking it personal- that i don&#039;t love him and accept &#039;who he is&#039;.  i LOVE who he is, i just hate the substance as a regular thing.  it would be the same if it were opposite, and he got drunk all the time.  I want to be with him, but only want a marriage if/when he isn&#039;t doing that b/c frankly i don&#039;t see myself married to someone who smokes weed every weekend especially because we want children.  I should think it would be a good thing.....you know, that he can enjoy this time to hang with his friends and smoke on the weekends/ every few days.  Then when he&#039;s over it we can marry.  Why is he pushing the marriage thing though?  HE is the one that wants it badly, but i told him i can&#039;t accept weed.  Never have, never will.  Why is he pressuring me so much?  am i being unfair?  He knew this about me from the beginning.  He likes my morals, says he doesn&#039;t want to date someone that smokes but expects me to accept it!
**i meant &#039;stayed with him&#039; as in Lived with him**
It&#039;s just hard.  He is a christian too, but we differ on this.  And to the first answerer- I don&#039;t mind the beer.  Weed is illegal for one, and bad for your lungs.  Plus, i know you&#039;d agree that the parannoia and anxiety dont&#039; happen often with beer.  to answrer #2...yes the illegal part scares me also.  I think he could hold down a good job, but what if he loses it, and then needs another asap but can&#039;t get one b/c of weed?  that could be bad if we had a baby or something.
He&#039;s said that he would stop/ he&#039;s said he&#039;ll never stop.
Honestly, that scares me further from marrying him.  I don&#039;t know what he&#039;s really going to do.

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<title>Open Question: does the Vapor King work?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:11:53 GMT</pubDate>
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	my brother is looking to stop smoking and well i need to know DOES IT WORK!???!! because i really want him to stop it is such a bad habit. Please Help!

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<title>Open Question: WHat do you think of my book report?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:08:07 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	Glenn Beck&#039;s Arguing with idiots
                          how to stop small minds and big government.

#1 new york times best seller Glenn beck comes back yet again with another new york times best seller  arguing with idiots, is where Mr. Beck explains when a liberal mind comes at you with a question that catches you off guard, he explains how to talk so sense into them. Mr. Beck also explains the evils of big government. why our government try to:
take away our guns, tell us that using red pens on our children&#039;s school papers is bad for their self-esteem, telling us that using green cars is the only way to save the planet, and that illegal immigration is good for America because these are the kind of jobs Americans don&#039;t want ( which is NOT true!) and all the progressive president whose main goal is:  taking away our freedoms so they can rule the way we live to their rules.
as Thomas Jefferson once said &quot;A Government Big Enough to give you everything you want is Strong Enough to take everything you have.&quot; this book explains in a understandable way to why the government wants to take over our freedoms and telling us these things: smoking is bad,you shouldn&#039;t leave you baby alone in the bath, coffee is hot, you shouldn&#039;t put a toilet brush in your mouth, to remove your child before folding up your stroller, and don&#039;t touch a chainsaw when it is moving,
do we need them to tell us these things? do the politicians think we&#039;re idiots cause all the guidelines they to sure suggest so.
oh and don&#039;t forget during the depression when there weren&#039;t any jobs being made but lots of jobs being lost, and FDR got elected to the presidency, what did he do to help? over a period of 6 years he made over thirty four acts to get the economy going again. 34 acts! he acturally prolonged the depression the only way we got out of the great depression was though world war II, because as all the men went out to serve they&#039;re country, all the women were left behind and took the Mens place in all the jobs.
oh and all the people who are objective to capitalism and who say socialism is so much better it&#039;s all even steven, you get all the same pay the same work it&#039; must be fair right? they say capitalism is a &quot;failure&quot; well I tell you this it&#039;s not pure capitalism it&#039;s a mix of capitalism, and greed when money greed get they&#039;re s no telling what will happen.
oh and the BIGGEST issue with the liberals what thy want more than anything is the control of...... drum roll please... HEALTH CARE REFORM!!
WHY? does it work so much better than our system we have now?
actually it doesn&#039;t that&#039;s just what they want us to believe.
quote from Mr. Beck&#039;s arguing with idiots on healthcare in great Britain, &quot;About 20 percent of patients with colon cancer at the time of discovery are considered incurable by the time treatment is finally available&quot; now what does that tell us?
that we have to wait for care, wait,wait,wait and wait and by the time heath care is available it&#039;s too late.
in Canada they have a lottery ticket sort of thing for healthcare.
now these are the things that are going on in our country and no one will talk about them,  this book highlights all the things every American should know.

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<title>Open Question: What does smoking while your pregnant due to the baby?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:02:57 GMT</pubDate>
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	My sister is 37 weeks and she has been smoking through her whole pregnancy. I keep telling her to stop and it will kill the baby but she keeps saying I&#039;ll stop after I have him.I wanna strangle her. Do you know anyone like this?

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<title>Open Question: What should I do about my depressed husband...?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 22:40:37 GMT</pubDate>
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	1. He lost his job 3 months ago where he worked as a mechanic for his dad. His dad ended up firing him and he currently collects unemployment. 
a. he stays home with our daughter during the day when i work. He complains about having to do so.  I know he genuinely loves her and is a really loving father and plays with her, but is bothered by the challenges of caring for a 2 year old all day. 
b. Since he lost his job, he complains about his life whether it&#039;s his job or watching our daughter all day.

2. He has a drinkng/marijuanna addiction, and yes he always has, but I thought things would change after we had our daughter. He has tried to quit both, but has always failed. 

