How do you finger a girl?

Question

My girlfriend let me finger her the other day and it was the first time id ever done it. it just felt so weird for me. We were laying kind of parallel so my arm had to go down and my hand had to curve a little bit (if that makes sense) and our heads were close to each others. She also had on these somewhat tight pants (i don't know if that would have anything to do with this). I felt her vagina so I went to put my finger in. It went in a little but not very far, like around the first knuckle, I didn't want to push too hard and hurt her but i pushed a little and it didn't go in very far. I tried to finger her but it didn't seem to feel really good or anything so I rubbed the outside and she would start breathing really heavily but it just didn't seem as pleasurable for her when I put my fingers back in. A few weeks later things got really really hot and I tried again but she wouldn't let me. I could rub her from the outside of her pants but not the inside.
Could someone help me out here?

Answer 1

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The best stimulation starts in the inner thighs then moves on to the outer labia, then you move on to stimulate the inner labia and the clitoris, and as arrousal builds up you go deeper. At least thats how I like it done... fingering too quickly or going for the clitoris right away is a bad idea, it is uncomfortable and we don't enjoy it... it would be like if she suddenly started rubbing the head of your penis frantically while your penis is flacid.

Answer 2

if her pants are to tight, that makes it difficult to do anything. and let her tell you where to go. let her hand guide you to her pleasure centers. her cLit is one, and the the other is just inside called the g spot. it's ok to explore. talk to each other, find out what feels good for her

Answer 3

It's the start of masturbation on the clitoris that is most important. Insertion is secondary. But be clean with no sharp fingernails and be gentle. Every female is different.

Answer 4

a females most sensitive sex organ is her Clitoris ( not inside her vagina) and that is on the Outside
that is why rubbing her outside area turns her on more- the vagina has few nerve endings Inside it while the Clitoris is Full of them

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read these for more info on the female body and how it works- the more you Know the better Lover you can become

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice…
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Answer 5

first tell her to wear looser pants. because wearing tight pants will not do anything. so you unbutton, and slowly work your way down, rubbing the outside and such. though most guys have no idea where to rub, and the girl is just faking it the whole time, but then you use your middle finger and go in slowly, then go in and out a couple times, and then as your finger is inside of her, move it up and down. nooo, not in and out, up and down, and it will feel like a sponge sort of. that would be her g spot. and go slow, and then get fast, she will like it. seriously. i am a girl, i know what i like.

Answer 6

okay i have to perfect answer so read carefully.
tell her to wear loose pant or just take them off it doesnt matter
first tease her
put your middle finger and index finger inside the lips or her vargina and slowly stroke it
then if she starts to get wet use your middle finger to stroke over her hole to her clit (the tiny sircular thing) then rub her clit
rub it fast slow both
do what ever turns her on
when she starts breathing heavy dont stop it means she likes it
keep rubbing her clit with your tumb and stick your middle finger in her
ask her if she likes it.
keep rubing her clit.
dont stop rubbing it!!!
then as time goes on try and see how many fingers you can fit inside of her.
ask her what she likes too
remember your trying to please her.
maybe shell help you or show you ;p