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From Gary B H: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=khFhF64P3VQ ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 03:34:29 GMT

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From Legendary Frog!!: kill the drug addict immediately.

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 05:06:19 GMT

kill the drug addict immediately.

From maddog: say look kids, do you want to end up like these people; if ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 05:30:45 GMT

say look kids, do you want to end up like these people; if the try to step over the line with drugs you bust them hard.

From knappneedleman: Usually these media moments have pictures associated with ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 06:04:05 GMT

Usually these media moments have pictures associated with them that are not the most flattering. The embarrassment that these photos show could be a starting point.

From Denise M: I've been watching "Celebrity Rehab" since it came ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 06:26:51 GMT

I've been watching "Celebrity Rehab" since it came on Vh1 a few weeks ago. I find it both fascinating and deeply disturbing. Watching "Scott" shaking and having the DTs should be enough to scare any kid straight. But I never had issues with drugs - I'm 50 and not about to start. *smile* Shows like this - though well-intentioned - can only be the icing on the cake. Certainly they are the "anti-Britney," the "anti-Lindsay" - and that's a good thing These girls are like Teflon - nothing sticks no matter what they do - they are such big money makers for the companies they have contracts with. No one cares. Or, at least it looks that way based on what we see in the media. Acting stupid in front of the paparazzi apparently isn't enough to keep young people who want drugs away from them. So, "Celeb Rehab" is a significant step in the right direction to warn people away from the dangers of drugs. Btw, a couple years ago my mom at 73 went through withdrawal symptoms, DTs etc. similar to "Scott" when she was taken off a big list of prescription drugs. Addicted to painkillers and other drugs. In the final analysis parents must stay involved in their kids' lives - even though teens act like they're all grown up. A lot of parents are afraid of their kids. Afraid to speak up. Look at the "Nanny 911" shows when these same kids you want to scare away from drug use are ten years younger. Clearly they've never had structure in their life, dinner time, chores, consequences for behavior, etc. They've never been held accountable. No wonder drugs are fascinating to them once they're in their teens. If a TV show could somehow help US parents toughen up when it comes to keeping an eye on their kids, giving them structure and holding them accountable - that would have an even greater value than trying to scare away teens from drugs. By then they already have a lifetime of bad habits and bad examples they've learned from their parents. All the best, Denise Michaels Author, "Testosterone-Free Marketing" PS: Visit me online at http://www.MentoringwithDenise.com

From Blu: im 19 and my parents did a good job.... be real about it.... ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 07:10:45 GMT

im 19 and my parents did a good job.... be real about it.... dont sugar coat or try to come down on our level and use ridiculous slang..... you rarely see young black stars (like there are many lol) w/ that problem but talk about the health risks..... even give your own experiences if any.. makes us relate and know your not and you dont think your perfect

From candy r: you just basically tell them look it can happen to ayone - ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 07:44:25 GMT

you just basically tell them look it can happen to ayone - addiction knows no race, sexual orentation i mean you can be rich poor have went to church every sunday as a child - your dad could be a raibi- you being famous has little o do with it except your stresses mat be differnt - so i would let my child see bu its hard to raw the line between seeing and learning and idolozing- because when there on tv and onthe cover or stil makin the top 40 and they have a addiction - how do you say drugs ruin your life- ?so i think its also importanrt to educate your children in the role that media may play in keping these people in the public eye even thuogh they have prolems and need to be dealing with there isssues

From Beige Almighty - Goddess of Nada: Actually Doc, your new show, Celebrity Rehab, gave me a ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 08:05:06 GMT

Actually Doc, your new show, Celebrity Rehab, gave me a great way to teach my kids because it provided us with the "after" for "before and after" style lessons. My kids were familiar with several of the celebrities on the show, and thanks to nostalgia channels, Netflix, and the Internet, I was able to get information on most of the rest at the height of their popularity. Seeing Jeff Conway in Grease and then seeing him as he is now was the biggest eye opener for my children. They had heard about how bad drugs could get ahold of you, but hearing is one thing; seeing is quite another. Though my kids of course are not familiar with Mary Carey's work, hearing her talk about the effects of being a porn star as well as an addict made my daughter rethink some of her own ideas about defining herself by her appearance.

From ^_^: I LOVE YOU DR. DREW!!!

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 09:00:09 GMT

I LOVE YOU DR. DREW!!!

From Domer!: What'd you want to do in life? You can be anything you ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 10:35:47 GMT

What'd you want to do in life? You can be anything you want, people like that are disgraceful. We as life is, have so much to live for and not enough time, why waste your time doing that when you can be doing something you desire, despite it being the in thing or what others think. I enjoy eating fairy bread with people.

From Jeanne S: make them poster celebrity with enhanced aging pictures next ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 11:26:06 GMT

make them poster celebrity with enhanced aging pictures next to them, then put them on bill boards maybe they think twice about drugs. Take a look at Keith Richards and Ozzy Osborn. if their not national poster celebs for why not to do drugs then i don't know who is all the plastic surgery in the would can't help them

From luv DMG: show them the non glam side

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 11:41:40 GMT

show them the non glam side

From nice g: Educating them be open minded and let them watch that ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 13:37:16 GMT

Educating them be open minded and let them watch that reality show and explain the consequence of hat drugs can do to them.

From analize2much: You have to explain alot to them for sure. Like the fact ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 13:43:29 GMT

You have to explain alot to them for sure. Like the fact that most of the headlines are of the more popular ones of this era. You also have to explain that they wont be popular long when they are dead or incapacitated by their sickness. You would also have to let them know why nobody should ever turn their children over to Hollywood. You also have to explain to them why these people are doing what they are. This is a couple hours lecture that most kids really dont want to hear so, I think bringing this into schools at a very young age is the answer. The next problem is the individual has other idiots living with or interacting with them. These people also have to be educated or it is all for not. We have one of the greatest work forces in the world, yet our education system sucks. If we want a real education we have to pay alot more for it. If we want things to change we will have to change some things. Education and laws. Otherwise you will just have to accept that drugs are going to be a part of this world and people are going to abuse them. Educating our child for the world is a parents job, but we have gotten lazy with public schools doing all the educating in many families whos parents are to busy partying to care. As some of the greatest philosiphers said, you can use any scenario to teach a great lesson, so can we of this. And Love is the answer to all things troubling. Peace