3. We have a 2 1/2 year old daughter and have been married for 2 years, together 4. 

4. I work at a law firm 30 hours a week, before he lost his job i worked about 20 hours per week.(which he doesn&#039;t acknowledge or ever express appreciattion for.)

5. His childhood friend, Jason, has been staying at our house about 4 times a week because his wife kicked him out of his house with two kids. Jason is also an alcoholic and pot head. 
a. I feel Jason is mooching and interfering with our family and his depression is making my husbands depression worse. I feel like it is me against them. 

6. For about a year my husband tells me I&#039;m bitching at him when Im simply talking to him, as I would a friend. he thinks its bit**ing, I think im talking about anything and everything with my partner, even if it doesn&#039;t directly concern him. For example &quot;OMG our daughter got into the rolaids!!! OH NO&quot; and he thought i was implying it was his fault she got into them. I was genuinly just shocked. THIS IS CONSTANT! no matter what i say, he thinks its nag or bit***ng at him. In my mind I know i am not. I feel his low self esteem and depression is causing him to feel simple comments are direct shots at him.

7. The whole time we&#039;ve been together, but much more so recently he lies about little petty things. For example: 
a.  Yesterday, I came home and the bathroom reaked badly like cleaner. I asked what happened, and my husband replied, he cleaned it because all kinds of hair came out of the drain and it was gross. Later I noticed puke on the side of the tub, I asked who puked in the tub?  and he said, Jason did. So I asked why he lied about cleaning the bathroom. He said because I didn&#039;t want you to be a b***h to jason about it. (which i would not have done, especially if he asked me not to say anything).  He was upset and yelled &quot;You never stop bit***ng do you?&quot; and left our house to drink all night.

b. Another time, I left a cigarette on the dresser, no one was around to smoke it except for me and my husband. I asked im if he&#039;d smoked it (as it was our last one) he replied, &quot;I don&#039;t know where you lost that cigarette, you must have done something with it.&quot; I know exactly where i left it. He was the only person there since i left it there, and it sounds petty, I know. But thats exactly the point, why lie about something so little and petty, I really wouldn&#039;t have minded if he told me the truth. 

8. Besides the joy my daughter brings into my life, I have been very unhappy for about a year, but especially recently. Please help.
ANY substance abuse that effects your life negatively is called additcion. Pot, for example, may or may not be a bad drug/plant. It depends on the user and if it affects their life negatively or positively.
pot and alcohol affect my husband&#039;s life negatively
BTW this question was asked by my friend. We both decided to come here on yahoo answers for outside, non biased advice. So this is HER question, we are just using my yahoo account.

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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 21:30:57 GMT</pubDate>
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	Mine was awsome. I drank 2 bottles of Robitussin cough (not Robitussin CF, or DM) which I purchased at winco. The only ingredient was Dextromethorphan HBR, which is really rare to find now adays. While I was waiting for the transit, I wanted to run really bad. Then I compleatly lost any anxiety, and stopped caring about what anyone thought about me. I started playing air guitar on the sidewalk while listening to my I-pod. Then I went to the transfer station, and handed out free smokes to anybody who wanted one. Then I got on the bus, and my body kind of went into cruise control. My brain quit functioning, when I got off the bus, I started walking around all over west richland. It was the definition of a trip. It was like I was there, but I wasn&#039;t there. Eventually my instincts took over, and I tried to get laid. I walked over to this girls house that I hadn&#039;t seen in years, and tried to seduce her. It didn&#039;t work, but I got a kiss out of it.(something that I would have never done if I was sober, I get nervous around most women.) Then I went home, and laid down. I didn&#039;t know if I was alive, dead, in between, where I was, what I was doing, why I was doing it. It was awsome.

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<title>Open Question: What bad stuff can happen to kids that smoke (12-13 yrs old)?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 21:22:43 GMT</pubDate>
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	I do believe smoking is gross and bad and I will never do it myself, but my friend does and I&#039;m trying to convince him to stop. I know there are lots of bad long term affects, like addiction etc, but are there any things that could happen like, soon?

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<title>Open Question: TWA Presents Survivor Series, who will win Brand Supremacy in TWA? Vote and Rate, who should win?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 21:18:06 GMT</pubDate>
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	Welcome to TWA’s Survivor Series, tonight we crown The Top Dog, you could say as we have The Brand Supremacy Tournament, along with all 3 World Title’s on the line and a Showcase of TWA-FCW making its first appearance in a TWA PPV.

Night begins with The TWA Chairman in an office backstage and is seen on The Big Screen in The Arena.
Thurlow: Good Evening and welcome to Survivor Series, tonight is going to be amazing, our Main Event is the End of an intense rivalry between Kane and The Undertaker for The World Title, plus we have my new found friend in Sabu, after he won back control of Nitro for me he has this Title opportunity against Triple H tonight, then we have The brand Tournament, who’s gonna win? I have no idea, but this is our first chance to truly see which Brand has come together the best and can put things aside and prove they are the dominant Brand, tonight we shall see, so from me have a great night and enjoy the show as we now begin Brand Supremacy with Velocity Vs Revenge.


