Why does my boyfriend want nude photos of me so much?

Question

hes begging and pleading me for them, why,?
why cant he just look at porn

Answer 1

Best Answer - Chosen by Voters

two reasons,
1. to jerk off to
2. to show to friends

Answer 2

If your boyfriend wants nude photos so badly, and he can't respect that you don't want to take them, then he may not be the boy for you. No matter how much you 'love' or 'trust' him, he could be a jerk and send them to people or post it on the internet, or you could just not feel comfortable taking them because that's how you feel. Either way, if he does want to be with you, he needs to respect you and your body and the boundaries that you set.

Answer 3

..Don't even consider giving him some.
If he's so pushy about wanting to see you naked, then I don't find him as a very good boyfriend, unless you tell him No and he stops. If he's willing to wait, then hes good in my eyes.
I see that if a guy wants nudes, he's either testing you(To see if you really will.), really desperate, planning on masturbating OR sharing them online/ with pals. Which would make him an asshole.

Testing you : To see if you easily give in. If thats the case, don't do it. Because if you don't, then he'll most likely respect you more... girls that share nudes come off as whores and easy.
Really Desperate : He just wants to see you naked. Still don't take chances.
Planning on Masturbating : Porno exists.
Sharing Them: This is the main reason why you shouldn't. This could get you both into legal trouble, or cause you a lot of pain and humiliation.

I have no idea of knowing his motives, but generally, those are the main reasons why.

So bottom line is : Don't share them no matter what :P

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Wise advice from people I know

Answer 4

Because he can connect your images to real experiences. It creates a direct mental connection to the pleasure you arouse by being near him. Not to mention the display of trust on your part, which is secretly a thousand, thousand times hotter than any porn on the internet.

He wants to think about you while pleasuring himself, rather than some other girl. This is a problem why, exactly?

Answer 5

Cause he's your boyfriend and wants to be able to see you naked whenever he wants. I have a **** load of naked pics from my ex. Its just really hot. But no matter what someone else will probably end up seeing the pic(s); whether its from him showing friends, or someone going through his phone.

He really just wants them to masterbate too. Take it as a complement that he finds you so attractive. I wouldnt recommened sending any naked pics, just because of the reasons I listed above, and you obviously dont want to. Dont ever let someone pressure you into doing something you dont want to do.

Answer 6

Well... he could just want to "get happy."
But it's also the emotional reasons. Having a picture of a girl you like is always better.
Finally. it gives a man a sense of accomplishment. It's one step below having sex with you. And he'll always have proof.
Nothing wrong with sending them though, assuming you're 18+

Answer 7

Your more attractive to him then a porn star. If you are under 18 though don't send him anything as it is considered child pornography for you to send him any naked pictures of yourself.

Answer 8

Testosterone.

Don't do it. Also, a lot of men post them on the internet.
Then there is the NSA.

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_Se…
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Remember Paris Hilton.

Answer 9

Why exactly? does he want to show them off? I don't know about you, but I would stand my ground, if you don't want to do this, then don't.

Answer 10

I wouldn't do it. You never know what he could do with those pictures if he loves you, IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU...he'll show it to you and not asking you to send him pics of you without clothes.

Answer 11

Omg, i thought i was the only one. But dont send it! I did that and one of his guy friends saw it -__-. thats all they want anyway.

Answer 12

Men are more visual than women. But I wouldnt take any nude photos and give them to him because if you two break up he might sabatosh you.

Answer 13

Either because he wants to show them to someone, or because he's masturbating. Either way sounds bad.

Answer 14

omg same thing happened to me. he kept pestering me,but when he finally got the message that no meant no, he ditched me and never talked to me again. sucks right?

Answer 15

kick em out... there's no reason you should have to give him nudies of youself! he's a dick who can only think with his dick it seems. Otherwise he wouldn't be asking for nude pictures of you >>

Answer 16

(ASSUMING THAT YOU ARE OF AGE) Why cant you take them? What you won't do someone else will. Are you prepared for that to happen?

Answer 17

he a jerk

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dump the zero and get wit da hero

Answer 18

Idk, but it sounds super suspicious. I wouldnt do it if I were you. I would actually be a little worried/paranoid.

Answer 19

to remember what he considers important when he inevitably leaves.

Answer 20

So he can post them on the internet.

Answer 21

he'd rather look at you! he obviously finds you very appealing! not a bad thing now is it?!

Answer 22

your hot to him and wouldnt you rather him be obsessed with you thn a bunch of whores

Answer 23

BAD IDEA

Answer 24

Because he wants U not porn xD
and anyway don't do it that just brings problems

Answer 25

hes a perv?

Answer 26

looks like you need a new bf, especially if you haven't been dating for long

Answer 27

OMG I think he want's to do it with u!Lol

Answer 28

i wouldn't do it....he'll expose them if anything bad were to happen between you two

Answer 29

yup I agree with josie