From Moonwake: Doc, Here is what I would do to overcome this issue. 1 ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 14:17:43 GMT

Doc, Here is what I would do to overcome this issue. 1 I would not try to hide the publicity from my kids they will get it from other kids either at their homes or at school. (Unless you are keeping them in a cave somewhere.) 2. I would start a conversation with my kids that discussed what being a celebrity is like and the pressure they have from the media to behave in a perfect way. There is no room for any personality issues of any sort when you have 40 to 50 people following you all the time with cameras. Any flaws that they may have will be put under a microscope. 3. The use of all these drugs from the celebrity’s using them becomes much more amplified with the stress to perform and maintain a perfect public persona. Drugs can give you a false sense of nothing can hurt me when the exact opposite is true. Drugs easily take over your life and they become the commander of your actions. Once this occurs then all kinds of bad, illegal and inappropriate behavior is being picked up by the media and the police. The police have the media to keep an eye out for them due to their fame. 4. It is sometimes mandated by the courts that these celebrities get professional help but unless the person getting the help truly wants to make a change more then likely the help is not going to change anything because the power of drugs and their celebrity peers that are out of control as well will overwhelm the treatment and back to court they go. It is a vicious circle. 5. The best defense against drug and alcohol use is for the parent to sit the child down and have a conversation that includes self esteem. A person with high self esteem will be better prepared to handle peers who try to pressure them into using drugs or alcohol. Knowing that you deserve better from life then what drugs and alcohol have to offer can make a huge difference. 6. Parents need to remember that how they treat their children will make a huge difference in their lives. Teaching them respect for themselves and their bodies. Parents may not think so but there kids listen to everything they say so parents need to act like they are under the microscope too. They have to model good behavior as well. 7. Even if you place all these things together there is still a chance that things may not go exactly right but the lesson we all need to know is that this is an illness that these people suffer from and the understanding that goes along with that will go a long way! Good luck I hope that your conversation goes well as our future depends on it!

From Ray M: You have to rely on good parenting really. The fact is ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 14:32:19 GMT

You have to rely on good parenting really. The fact is people who do drugs do not care about the consequences. Just like watching a Truth cigarette commercial, commenting how sad and true it is and lighting up at the same time. People are going to be who they want to be and do what they want to do. You can either put the fear of God in them, put a moral twist on it, or leave them alone and hope they get past it. With that being said the answer is inconclusive.

From highgamer6969: My daughter is about to turn 14 and she pays alot of ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 14:32:37 GMT

My daughter is about to turn 14 and she pays alot of attention to what the media reports about these stars and their problems. Luckily she has enough trust in me that she ask me about the things she sees. I am always open and honest with her.( her father was addicted to crack cocaine) I tell her the truth about my life before her and the drugs that I have experimented with and their affects. I tell her that although they do make you feel good and make things seem better than what they are, that it is a false sense of security and your problems are still there when you come down. I also tell her about my own experience with snorting cocaine and how it damaged my nose and the problems I had stopping the habit. I believe that we should be honest with our children and not tell them lies about drugs. The more horrible we make them sound the more our kids want to try them. An open and honest discussion is a way to gain your childs trust while getting your message across...

From Karen S: First of all I would hope the parent would speak to their ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 15:09:32 GMT

First of all I would hope the parent would speak to their child in a way that is non threatening. Perhaps they could begin with a question about a media spot, with a simple question like "what do you think about that?". The parent can listen to to their answer non judgmentally, and talk to them like people with intelligence. Don't make it sound like a lecture. I think it is appropriate for a parent to gently find out if their child is aware of drug use or problems with this in their school or home area and ask them their thoughts. A parent could and should ask if their child receives education in school about drug use and effects, and if child isn't shutting down at that point try to get a few more specifics from their child. Always, education is important, and as many places, from doctor's offices to the library, and of course the internet provides a wealth of information on drug use and abuse it is good to have the information available for your child. You can't talk about it all the time, because then the parent and child stop simply living and enjoying life together, but parents should read up on warning signs that their children may be using and abusing drugs. Sorry for the rant, but I also work in mental health, and assess children of all ages in the ER of our hospital, and this issue is very personal for me.

From sosevere: The answer is simple. You grab celebrities who do not have ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 15:59:16 GMT

The answer is simple. You grab celebrities who do not have these problems and who are positive roll models. You then grab the negative celebrities with problems and discuss them both. By teaching our youth the difference between a positive roll model and a negative one they will be more open to view all sides and with their mentors/parents/guardians guidence will be more apt at making their own sound decisions. More often than not children rebel against their parents because parents are far too strict. Parents have the notion that they've lived life and the things they went through are the same. This is clearly not the case. The world has evolved. The way my parents grew greatly differs from the way I grew. We need to be more open to our youth and also need to empower them to a certain degree enabling them to make their own decisions with our guidence there and easily known if needed.

From RUNINTLKT: I don't have any kids, but would use the media publicity ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 16:08:40 GMT

I don't have any kids, but would use the media publicity about celebrities to demonstrate that life is about reaching an maintaining a healthy balance between the pillars of: Spirituality, Finance, Mentality/Psychologic, & Health. Many of the young celebrities today have a lot of money (healthy pillar of finance)..but poor pillars of Health, Psychologic, and Spirituality. Leading to their overall demise. And that is the lesson to be learned from all this media attention. Money CAN BE disastrous in the wrong hands..and Money isn't the be-all end-all state. It's nice to have money..but never forget to nourish the other pillars of life. I'd go somewhere down that path..if.. I had kids. Take care.

From HOBSON BEAR: ask mike tyson to visit your nieghbourhood

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 16:30:20 GMT

ask mike tyson to visit your nieghbourhood

From Jagdeep Singh Virdi: Hi . Drugs, Alcohol and Celebrities are always going to be ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 17:18:54 GMT

Hi . Drugs, Alcohol and Celebrities are always going to be together forever. We cannot keep children off news and magazine either. We must make a point to talk to our children about the effects of Alcohol and Drugs. Show them how drunken driving can get you into problems. I am sure there are many Hollywood Celebrities who had lost everything because of Drug problems. Let your children see what happen to Celebrities who have drug problem. Let them learn. I think we can keep our children away from Drugs but from Alcohol its difficult. So we must teach them to always be in control of themselves. And ask them to know their limits so that they don't get addicted. Alcohol cannot be always wrong. A few drinks occasionally can be a lot of fun with friends. If children are right in Head if they have some good family tradition and values they will surely not get into anything wrong. And know how to get themselves out of any problem.