Match 1
Velocity Vs Revenge
HBK, MVP, CM Punk and David Hart Smith and Tyson Kidd
   Vs   
Bobby Lashley, Christian, Rey Mysterio, Ted Dibiase and Cody Rhodes


Nitro Promo
Santino Marella is backstage and says &quot;My guest at this time AJ Styles so AJ which one of these contenders are you most afraid of taking your precious IC title&quot;. AJ looks around and says &quot;Well Santino you got 4 men in that ring and only 1 man can come out as champion but it will not be easy first you got John Cena 7 time world champion in WWE and is at the top of his game then you got Jack hell he is an All American but he is also a former ECW champion then you got Shelton someone who has held my title someone that knows how good it feels when you have the IC title and he hasn&#039;t won it once he has won it three times so who am I most scared no one all these stats are good but their just stats I don&#039;t care if someone wins the TWA Title 90 times I will bust my @ss and win and I may only have 25% of winning in stats but in real I see me AJ Styles retaining my IC title but that isn&#039;t threat it&#039;s a promise&quot;.


Match 2
IC Championship Match
AJ Styles (c) Vs John Cena Vs Shelton Benjamin Vs Jack Swagger


Match 3
Women’s Championship Match
Michelle McCool Vs Natalya (c)


Revenge Promo
Edge is preparing backstage and is confronted by Big Show, Edge turns and looks up at Big Show
Edge: You here to intimidate me? Well it’s not working
Big Show laughs
Show: I’m don’t need to try and intimidate you, you are cacking yourself just at the thought of me being in the ring with you, I am going to take that Title from you Edge just like I took your Ex Wife.
Edge: Ooo, you took her from me, hmm yeah I remember, well you could have done it sooner, but on to this, you see this don’t you Show, this is The World Championship and it is mine, I will not let go of this for a Very, Very long time, you see this bit, it has my name on it and that is not coming off.
Big Show locks up his fist and is ready to strike Edge, but Former World Champion Sting comes along
Sting: Whoa, stop, save it for the ring, you 2 can sort out your differences there then I can take back what&#039;s mine, but for now let’s worry about the next Match, its Nitro Vs Revenge, let’s get behind our Brand.
Edge: Sting, get lost
Sting: Not till one of you leave, I don’t want it to get any easier for me with one of you out injured, I need the challenge.


Match 4
Revenge Vs Nitro
As Team Nitro make their way out Matt Morgan is on The Mic he says that everyone may notice there is just 4 of them, as confident as Team Nitro are of beating Revenge with just 4 we still need a 5th, but he is our secret weapon, this man joined us 3 weeks ago in search of better things this man is Revenge’s very own, sorry Ex Revenge now Nitro, the one who went AWOL, yes it’s this man.
Chris Jericho then makes his entrance
Brother Ray, Brother Devon, Umaga, Samoa Joe and Zach Ryder 
   Vs 
Matt Morgan, Carlito, James Storm, Robert Roode and Chris Jericho


Match 5
TWA-FCW Championship Match
Goldust Vs Billy Kidman (c)


Match 6
Nitro Vs Velocity
Batista, Jeff Hardy, Matt Hardy, William Regal and Paul Burchill    
Vs    
Randy Orton, Ezekiel Jackson, Abyss, Finlay and Sheamus


Match 7
Nitro TWA Championship Match
Lumberjack Match
Triple H Vs Sabu
Lumberjacks are
Tommy Dreamer, Raven, Sandman, Vladimir Kozlov, Dolph Ziggler, Charlie Haas and Snitsky


Match 8
Revenge World Championship Match
Triple Threat Match
Big Show Vs Edge Vs Sting


Velocity Promo
The Cell begins to lower and the Arena fills with Smoke, the arena then darkens as we hear Thunder and lightning clashing, we hear the sound of The Undertakers Druids and they make it out and march down and surround The Cell from outside.
The Undertaker: Tonight is night I say goodbye to my Brother Kane forever, only one shall leave this place they call Hell, no one in history has had the ability to go with me to Hell
and back, Kane is the closest to do so, but tonight Kane shall go to Hell, but he shall not return, there is room for just the one of us here and it is I that shall stand and conquer this war.
The Ring is still full of smoke at this time, but as the room begins to lighten up we see The Undertaker rising from Hell and appearing from underneath The Smoke, as Taker stands he continues his signature Entrance removing his Hat and doing his Eye rolling.
We then hear Kane’s Entrance and he makes his way down to the ring and it is him we see on this occasion slamming shut to door of Hell.


Main Event
Velocity World Title Match
Hell in a Cell
The Undertaker Vs Kane

Thank you all for viewing TWA’s Survivor Series, please vote for who you think should win each Match and give The Show a Rating.

WQ: Who in The WWE would you like to see hold anykind of Title who is yet to win a Championship in The WWE?
Please note that Match 5 is a Hollywood Backlot Brawl

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<title>Open Question: How can I get my husband and mother in law to stop controlling my 3 month old sons life and pushing me out?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 20:41:22 GMT</pubDate>
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	My husband is an extreme mommas boy and beleives everything that comes out of her mouth is a true fact known in the world. Ive let my mother in law keep my son a night out of the week since hes been out or she babysits while were at work. I need to explain how serious this is because its not your average cut n dry &quot;put your foot down&quot;. Ever since my sons been born (december 3rd will be 4 months) she has been making decisions and disrespectfully not including me in anything she does with my son. Such as me ASKING for her to put the base of the car seat and the carseat correctly instead of sideways with no base and she wont do it. If I ask her she will tell me and the baby to get out and we wont go anywhere (really bad when shes my ride for work). she says its fine cause its not illegal in the state of georgia. Also, smoking around him. She beleives its ok to smoke with my son outside because its outside air and ventilated. I dont think so at all. She refuses to listen to me. Unfortunetly she is the only one who can watch him we can afford (free). She has sent my son off to the next state over with her brother who just did 20 yrs in prison without consulting me or even telling me, i had to go there and find out. She wont ask me to take him, she will just tell my husband to bring him over while im at work and he will wind up staying over there. Ive asked her nicely to ask me and she says she doesnt have to ... all she has to do is ask her son. Lastly she has been starting him on cereal (at 3 months) and shes started giving him juices at 3 1/2 months. About a week ago! I know your not supposed to give juice until hes sittin up on his own... he doesnt AT ALL ... they say its fine cause it doesnt look like anythings happened to him or it doesnt look like anything is wrong. I dont know if he is or isnt but what can I do? Its like they wont allow me to be his mother. I dont know how to get it across to BOTH my husband and his mother that it is MY job to make choices and start him on things and make decisions for him . Ive tried in the past and it gets into threatening and violence.

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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 20:39:33 GMT</pubDate>
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	So my boyfriend smokes so much his gums bleed,how can i get him to stop? im worried about his health!!

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<title>Open Question: How can I stop getting paranoid after smoking weed?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 20:39:21 GMT</pubDate>
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	I&#039;ve been smoking pot on a daily basis for over 4 years and have had no paranoia until recently. I used to be able to get as high as I wanted without feeling anxious, but now every time I smoke I get really paranoid. I&#039;ll usually start thinking about negative things, or I&#039;ll convince myself that my heart is going to stop beating and I&#039;ll die. I had to stop smoking weed for 5 months because of this, but I really miss getting high. I want to start smoking again but I don&#039;t want to have a panic attack. What can I do? Has this happened to anyone else?
I DID stop smoking weed, but I miss it and I want to get back into it, so don&#039;t tell me to stop. REEEEEAD.

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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:57:34 GMT</pubDate>
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	I&#039;m asking this question on behalf of my sister, who is 27 weeks pregnant with her first child.  During all of her pregnancy, she has smoked pot and let her doctors know, so that she could find out all the information on it.  She has just quit so that she and the baby will test clean when he is born, but has concerns about DCF showing up on her doorstep and trying to take him away.  I know my sister, she is a good person, and will be a good mother.  The biggest problem is, is that smoking pot is the only way that she has been able to eat with puking, and now that she&#039;s stopped, everything she eats comes right back up.  We live in Florida...anyone know the rules and regulations on this?  She is thinking about just doing hitters so she can keep the food down and after he is born, she will not be doing this in front of him, nor will she allow others.  

Please don&#039;t answer if you&#039;re just going to tell me how stupid my sister is and how she is hurting the baby.  There&#039;s no scientific proof that it does any damage.  Take that shit else where.
Well, thanks for reading the full thing.  I said not to answer if you&#039;re going to be hypocritical.  My sister has talked to the doctor about getting something to help her eat.  He said there&#039;s nothing.  Who am I to judge on my sister for smoking pot when I do it just as much.  It doesn&#039;t make you a bad person OR a bad parent.  Get over it.  Pots not that bad.
not hypocritical...if you&#039;re going to criticize, is what i meant.

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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:54:06 GMT</pubDate>
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	Hi, im writing a short story in class, and i&#039;ve tried all day to make it really good. I need some opinions, and critisize every little thing please, because my teacher seeks perfection. It is supposed to be mysterious and eerie at the beginning, because thats how my story will be. Grade me on a scale of 1-10 and be as nit picky as possible. BUT I DO NOT CARE ABOUT GRAMMAR AND FRAGEMENTS AND CRAP. It has to be interesting and have big vocabulary and a really audience hooking story (and make sense) Thanks, here it is;

Splish, splash, shrieked the chilly rain, pelting from a sky of ominous black clouds. I was the only one on this road. Splish, splash. It echoed high and loud. I lay on the bumpy, rocky asphalt, right after a sharp turn. The road was slippery, the sky was dark. This was a dangerous situation, but i couldn&#039;t move. the rain pelted my skin, and i continued to shiver. I sang a song, stuck in my head. La la la la-la-la la la, la la, la, la-la, Dont make me hurt inside, dont make me find the truth cause you know, and i know that we will-i stopped when i heard a russle. The woods to my right were filled with smoke, and it was so dark i couldn&#039;t even see a shadow. suddenly, i heard a shriek. OOOOOOOO weeeeeeee ooooohhhhhhh! I froze. and then i heard a thud, followed by a scurry of footsteps, vanishing into the night. I shook it off and continued my song. Then i heard something...a whine, and then a footstep. The breathing never ceased, it was like someone was right behind my. I turned my head to see a reassuring emptiness. Good, good, nobody was here. Until i felt a cold clamy hand on my shoulder, and i screamed. but nobody ever heard me.
or d like it
doesnt anyBODY like it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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<title>Open Question: I stopped smoking 5 months ago, what can I do about the rapid weight gain?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:43:48 GMT</pubDate>
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	Ok, so I quit smoking on June 18th. I had smoked for 5 years, less than a pack a day. It wasn&#039;t really difficult at all for me to stop, but since then I have noticed that I tend to eat a lot more. I even eat when I am not necessarily hungry. And it is always unhealthy things like candy or salty &amp; sweet foods, like chips and cookies. Occasionally I will force myself to eat yogurt or something like that instead. I knew I would gain weight after I quit, most people do. I have gained a total of 13 pounds, and this last month I gained 5 of the 13, which means I am gaining more and more as time passes. What can I do about this? I have increased my physical activity, I ride between 2 &amp; 4 miles each day on my exercise bike. I don&#039;t have time to do anything more than that, like join a gym. I would love to but I work full-time and go to college so it is nearly impossible. Maybe you know of some foods I can use to substitute for the unhealthy ones? Or maybe you know a complete different substitute for the food all-together? Any help would be great. I have bad genes in my family, as far as weight goes, and I would really like to avoid gaining as much as possible. Thank you!