From Angelique"The MoFo": Well, first you8 tell your kids that using drugs is stupid, ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 17:30:52 GMT

Well, first you8 tell your kids that using drugs is stupid, dangerous, and a very bad decision! If their so-called "celebrity role models" are using drugs, tell them it's still not right cause there the ones that made the mistake! Everyone may think celebrities are perfect and lead a happy... problem-free life... well as parents, or as anybody, you have to tell your kids that is not true! If they want to do drugs and f^ck themselves up... then that's their own personal problem. That's the best I got .

From DeNotto: You have to let these kids know that just because Paris ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 17:38:54 GMT

You have to let these kids know that just because Paris Hilton or Lindsey Lohan did a couple of hours of jail time or some community service for there drunk driving or cocaine possession doesn't mean that's going to happen to you if you get in the same trouble. Kids see these news reports or read about how easily these celebrities got off. Parents need to let there kids know that its a different set of rules for celebrities. Its not fair but its true. Also, just talk to kids about how life changing this is. Take Brittney Spears. She was on top of the world. Than boom! Alcohol and drugs has ruined her life. Now she has two kids she will never see and her image is forever trashed. The most important thing is for parents to talk to there kids about this issues. It shouldn't be a punch line or a joke at the dinner table. It should be a serious sit down conversation.

From Robin: I think you should tell them that even when it looks like ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 17:55:36 GMT

I think you should tell them that even when it looks like you are on the top of the world,there is always problems! Talk to them about drugs and how they do not solve your problems,they just make them worse!

From : Dr. Drew I just keep it real with my kids...I have to expose ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 18:15:53 GMT

Dr. Drew I just keep it real with my kids...I have to expose them to the dangers and consequences of life choices. I don't lie to them and we talk about it. I want my son's to know what this world is like before the world educates them. They seem to be doing ok. I don't truly belive a celeb's choices make that much of an influence, more i think we are just nosy about what the very rich and privledged folks are up to.... God Bless Ya

From Gramma Might Know: Teachable moments come along, and we need to sit with them ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 19:23:15 GMT

Teachable moments come along, and we need to sit with them for a bit. Making judgments on our young ones' idol will not give them any learning points of reference. We need to differentiate the idol from the fictitious part that they play. Britney is a gifted STAR, but a flawed human. Her sister is a young girl with an adult job. The news gives us all the reasons why we shouldn't try to strive for the dreams we have, but I think that the wise parent puts the same boundaries around each of our specially gifted children as we do around the idea of "don't run after that ball". Quite frankly, that ball is safe if it's within the boundary and lessons we teach. I guess I teach that the ball is safe, the street is not. There-in lies the difference. Children should not run free, chasing anything without the mature guidance that they need. Drugs, early pregnancy, eating disorders, even compulsive/self-destructive behaviors are the streets that we need to protect our children from. It's not the ball (dreams) that the kids are chasing. This is probably worded poorly, but my work with my children is and always will be protecting them from the potential danger of their behavior, while encouraging them in making their personal dreams possible in an almost impossible world.

From beth.minardi: if i see my kids watching these kind of things on TV and ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 19:47:08 GMT

if i see my kids watching these kind of things on TV and thinking that it is alright because everyone else is doing it. I tell them to look at what it is doing to them. everyone on tv is letting everyone see how stupid they look and that the whole world is watching, you don't have any one watching you so it makes it easier to get a way with it but if you want to look like the celebrities i will start taping you so you can see that you look as stupid as they do and maybe they will think otherwise about doing it to themselves, when i start showing everyone their video tape.

From mrsgiggles: Children will respect honesty, you need to explain to them ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 20:19:41 GMT

Children will respect honesty, you need to explain to them that 'celebrities' may have been given an enormous talent for entertainment but they are very much human and can die at anytime for their choices. Maybe make a list of pros and cons together of that particular role model and maybe that would help sort the confusion in their mind about their role model. So they don't confuse cool with stupid. You have to monitor your children closely through every possible influence not just celebrities.

From outer z: The key is understanding your child first and foremost. Is ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 20:42:31 GMT

The key is understanding your child first and foremost. Is your child an introvert who gets energy from within, hopefully you can talk with them about this issue. Are they an extrovert who gets energy from outside sources, then media, pictures, articles , videos will probably be an effective way to show your kids the downfall of taking drugs.The botom line is introducing the information in a way that says, hey I care about you enough to share this with you.It may not seem like kids are listening but they absorb and take in everything.I like to ask them the question 'what do think?' so they can give their own opinion instead of feeling like its a lecture.

From luvlisteningtomusic: Actually we watch your show together. We also watch ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 20:51:59 GMT

Actually we watch your show together. We also watch intervention because neither show glamorizes drugs instead it shows how much drugs effect your life with your family and your friends and also what it does to your appearance. I always talk to my kids and tell them the importance of never using a drug. They may not want to listen but at least I can say I tried my best to do my job and that is teaching my children not to use. I think they should have more shows on this topic. I have also looked on the internet and showed them before and after pictures of people who use meth. Your show and intervention not just help with talking to your kids but also shows what to look for in a person who is using. Keep up the good work on your show.

From ahsoasho2u2: As a father of 8 and a grandfather to 17, I have always ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 21:07:32 GMT

As a father of 8 and a grandfather to 17, I have always addressed HOLLYWOOD as tinsel town. A world of make believe. Theirs is not a real world or life. A lot of their so called escapades are a publicity awareness stunt. Too bad that up until about a year ago, they got away with it? Today the public is growing tired of the Brittany's and others who cast life to the winds. Just this past week, two stars were found dead? Reality of life is coming to haunt those who should be leaders to our younger children like Michael Vick and others. We are no longer allowing them to do things and say it is OK, he is a super / mega star. No he is a human being who is exploited by media and movies, TV etc. show how all these child hood stars faired in life after all the money they made and parents spent? Life is real and should not be held as a prize for who does what and the press sells papers and does not care what it sells as long as it sells. 1st amendment rights--freedom of the press.