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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:23:40 GMT</pubDate>
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	My father is thinking of trying the electric cigarettes.  He has been smoking for about 40+ years.  I do not know anything about them, so I thought I would ask YA users that have experience with them. 

A few questions he has:
1) Is the health benefits better?  
2) Are they cancer causing?
3) He smokes about 2 packs of full cigarettes a day.  How much should he order for a months worth?
4) Do the electric cigarettes just stop working when they are empty?  For example, is it about one cigarette use? Or does it last longer?
5) Is nicotine REAL bad for you, or is it ALL the other things in regular cigarettes that is real bad?
6) Where is the best place for him to get the electric cigarettes? And are they really expensive?

Thank you so much for your input.  Any other details would be great; since I we really do not know what to ask =)
Joe~ I guess I worded that wrong =) LOL. I know cigarettes have NO health benefits.

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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:21:44 GMT</pubDate>
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	Ok my best friend hates drugs, he won&#039;t even take nyquil for a cold. Well I am a recreational user. I&#039;ll smoke here and there and maybe pop a pill, I had never seen heroiene before that fateful night. Well all my friends were over and we were going to do heoine, well my friend got upset and didn&#039;t want to participate. He was being a baby. I didn&#039;t do heroine because I was kinda scared of it, so while my friend fell asleep I injected him. He started having convulsions and stopped breathing. I thought he was joking around so I put him outside, you know as a gag. Well it was 20 degrees out there and i left him out there over night, and when I woke up he was still there. Finally a stranger called the cops and he was arrested for herione abuse and will go to court as soon as he wakes up from his coma. I guess my question is, should I try heroine?

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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:20:43 GMT</pubDate>
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	Ok my best friend hates drugs, he won&#039;t even take nyquil for a cold. Well I am a recreational user. I&#039;ll smoke here and there and maybe pop a pill, I had never seen heroiene before that fateful night. Well all my friends were over and we were going to do heoine, well my friend got upset and didn&#039;t want to participate. He was being a baby. I didn&#039;t do heroine because I was kinda scared of it, so while my friend fell asleep I injected him. He started having convulsions and stopped breathing. I thought he was joking around so I put him outside, you know as a gag. Well it was 20 degrees out there and i left him out there over night, and when I woke up he was still there. Finally a stranger called the cops and he was arrested for herione abuse and will go to court as soon as he wakes up from his coma. I guess my question is, should I try heroine?

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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:15:41 GMT</pubDate>
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	Hi closet mechanics, I just drove my 01 reg audi a4 tdi manual, thru a flood which other similar cars did ahead of me. I made the mistake of changing into 2nd gear and the engine stopped. I used the starter motor to pull me out of the water by turning the ignition whilst in 1st gear.The car starts fine and idles normally but it wont drive. If I give it any throttle the power goes out of the engine and the car comes to a stop with plenty of white smoke from the exaust. I have abandoned the car overnight and I am praying that it just needs to dry out, what do you think please??

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<title>Open Question: Stopped using 3 drugs, feeling depressed?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 18:53:35 GMT</pubDate>
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	i just stopped smoking cigarettes, stopped drinking coffee,, and i stopped drinking alchohol. I know that in the long term, avoiding nicotine, caffeine and alcohol will help me, but honestly, i feel so depressed, lonely and down right now. 

when will the withdrawal symptoms go away?
and has anyone quit an addiction here? how long did it take?
i feel like i lost 3 friends  :(

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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 18:43:24 GMT</pubDate>
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	I recently took a urine drug test for a job I am applying for. I used to smoke marijuana regularly, but for the past month I&#039;ve taken, at most, 1 or 2 individual hits a day. I completely stopped smoking for 3 days, chugged gallons of water, and took cleansing tablets regularly, in addition to a lot of vitamin supplements. I was planning on chugging water before I actually took the test, but it was administered unexpectedly. I drank quite a few cups of coffee beforehand, and I had pissed several times that day before the test. I don&#039;t really think I passed, but I took the test in-house (not a lab), and have assumed they have the results already. However, they haven&#039;t notified me that I&#039;ve failed (which I assumed they would do). Now I&#039;m somewhat confused. They would tell me if I failed, wouldn&#039;t they?

Please answer only if you have experience with a similar situation. I don&#039;t really need any moralizing, because I&#039;m completely immoral anyway.
I guess my main question is, if I failed my test (which I think I did), why havn&#039;t they told me I failed? I&#039;m supposed to start work in 10 days, and I would expect they would tell me I failed BEFORE I showed up. I&#039;m also somewhat confused because I was explicitly hired BEFORE I took the test (she didn&#039;t indicate that my employment was pending on the results). Don&#039;t employers typically notify people who failed when they get the results?

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<title>Open Question: i smoke weed everyday , how can i stop &amp; aadac isnt working .?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 18:05:37 GMT</pubDate>
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	how can i cut down on smoking weed i dont nessisaraly want to quit
i just dont want to blaze everyday , i wanna have a goodish life .. 
help me out :)

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<title>Open Question: Are there any Rehabs in New york for weed?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:22:34 GMT</pubDate>
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	Ive been smokin weed for quite some time now and i need to stop. everybody i know smokes. so its kinda hard for me to change over nite.. HELP ME!!!!!

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<title>Open Question: How can I motivate myself to get a job? (Its pretty long but help would be appreciated?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:21:53 GMT</pubDate>
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	And anyone who reads this is probably going to assume I&#039;m just a lazy person. But I think its more than that, and maybe this isn&#039;t the site to try and discuss this? Oh well.
Well when I was 12 years old I told my mother I wanted to see a therapist and she took me to one, they gave me anti depressant medication. I took it for a few weeks and then stopped taking it and stopped going to the therapist (I didn&#039;t like her and she was judge-mental) And the medication didn&#039;t seem to work for me. 
From 12-14 I struggled in school (I was a good student, and pretty smart I got good grades) I just couldn&#039;t focus and I would just start crying as soon as I got to school, and I just couldn&#039;t stop so they had to send me home. I ended up dropping out of school and going back the next year (i was 14 the 2nd time) and it continued to happen. So, I dropped out of school completely. I never had many friends or anything only a few. which I&#039;m fine with. I&#039;d rather have a few great friends than a lot of &quot;okay&quot; friends. Its hard for me to trust people, most people aren&#039;t what they seem to be. I don&#039;t talk to anyone in my family (and its not like I &quot;cut&quot; them out of my life, they just don&#039;t talk to me.&quot; Besides my mother. 

Anyway, I moved to NYC with my boyfriend when I was 16 for about 2 years (off and on from him to my mothers) and I had to come back to my mothers in NC ( me and my boyfriend are still together, its just a bad time with money for both of us) in NC I have no money or a CAR. I turn 18 years old tomorrow (nov 21)

And I WANT to find a job, but I don&#039;t feel like I can do it. One of my friends is trying to get me into one of his friends restaurant as being a waitress (not a permanent thing, just temp.) I really need the money, I just don&#039;t want to live through the same exp. I had when I was in middle school. In jan. I&#039;m supposed to go and take high school classes and try to get my GED. (going back to school isn&#039;t an option for me, I dropped out in the 7th grade) and I want to go to college and study psychology.

I&#039;m pretty sure my friend will help me get there and get me back (since I have no car at the moment and neither does my mother) 

So basically..my question is how can I motivate myself to take the job? And I don&#039;t think many (if any) people will actually read all of that, but if you do I&#039;d really appreciate it.

And I know this sounds pretty retarded, but my mother smokes in the house (cigarettes) and well I smell like it. And I HAVE been TRYING to get her to stop since I was 8 years old but she won&#039;t..so is there any suggestions for that? besides moving out because right now that&#039;s not an option...

I really don&#039;t want to smell like that at work, it seems &quot;nasty&quot; especially considering i do NOT smoke. (or drink)

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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:09:06 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	My husband and I were planning on ttc...we have never tried so for two days we had unprotected sex.  I didn&#039;t think I was ovulating so it was more to get used to the whole thing.  THEN he changed his mind and decided he wanted to wait until after the holidays.  Then I looked up my ovulation days and it turns out I was most likely ovulating those two days.  What are the chances I may have conceived?  This was last week so I cannot take a test.  I have no symptoms, should I right now?

Also I usually have a drink and two smokes a night (it&#039;s my strange ritual...I don&#039;t smoke all day but have two before bed) and didn&#039;t stop this until I realized I may have been ovulating.  Now I am not doing either but if I were pregnant, should I be greatly concerned?

Thanks for any feedback--

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<title>Open Question: My Girlfriend and I Got Back Together...I need Girls and Guys opinions!?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:01:23 GMT</pubDate>
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	I have been off and on with my g/f since Summer 2008, which is like a year and a couple months. We both have done wrong...like I dumped her for someone else but it didnt work...and she&#039;s kissed another guy before...and so on. Anyways, it was all &quot;okay&quot; until she turned 18 and started to act on her own (we both live with out parents...her dad passed and lives with her grandparents and mom is out of picture.).  We are both Christians...and on her 18th bday she got a tattoo, which I hate and I told her I hated before...and we were just not talking much then...and we&#039;ve broken up atleast 4 times before. Well, in the past week and a half this is what happened...the guy she kissed way back in the day...she talked to him on myspace and said complimented his eyes because he got the superlative at school (shes a senior by the way). she&#039;s known him for years btw. I smelled Smoke on her a couple days in a rwo, along with heavy perfume like to cover it up or something. She promised me she didnt smoke, so I believed her. So then it all was just weird for a couple days. We argued alot over little stuff which led to her giving me the silent treatment for 2 whole days straight, and in those days she got in a traffic accident a minor one, and she also decided to get ANOTHER tattoo! Which she knew I hate! then we met somewhere the next night and she told me &quot;let me get over you&quot; and &quot;we can&#039;t have a future, we are totally opposites&quot;, and &quot;I have too many things going on right now&quot;. Right after that I was on the way home and literally 2 minutes after the breakup she was at &quot;theguy she kissed&quot;&#039;s work and they were talking. I stopped there and told him off and told my &quot;ex&quot; that congrats he&#039;s who you wanted. Then the next 3 days we didnt speak, silence, maybe 1 text a day. One of those days she lost her job too. Then she showed up at my house yesterday sayin she wants to get back together and she didnt mean she wanted to break up and the conversation with the &quot;guy&quot; who she has known for years...was about me and she was getting &quot;guy advice&quot; and she went into detail about it so...okay I believe her, I guess...and oh by the way I found out from someone that she DID smoke! My heart almost broke! Cuz she &quot;lied&quot; about it, but she kept denying it...so I am like ok maybe it was someone else...and I asked her &quot;you arent trying to get me back for money are you&quot; and she said no. Then we had sex literally 30 mins later at my house! Now I am back with her...kinda...and I feel confused and something isnt right! Girls!!! Guys!!! Is she using me? Does she love me? Oh and I lost my virginity to her too, but I was her 2nd serious b/f, and I am 19 and she is 18. Help my frineds!! Help!!
Thanks James for the opinion. You know, we have so much fun together as far as every aspect...and I can deal with the tats, but not the smoking...she has a big heart and an open mind about her future, and she&#039;s very ambitious. I want to be w/her, just a matter if we can make it...come on guys more advice haha!