From dudeman05: talk to them duh

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 21:24:31 GMT

talk to them duh

From maxalitom: Mainly by communication and love. Being a recovering heroin ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 21:32:23 GMT

Mainly by communication and love. Being a recovering heroin and alcoholic I can say that if I had been raised a lot differently I'm almost sure I would have turned out differently. I wasn't dealt the best hand however. My mother died at the age of 23 when I myself was 3 yrs. old, my father was a semi functioning alcoholic his entire life, so I came from a terrible background. My father remarried when I was 8 and talk about wicked stepmothers........she was definitely that at its worst. I started running away from home at 12 yrs. old. I believe had I had parents who communicated with me and showed me love the results of my behavior would have been drastically different. So.sorry to have gotten off track there, but I would still have to say talk to the kids about each celebrities demise, troubles etc., and mainly love them and let them know they can come to you with their problems and no matter what you will still love them and get them help etc. and stick to what you say!!!!! Don't ground them or take their phones for being honest with t you. LOVE THEM!! LOVE THEM!! AND COMMUNICATE WITH THEM!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!!!!

From Josh A: First, talk to them about drugs, explain the difference ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 21:40:28 GMT

First, talk to them about drugs, explain the difference between using drugs for medical purposes or abusing drugs. It is important to do so because I know many people who have heard "drugs are bad" from advocates and parents, and the truth is drug abuse is bad, not the drugs. In turn, later in life they have "drugs are bad" ingrained in their mind, and often refuse to use drugs for help, needlessly suffering. Now it is time to talk to them about celebrities, and their abusive drug use. First, show them how they were before the drug use; famous, attractive, role models, etc. Then, show what they've become. Whether they're in jail, hospitalized, in rehab, etc, it will prove the point. Show pictures of before and after.

From TheFlowerLady: Well, first of all, you should have been warning your ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 21:40:47 GMT

Well, first of all, you should have been warning your children against drug abuse from the time they can understand speech. You should have been pointing out several concepts about drug use that are true: 1. You can permanently damage your brain. 2. No one uses drugs alone--you must obtain them from someone and later that person or anyone else you use drugs with can turn on you whether it be blackmailing you if you try to hide your use from parents, law enforcement, or any public forum, or using extreme violence (i.e. guns, knives, etc.,) against you if things turn bad. 3. You are jeopardizing any future plans or goals you may dream of attaining because addictive drug use becomes your only goal. 4. You hurt not only yourself but the people you love most and who love you most. Do you really want to hurt your mother or grandmother? That's exactly what you are doing when you get into illegal or addictive drug use. 5. Watch people who are stoned while you are NOT. They appear incredibly STUPID, not cool. 6. It is about 99.999% inevitable that you will be arrested and have some type of criminal record when you are sent to jail. 7. All of these young, drug using celebrities have nearly or have destroyed their wonderful careers, money, friends, famlies, and being a celebrity at all. Point out all of the 'has-been' actors and musicians who have faded into oblivion by their habitual drug or alcohol abuse. They are objects of pity or downright disgust not only by the entertainment industry but society in general. Ask your children if they want to live on the streets fearing for their lives by the violent people who live on those same streets as well. Ask your children if they'd like to go to the bathroom on the streets (and forget about toilet paper!). 8. Prison is NOT a nice place. Openly tell your children about prison rapes and other physical violence that happen there 24/7/365. There won't be any parents, friends, etc., who can come to the prison to rescue you. YOU must tell these truths to your children. 9. Regardless of what Amy Winehouse sings, rehab is for those drug users who have all but destroyed themselves and cannot get rid of drug habits on their own. Many many many of those in 'rehab' never kick the habit and die of drug abuse. 10. Use every celebrity drug arrest to point out how that person has given up all amazing opportunities because of their drug use and put your children in the celeb's place. No more movie roles, no more singing, no more performing, no more glamourous photos, clothing, and no more money coming in for anything. No cars, no music, no movies, because all money is spent on drugs. It should go without saying that you should always tell the truth about drug use right down to the horrors of prison. This is why drug use is out of control among young people. Parents don't think their children are 'ready' to hear about the horrific results of drug abuse, yet their children are old and ready enough to try the drugs and use them. By the time the parents are 'ready' to tell their kids these truths, it is often too late. There are drug dealers even at grade school level and parents and professionals need to wake up and smell the crack smoke! By professionals coddling children who are not 'ready', they assist the problems and again when it is too late, then they try to come in and intervene. Children can never be warned enough about drug use and never early enough.

From Carol (Yeah I said it!) G.: Good..no Great Question...I've always taken the stance that ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 21:42:37 GMT

Good..no Great Question...I've always taken the stance that if they are old enough to ask they are old enough for a full informed truthful answer...I was always open and honest with mine...but they were also independent and made their own choices. They wouldn't fall into a celebrity attitude or follow along with someone who doesn't have their standards. They now instill values into their children...and I have all the faith in the world they will also be independent, leaders, not followers.

From aberdeen606: show them the stories and say "don't do that." ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 21:46:26 GMT

show them the stories and say "don't do that." duh.

From jcmnjc: show how their life was before they went on drugs, and then ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 22:49:47 GMT

show how their life was before they went on drugs, and then after, and ask what they thought about their decision

From : I agree with Debate_d. I rode through Arizona 4 years ago, ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 22:53:19 GMT

I agree with Debate_d. I rode through Arizona 4 years ago, and they had billboards of a guy that lost the lower part of his mouth from dipping. The hard reality of seeing Jeff Conoway throwing up in a trash can is all the reality they need. I love your show.

From Petunia03: Personally, I think it is a losing battle for most parents, ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 23:03:39 GMT

Personally, I think it is a losing battle for most parents, and most have just given up, as nothing seems to deter them from wanting to 'fit in' and be 'famous' and have others think they are 'tight'. The exceptions are few, to be sure, and those are parents who give CONSTANT attention to their children, keeping them in their presence, teaching by example, and by the caring attitude that the children cannot escape. It is a TEDIOUS constant effort, and those who do so certainly have to have a family UNITY, a good marital union, and work TOGETHER, with morals and love and respect for ALL HUMANS taught by words, and EXAMPLE by family, and close associations. Not an easy assignment, to be sure. Kudos to those who can be so vigilant.