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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 15:34:31 GMT</pubDate>
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	I was never a smoker.  Drinking started for me about six years ago.  I&#039;m a binger.  I don&#039;t stay drunk but when I go it&#039;s twenty four seven for about a week.  A few months ago I started combining tobacco with the buzz.  (Black and Mild)  When I stop it takes three or four days to get my steam back from the booze but lately I&#039;ve noticed something very different.  After the booze is gone I periodically start getting like anxiety attacks or something.  This never happened before the nicotine.  It just seems to go on for longer and longer amounts of time every time I chain smoke those little cigars and then quit.  Is that the tobacco hell I&#039;ve read about all my life?

Don&#039;t start with the AA thing.  I doesn&#039;t work for everyone.

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<title>Open Question: I have a question concerning weed?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 14:02:09 GMT</pubDate>
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	Hi, okay, here&#039;s my situation. I&#039;ve only smoked about three or four times, and it&#039;s like weeks apart, each time is spaced about AT LEAST a month apart, but the last time I did it me and an experienced friend shared three bowls of pretty good weed. Two things: that was too much weed, and I know that because I had a panic attack but I was fine the next day but I&#039;m wondering if I stop now, will there be any permanent damage just from smoking that much once? and second, should I not smoke if I have just started anxiety medication?

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<title>Open Question: Hard wired smoke alarm keeps beeping?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:25:43 GMT</pubDate>
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	My hard wired smoke alarm has now been beeping for more than a week.  I have changed the batteries in both alarms (even though one not beeping), I have tried cutting the power to the lights ans also cutting the mains power.  Does anyone have any suggestions as to how to make it STOP?  Thanks.

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<title>Resolved Question: For those of you on hormonal birth control?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:41 GMT</pubDate>
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	I know nausea and vomiting are common but did you have a sensitivity to smells? Does it go that far? If I am at work and I smell smoke on someone after they just had a cigarette or if someone puts on lotion i get a huge wave of nausea and I have to stop because I almost throw up. I am on my second month of using NuvaRing. Thank you for your answers.

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<title>Open Question: &quot;I am in a free society and can do as a choose&quot; To what extent do you agree?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 11:48:04 GMT</pubDate>
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	This is a general studies questions posed to our class (800 words)
Refering to innwhat ways the government gives us right to do things but also how they stop us doing other things.
Make points toward Health, Food in school, general behaviour, travel, smoking, family (child abuse or custody), protesting

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<title>Resolved Question: Can an abusive man really change or would staying to wait and see be falling into the cycle again?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 11:05:07 GMT</pubDate>
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	I&#039;ve been in an abusive relationship for 2 years now and my partner has started to change, he goes to college, does his work, he&#039;s even stopped smoking, I&#039;ve told him if he ever hurts me again i&#039;m leaving him but I don&#039;t no if i shud wait or wether i should just get out now. He&#039;s really trying to change not like the others times when he would apologise and thats it, im just scared it will all start again and don&#039;t no what to do. x

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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 09:50:01 GMT</pubDate>
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	A) How long have you been standing there? &gt;:(
B) Do you sing the Russian national anthem on Mondays at 6:00 A.M?
C)Should I stop wearing all black?
D) When was your last text message?
E) After you die, how long till everyone forgets about you?
F) Do you Smoke?
G) Do you control your brain or does your brain control you?
H) Make this face: =3
I) Was the face cute?
J) Have you noticed George W.Bush always looks like hes staring into the sun when hes giving a speech?
K) Are you afraid of thuggish looking people?
L) Are you on the left side of mars?
M) Is Chuck Norris going to let you live another day?
N) Would you die for this Country?
O) Do you know how to say &quot;swimming&quot; In German?

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<title>Open Question: How do you deal with someone in the family that can&#039;t stop telling lies?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 09:41:35 GMT</pubDate>
<description>
	Sorry, I know it&#039;s a book but I wanted to give you a good idea of things.

When I first met my sister-in-law I really liked her. She is charming. She was in the military and was getting discharged for medical reasons. She made me feel really sorry for her. She wasn&#039;t getting paid she says but she was getting a huge settlement. So I lend her 5k. She promises that as soon as she gets the settlement she&#039;d pay the money back. Well she got it and kept telling me that her Aunt had it, she was keeping it so she wouldn&#039;t spend it. Then finally when my car blew up I finally said talk to Aunt___because your brother and I really need that money. We needed a car for work. My husband talks to their dad and he tells him that Aunt____wasn&#039;t keeping it for her, she owed all of that money to her. Naturally we get upset so she tries to cover her bases by telling the whole world a million things that were not true. Such as, I slept around etc. We stopped talking to her for months. Fast forward, my husband and I where having our first baby. I decide it is time to tell her &quot;let&#039;s put everything in the past&quot;. I hear several things from family and friends. They send me emails of hers that incriminate her. She swears on her daughter&#039;s life she didn&#039;t say those things. Still I&#039;m trying to keep the peace and let things slide. She lives 7ish hours away so it&#039;s been okay. Well she may end up moving to our state. Just recently she told more lies. She lied to me about something that took a lot of calculation and effort. She lied because she wanted something from me that she knew I wouldn&#039;t give her unless....... I am the kind of person that makes excuses for peoples actions. I like pretty much everyone. 