From ronboisit: Your problem is the same as it is with everyday parents. The ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 23:42:51 GMT

Your problem is the same as it is with everyday parents. The problem is that nothing in this world is able to make you happy, or feel complete. Only God has the KEY & answer to every problem we face! Try to make them understand that even the most famous movie stars and singers fall victim to the lust of the flesh! And that the lust of money is the root of all evil! Believe me the fun stops, and the pain begians, when other people notice the change in you! So i would say dont do as they do, Do as GOD said resist all evil!! Remove yourself from all evil. Follow Jesus and his teachings and you will find your answer. May GOD bless you and lead you to the perfect answer. Iwill be praying for you and your family!!!

From Powerlines: You show them that these people, no matter how successful ...

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 23:55:55 GMT

You show them that these people, no matter how successful they are, that they are bound to make mistakes. They recieve all this fame and money but it goes to waste once they begin doing drugs. Drugs won't get you anywhere, and no matter what you do, it will affect your life and career. Show them a movie of a great actor and say "sure they might be the best actor but in real life, this person has amounted to nothing by doing drugs."

From ♥Roxy♥: I dont have kids since im only 16 but if i was a parent i ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 00:35:45 GMT

I dont have kids since im only 16 but if i was a parent i would use the example of Lindsay Lohan to tell them not to drink and do drungs. MaryKate Olsen to remind them they need to eat so they dont look like that. And the example of Britany Spears's lil sister (who is my age) to tell them to wait for marraige so they dont end up pregnant.

From sparhawk7322: This is the justification given for shows that do this but ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 00:38:41 GMT

This is the justification given for shows that do this but the truth is that good parents don't need these kinds of "teaching aids". The real reason that people watch the train wreck that is Hollywood life is that thanks to TV we have become a nation of voyeurs that want to be shocked and horrified from the comfort of our lazy-boys. Studies show that parents that spend even a minimal amount of time with their children help reduce the chances that their children will become dependent on drugs. So if you want to raise kids with the will to not become addicts take them to a ball game or play board games or any of a hundred other things that you can do to make your family bond stronger and encourage communication.

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Tue, 29 Jan 2008 01:01:10 GMT
Try telling kids that celebrities die from drugs, like Anna Nicole. Good Luck!!!!!!!

From Optimus P: I think just being brutally truthful and honest is the best ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 01:20:29 GMT

I think just being brutally truthful and honest is the best way. It seems kinda forceful but it proves your point. Plus the direction that yourself and Vh1 is going with celebrity rehab seems like a good way to do it. You are showing that they are not gods but people with problems like the rest of us. I think a show like that with actual non famous people can drive that point home even more. Kudos to you and VH1 and the awesome job you have done so far.

From nike_adebowale: You can show them that money and appearence isn't everything ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 01:22:23 GMT

You can show them that money and appearence isn't everything and that it's a much worthwhile investment to look inward. Let them know that they can conquer the whole world and still remain empty and dark inside. I think the celebrities illustrate that the american dream is faulty and highly selfish.

From jesuschristk01: This is a perfect question. And for us, the Saints of the ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 01:25:52 GMT

This is a perfect question. And for us, the Saints of the Church of LDS, there will be no problem at all with it. Why ? Wisdom Principle is the basic Law which is shown to us, that is, we should not drink alcohol, smoke, nor even simply tea and coffee. As the Saints of the Church of LDS, we are building our family in God's way, so if we raise children, we will teach them the principles of God and Jesus Christ. The Main point of our lives is to live pure and cleanly, and to establish the Nation of God. So we pray with our children, we read Bibles and the Book of Mormon. While we establish our basic on Jesus so seriously, then it is such a simple and vivid principle for us to protect our children by the helping of Saint Ghost.

From ColleenLucky7: When ever my daughter and I would watch the news or ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 01:33:24 GMT

When ever my daughter and I would watch the news or Hollywood "news", I would first say in a humorous manner.."You see????? I'm not a terrible mother!" We would laugh and talk about how the parents didn't teach the celebrity children right from wrong...... hold them accountable for bad choices.... teach them there are boundaries everywhere in life with consequences...... Celebrity kids... are kids....... The adults are not doing their jobs as the parents and "PARENTING"..... Talking with your kids is important.. don't be afraid to let them know where you stand! I also had my child get involved with musical instruments and other constructive activities that built self esteem... By the way.... any parent can do this if I can... I am physically disabled...... but I use my abilities!

From ali s: being a Star = excelling and superiority in some ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 01:34:46 GMT

being a Star = excelling and superiority in some field+success + public admiration + talent + glamor + selfesteem + dignity + delight Addiction = slave of substance/habits or both + self-destruction + disgrace + dishonor + failures + troubles + pains Star + Addiction = GRADUAL SUICIDE, destruction of the Star, defeating the purpose and initial motivation of being a Star

From LoneGunDiva: I have a four year old, so I have not had 'the talk' with ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 01:51:27 GMT

I have a four year old, so I have not had 'the talk' with him yet, but with the rate that kids are maturing these days, it probably won't be much longer. However, my sister makes her 12-year-old daughter watch "Intervention" on A&E. If anyone hasn't seen it, it's the show where they document real life drug addicts and try to intervene. She also talks with her while they watch the show and answers any questions that she has.

From koolhand_kent: I would use the media publicity about celebrities doing ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 02:13:45 GMT

I would use the media publicity about celebrities doing drugs to start a conversation to get the child to open up and dialog about the dire consequences of doing drugs, becoming addicted, ruining your life, and whatever else comes after that this is a lesson that is not a one time thing but an on-going process.

From Sk8rgrl: wow. complicated question...brain starting to hurt. lol jk. ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 02:37:49 GMT

wow. complicated question...brain starting to hurt. lol jk. i have no idea what ur even asking though. i dont really understand what ur saying...do u think u could lower the level of that quesiton?? nah jk jk but yea i'm just gonna submit this for the fun of it. lol =]

From HIPS WILL SHIVER: MAKE IT MANDATORY FOR THE CELBS.TO VISIT SCHOOL AND BRING ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 02:48:40 GMT

MAKE IT MANDATORY FOR THE CELBS.TO VISIT SCHOOL AND BRING THEM DOWN, HUMBLE THEM TO SAY IT LIGHTLY AND SHOW THEM THAT THE YOUTH IS THE FUTURE AND I KNOW WHEN I SEE A ROOM FULL OF KIDS IT DOES SOMETHING FOR YOU INSIDE AND IF IT HELPS THE CELEBRITY TOO THAT WOULD BE A WIN WIN SISUATION. DON'T YOU THINK. D.

From Ryan Zeron: o-o what?

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 03:16:18 GMT

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Tue, 29 Jan 2008 03:18:47 GMT

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From trail of tears: By giving examples of what is happening to those who suffer ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 03:42:06 GMT

By giving examples of what is happening to those who suffer because of these things.show them some thing really scary that is the out come of drugs.Always try to have some one they really love as an example, so you can scar them and make sure they stay away from drugs and drugs positive people.

From Ed S: Explain to the kids so they can understand (age wise) that ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 04:02:04 GMT

Explain to the kids so they can understand (age wise) that drugs are alcohol are not for for anyone. Even these bigger than life people get into trouble when they utilize these harmful often illegal substances. Be a part of your kids lives, be involved in everything (not controlling, just involved), and for peat sake use discipline and remain in control. When you are a Parent your job is to teach, nurture, etc. your job is NOT to be your kids friend. I think alot of Parents worry about that instead of doing their job.

From E.W.: Simple. Appeal to their sense of self image. Point out all ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 04:13:51 GMT

Simple. Appeal to their sense of self image. Point out all the coverage of these celebrities in all kinds of compromising situations and say "Look. Look what drugs make you do. Act foolish, look silly. These people are not famous anymore for their talents. Their famous for how much of a train wreck they are."

From Steve C: You must teach your children to think for themselves and not ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 04:45:23 GMT

You must teach your children to think for themselves and not allow popular culture to influence their lives. You begin this process by encouraging your child to both question and challenge the popular notions by subjecting them to the tests of truth and veracity. A thing is true only when it's precisely worded opposite is untrue. A postulated truth is only to be taken as trustworthy when the postulant has no possible interest in passing off a falsity as truth. If one neglects to instill these seminal values in one's children, no amount of "teachable moments" will alter the course of a life already undermined by a lack of principles.

From brando4755: I teach them that most of what we hear about celebrity ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 04:47:37 GMT

I teach them that most of what we hear about celebrity gossip is probably all wrong because the tabloids just want to make stories as sensational as possible. But I also teach them that celebrities live in a strange world where they get used to being the center of attention, and when they go back to normal life, it must seem so completely horrible they they turn to drugs. So the rule is, don't become famous, it isn't worth it. The price is too high.

From 362436: None of those will be teachable moments if you have not been ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 05:20:17 GMT

None of those will be teachable moments if you have not been training your kids from the get go to stay away from the pitfalls of drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, ect. Do as I say not as I do attitude doesn't not get it either. By the time kids are in their teens if you have not taught them right from wrong they will follow the crowd.

From mree: first it's important to keep the lines of communication ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 05:24:00 GMT

first it's important to keep the lines of communication open...kids will ask questions if they think you're approachable. when they ask...answer them, do your best and be honest (they know when you're twisting the truth). Second life lesson...taking responsibilty for your actions. this is taught both verbally and by example. Third alot of these celebs look aweful when there getting mug shots taken...they get into car accidents, face jail time, etc. This is not glorifying in any way. Dr. Drew's show about addiction is in your face real and not attractive. If your kids want to talk about drugs then make sure they see all aspects of use and know the consequences.

From etoile j: i think that showing your children that even though these ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 05:44:49 GMT

i think that showing your children that even though these celebrities have the world handed to them on a plate, they still have problems. and its possible to say that, even with all the power/money/fame that these people have is a big cause of their downfalls.

From roly jazz: I and all my guys love Heath Leadger , where is he ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 06:29:41 GMT

I and all my guys love Heath Leadger , where is he now??? dead, why ??? because he was on drugs.

From no_nonsense: You tell them about the latest research showing that some ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 07:08:30 GMT

You tell them about the latest research showing that some people are genetically predisposed to becoming addicted to various drugs. Even trying a drug one time can lead to addiction in some people. Willpower is useless.

From leon: I see where you are coming from. I too am sick of hearing ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 07:37:11 GMT

I see where you are coming from. I too am sick of hearing about the idiots in Hollywood and NY. Where is Charles Bronson when we need him? Yes, I know he passed on, but you get my point. My kid is grown, that stuff wasn't televised when he was growing up. (Least I don't remember it).

From PETER M: By telling him that the answer to life isn't in being a ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 08:06:43 GMT

By telling him that the answer to life isn't in being a celebrity. Everyone has to deal with problems. Enjoy the entertainment, but don't worry about the celebrity. They are people who have problems like everyone else.

From ☆Ele☆: Show them at their worst and how they came thru it or didn't ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 08:15:26 GMT

Show them at their worst and how they came thru it or didn't get thru the situation. Also show past situations involving celebs and just your everyday person. I think also have celebs talk at high schools about the temptations and how easily it can draw you in and that its not worth it and how to say no would also be using their "star" voices to reach out and it would stick with kids hopefully. But if I were a parent I would be open with my child about it and hope that they feel they can come to me to talk and not give into peer pressure or the short lived fake glam of doing drugs. When I was growing up we had a drug week each year at my high school where we would have a public speaker come to talk to us everyday of that week. I still remember it and it stuck with me.

From Grace D: Most celebrities should not be role models whether positive ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 08:26:52 GMT

Most celebrities should not be role models whether positive or negative. You should teach your children at an early age yourself about drugs. You should strike fear into them, so when they are eventually confronted with alcohol, drugs or cigarettes, they run the other way. Show them the consequences. Like death or injury from drunk driving. The cable TV show Intervention could teach kids how they ruin their lives and others with addictions. Don't let children associate celebrities with life making decisions

From julie b: I would reiterate that even money does not make people happy ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 08:36:40 GMT

I would reiterate that even money does not make people happy . . .