She says things about me that are totally absurd. She was smoking weed, her dad went to her apartment and saw a pipe, she tells him it was mine. Most of the time though she will take a little bit of truth and turn it into something awful. i.e. If my husband and I were shopping for a car and we like different things, she&#039;d say they got into a huge fight and almost got a divorce. Luckily my husband had hated her long before I came into the picture. The thing is, her lies are believable. She tells my in laws things and they believe her. She lies about everyone including her husband who hates me because of her. Her husband texted my husband and said our daughter wasn&#039;t (my husbands)his. The only way he knows anything about me is through her. It doesn&#039;t take a rocket scientist to figure that one out. I&#039;m at the end of my rope. My mother in law especially thinks she is sweet and honest. I&#039;m nervous around his family now because who knows what they believe. I&#039;m shy as it is. Any tips on what to do with this situation. I&#039;ve tried talking to her a bunch of times. Every single time she says, she doesn&#039;t need this and she&#039;s not a bad person. My husband and I love her daughter. If we were to not speak to her we wouldn&#039;t see our niece. Please help!

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<title>Open Question: Is that a bushfire on a hill near Mt Keira/Mt Pleasant?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 09:36:23 GMT</pubDate>
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	So in Australia we&#039;re already starting to get bushfires a couple of weeks before summer starts - not surprising considering we&#039;re having a lot of hot dry days (and the rumbling cloud that stopped me from going to the beach today still hasn&#039;t turned into a thunderstorm).


Just a little while ago (7:40pm Sydney time 20/11/2009) I was near the top of a hill in West Wollongong and look towards the Escarpment, and in the distance (just a little east of whichever the mountain with a bit of a plateau happening on top) I saw some orange light that appeared to be flickering. 

Was/is this a bushfire?

I had a look at the Rural Fire Service&#039;s map of current incidents and the closest fire and warning is in the Hunter Valley, which isn&#039;t within viewing distance of Wollongong...   Though I guess you can&#039;t map every single fire, and the one I saw would probably be left to burn itself out on a busy day like this if it wasn&#039;t near any properties or major roads.




Well, I&#039;m not expecting that someone who can see the same thing will read and answer this question, so I hope the people reading this get to learn something out of this. 

After last summer&#039;s tragic Victorian bushfires, we now have a new alert level on our fire danger indicators: catastrophic. I wasn&#039;t in the country last summer, so I was lucky enough to escape that and the heatwave.



Perhaps a website that emergency services, as well as people, can use to warn and interact with other people may come in handy this summer. Not everybody listens to the news on ABC radio etc so not everyone knows that there is a high fire danger or a warning to evacuate until the SES comes knocking on their door or they start to smell the smoke.


Links: http://www.rfs.nsw.gov.au/    for NSW residents, though links for other states are on there. There&#039;s a map of Current Incidents.

http://www.abc.net.au/news/      This website has the least amount of bull on it - really, I don&#039;t care what Miley Cyrus thinks of the latest Twilight movie, or how fast Soandso has lost her post-baby tummy. Also, decent up-to-date reporting on the bushfires.

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<title>Open Question: If I smoke weed one time ho long will it stay in my system, is it possible to pass a drug test 1 time a month?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 09:29:16 GMT</pubDate>
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	im n probation and get drug tested every single monday and every other wedsnday, after about 2 more months i will only be gettin drug tested once a month by probation not sure about other place though my question is, if i smoke a 1 gram blunt right after my drug test should i be clean in time tot ake my next probation drug test a month later? how long will weed stay in system if only smoked once, i smoked non stop for 2 years about 5 times a day and it took nearly 45 days for me to become clean, i am 5 10 210 pounds,

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<title>Open Question: How do I know that he is in to me?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 09:28:36 GMT</pubDate>
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	I met him 2 weeks ago and a lot had happened during these weeks.
When we first met we were sitting at this place and they were smoking. 
They listened to metal, like me so I was like I know that song and that&#039;s how I got conversation from his friend but not from him.
later when he finished playing on his phone he stood up and walked towards me and sat down beside me,,,, but he was smoking so I asked he not to. He took a last inhale and exhaled it on he and smiled and threw the cigarette. After we went home me and my friend, 
The next time I met him at the field... he was playing soccer with some guys. 
When He saw that I came he stopped and sat next to me again. We talked and he took my phone...
I didn&#039;t let him. He ran with it across the field and I ran after him. When I caught up to him he gave it back to me but after laughing a little at my photos. When we sat back again I got really cold and I was shaking. He gave me his jacket. And then after more talking I had to go. The third time I saw him he came because This guy called him and said the I was there and wanted to see him. 
He came. At first it was awkward but then we talked and things started to flow. I got cold again and he gave me his jacket again. His friends wanted to go but he didn&#039;t. Little by little his friends were gone and he stayed and when I had to go he left. He is gorgeous. And I really want things to start between us, but I am not sure if he is in to me?

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