From KARINA B: well i don't have a kid yet but if my son would ask me about ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 09:42:23 GMT

well i don't have a kid yet but if my son would ask me about this certain things i would tell him that this people maybe Need more attention from their love one and maybe their doing this because they thought that this would be the best answer for their problem.

From ithebestinworld: It depends on how the elders in the family teach the kids ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 10:39:12 GMT

It depends on how the elders in the family teach the kids to take these things... If the response of the little individual is taken to concern and advice him on how to deal with such news, kids will feel responsible and make it a point to think wisely.

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Tue, 29 Jan 2008 10:50:49 GMT

From Me: Being a kid, well a big kid (20 yrs old) I would just hope ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 11:16:43 GMT

Being a kid, well a big kid (20 yrs old) I would just hope that my parents would approach it like this: "We understand that you see a lot of things on television, but just know that everyone can make bad choices- even good people. Take everything you see with a grain of salt and decide for yourself how you want to live your life. Don't be disappointed if who you thought was a good influence turns out to be less than perfect. We all make mistakes and we can all bounce back from them." Maybe not word for word, but something like that.

From )0( Cricket Song: I think that it's important to show children that even ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 12:14:08 GMT

I think that it's important to show children that even celebrities who "seem to have it all" - fortune and fame - can still fall into addictions. Anyone who decides to experiment with drugs can become an addict. Anyone. As an example, I take the latest headline and ask my child what the celebrity could lose from the addiction (money, freedom and fans - are generally common answers) . I then take that same drug addiction and talk about what my child could possibly lose if he became addicted to that same drug (friends/family, freedom and money/possessions - are the answers I usually get). It helps my child relate and understand better than ANYONE can become addicted to drugs and have the same consequences.

From Sharlock: Parents, parents !!! first of all must know how to deliver ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 12:48:17 GMT

Parents, parents !!! first of all must know how to deliver the right msg of this media publicity cw drugs...Show'em the the money could be good & bad in same time & the problems they get with & after from the drugs ! and lastly to be sure they got the msg right right in their heads...Once the kids get the msg, PLZ ! No need to let kids in the first place to watch these programs.

From beckaboo5: i watched ur show celeb rehab and my favorite actor was jeff ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 13:58:11 GMT

i watched ur show celeb rehab and my favorite actor was jeff conaway and when i saw him on ur show i was so sad. when my kids see people like that on drugs or alcoholics i just tell them that they are sick people that need help and u dont have to be like them... my friends brother was a coke head and so was his uncle and they would do it togther.and then one day the brother went and got help and the uncle didnt. . i dont want my kids see people like that in the world.. it to sad to see what they go through...

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Tue, 29 Jan 2008 14:58:26 GMT

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From supergod061: Using illegal drugs for recreation is not always so bad, for ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 15:00:16 GMT

Using illegal drugs for recreation is not always so bad, for example, smoking some cannabis with some friends is a fun and non-addictive thing to do.People forget that there is pleasure in drug use.

From GeneGregoryArt.com: It is sad that the news media reports are about 99% negative ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 15:16:21 GMT

It is sad that the news media reports are about 99% negative news. They say that only the 'bad' or 'shocking' news sells. I would remind my daughter that there are thousand of well-adjusted and respectable young ladies for every one of those misguided young people such as Britney Spears. We should have compassion for those who stumble in the spot light, but not pattern our lives after them. Fame & fortune brings presure for most people, especially the young. A better understanding of why someone fails will help us all to avoid the pitfalls. The recent death of Heath Ledger should remind us not only of the death of an actor, but also the great life that might have been. Ledger like many others will not be able to enjoy all the really specially things, such as seeing his children grow up, and the indiscrible love of grandchildren.

From justaskin: Find some real celebs, instead of the least known Baldwin ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 15:44:37 GMT

Find some real celebs, instead of the least known Baldwin (is he even a Baldwin?), a "rockstar" with one hit, some pro fighter nobody knows, and of course knicky... give me a break! Mary Carey is such a whore... I love her!

From signa_strom: I've used stories like this to point out that "having ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 16:47:28 GMT

I've used stories like this to point out that "having everything" does not make people happy, and when people feel empty inside they often turn to drugs and alcohol to take away the pain and emptiness. We as a culture seem to believe that having fame and fortune is what leads to happiness. How can these celebrities complain about feeling unfulfilled when they "have it all"? No one would listen. Everyone would call them cry babies or unappreciative. Not many people know how to deal with their emptiness, especially if there is no support or empathy for them because of their status. My kids and I have discussed this a lot. The are beginning to recognize that it isn't having fame and fortune that makes you happy, it's doing things that good and right with what you have (be it a lot or a little) that gives you a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction. Having a purpose in your life - a purpose that truly serves to make the world better - is what keeps you away from the drugs and alcohol.

From uhhhhh....no!: You don't, they see it and will want to do it. Especially ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 17:07:54 GMT

You don't, they see it and will want to do it. Especially since many of these drugged out celebs are glamourized even throughout their hardships ☼

From hermit: They often get into drugs thinking its cool or because their ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 18:47:22 GMT

They often get into drugs thinking its cool or because their friends do it. These celeb stories are a good example of how things can go terribly wrong. Pointing out to kids a celeb.'s "fall" careerwise and/or characterwise will help a lot. These kids have the ability and smarts to learn from mistakes, even if its other' mistakes. All thats needed is someone to point it out and guide them when they need guidance.

From david b: I usually like to point out that these people who "get ...

Tue, 29 Jan 2008 19:10:06 GMT

I usually like to point out that these people who "get clean" still have permanent damage to there bodies, health problems, as well as permanent mental struggles due to chemical imbalances of the brain and the temptation to use again there whole life. All of this are things you will never here them talk about on TV. Most of them are like yes I'm all sober now it is great. They never say that they now have a pace maker or total pancreatic failure.

From Mike J: Don't wait for them to bring it up - they never will. You ...

Wed, 30 Jan 2008 07:09:44 GMT

Don't wait for them to bring it up - they never will. You have to mention what is happening, and then ask them what they think about it. Be prepared for the "this is what I think you want me to say" answer. Then you should ask them "Good answer - but how do you really feel about it?" They'll probably say "that's how I feel" and you just add "Why?" That will open up the conversation. Do a lot of listening and ask questions that drive you deeper into the topic. A great objective is to have the children turning questions on to you. That means they are thinking about it, and lets you know where they stand in regards to the facts and their personal opinions about the subject. It's really important in the conversation, especially by the end of your time on the subject, that you express to them--in the best way that you as their parent will know how--that you love them and are on their side in all of the choices they face. Good luck with your three, Drew.

From Darren G: Allow your kids to watch celebrity rehab with Dr. Drew!!! ...

Thu, 31 Jan 2008 00:28:03 GMT

Allow your kids to watch celebrity rehab with Dr. Drew!!! They'll learn about the dark side of drugs and drug rehabilitation, especially with the case of Jeff!!!

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From Florida R: In my opinion the timing for "news worthy events" ...

Thu, 31 Jan 2008 17:21:20 GMT

In my opinion the timing for "news worthy events" of Britney Spears, Jamie Lynn Spears and LIndsay Lohan couldn't have been better. I am the father of a soon-to-be 13 year old daughter who I believe to be very intelligent. However, I know that teens will be teens. With that thought, I have been talking to her about drugs, alcohol, smoking and teenage intimacy (including sex) for years. At first the conversations were very quick and informal. Something as simple as seeing someone smoking while we were driving would create opportunity for comment. But gradually the conversations became more lengthy and more in depth. Before I knew it, she was now pointing out things to me and either commenting or asking questions. As she aged further, I started to get the "not again" comment, complete with the look of disgust. Then along comes Britney, LIndsay and now Britney's little sister Jamie Lynn. Everything that I had been preaching to my daughter and warning her about had come to light in a very real and very frightening way. Now my daughter was asking me questions again. I felt that these girls had given me the ammunition I needed to continue my comments against drugs, alcohol, smoking and sex. Better yet, I was provided situations that showed perfectly the potential results of those actions. I don't wish that evilness on anyone, and I hope that Britney, Lindsay and Jamie Lynn come out of these events stronger than ever. However, I am thankful that the news has provided such a vivid example of "how not to do it". Frank

From wonderwomanCBH: I'm an Addictions Counselor in a large high school in ...

Thu, 31 Jan 2008 17:25:40 GMT

I'm an Addictions Counselor in a large high school in Nebraska. I work with about 150-200 kids a year who have a diagnosis of A/oD abuse or dependency ...OR are COAs (Children of Addiction) I teach a class which is designed to begin a process of intervention with these youth, teaching about drugs, of course, but more importantly the real life consequences of substance use disorders. The class is dynamic, powerful, intimate as speakers who have lived the consequences come to tell their "stories". As an adjunct, I watch the papers and online resources to see what celebrity is also living out those consequences. I send links to those articles via email to all my students who read and comment. They are a lively source of discussion in class since the Celebrity Well never seems to run dry. I want them to be able to recognize addiction when they see it and to realize that devastation from Addiction is everywhere. And to know that really bad things will happen if they don't "get it", address it, and get into real Recovery. .................Just like the 'STARS'.

From Shenanigans: The best way for you to show your children how to live ...

Fri, 01 Feb 2008 04:45:55 GMT

The best way for you to show your children how to live through television mishaps is to show them the lives on drugs are not only blasted and ridiculed with problems, battles with the addiction and loss of everything important to you, but that your life will drastically change when you start down the path of bad drugs. There are drugs that only destroy (like the American Blood Diamond -- Crack), and these things only prove that your life would be on the steady course to downfall, depression and disaster.

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Fri, 01 Feb 2008 18:42:41 GMT

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From melisjohn3: When ever headlines of celebrity drug/alcohol issues come up ...

Sat, 02 Feb 2008 03:49:30 GMT

When ever headlines of celebrity drug/alcohol issues come up I just stress moderation. I feel making anything taboo or ultra restricted it becomes more appealing. I really do tell my 17 year old daughter that alcohol and even drugs, used in moderation are like desert. Its a treat, once in a while nothing used in moderation will kill you. That goes for almost anything in life. Food, gambling, sex, drugs, shopping , alcohol etc. If you work hard ,pay your bills and everything is taken care of go have some fun, In moderation. This will bring out anger and hostility but its realistic. PS my daughter does not drink or use drugs. Had I preached unrealistic abstinance and been uber strict she may. I will never know for sure but it makes sense. My parents were super restrictive with sugar and as a young adult I gorged on sugar for several years after moving out on my own.

From Lisa C: I have done this before. When watching or talking about on ...

Sat, 02 Feb 2008 15:00:33 GMT

I have done this before. When watching or talking about on the radio. I took the time to tell my kids about how drugs and drinking has destryed there lifes and always will till they stop using. I also use myself as an example I once used to much and stopped.

From mike s: You tell your child reason the celebrity is in deep do-do is ...

Sun, 03 Feb 2008 03:26:45 GMT

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From PATRIOTS: its hard

Thu, 07 Feb 2008 13:23:28 GMT

its hard

From Monie: I think that it is important to distinguish that these ...

Thu, 07 Feb 2008 18:48:31 GMT

I think that it is important to distinguish that these celebrities are people too. Sometimes because of their notoriety and fame we put them on platforms and make them invincible, when they are only human just like us. To the outside world celebrities seem to have everything: money, good looks, fame. We should teach our children that drugs are not biased to certain types of people. Drugs can affect anyone at anytime. I think that awareness and information is key to teach our children about the negative consequences of drug abuse.

From stygianwolfe: Dr. DrewYou need to show them examples,from mild to ...

Fri, 08 Feb 2008 06:33:29 GMT

Dr. DrewYou need to show them examples,from mild to extreme.Then explain how the disease progresses.Then explain maybe by Ex -users where they were heading in life,and why they arent there now.This pertains to average people.Celebrities on the other hand can make it look more glamourous,but as I saw your show,I see it is confusion,so I dont think your getting the message out very well.Things I learned in rehab. 1st.You dont cross talk(open forum in the group)this is why I see your show as confusing(it grows off the subject.)2nd.I see (on the show) that you are allowing drama(a little more than needed and We drug addicts know drama.I think your Idea 's are good,but its not coming off that way(on the show)

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Tue, 24 Feb 2009 23:10:23 GMT