I got a problem. Why don't girls like me?

Question

Alright...I'm starting middle school and have never had a gf. I think Im decent looking (average height, average weight, brown skin, dark hair, glasses). I hang out with all kinds of crowds (Im not a loser who hangs with just one crowd, I even hang with crowds who hate each other). And some girls even say that Im nerdy but cool at the same time (so nerdy in a good way). But no girl has even showed a sign of liking me. Why dont girls like me? And plz dont say anything mean or inappropriate. Thnx.

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U guys are wrong first of all. There are tons of couples in my skool.

Answer 1

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Check this out, it may be the secret. Girls do like you but you just don't know how to identify the strange signals that girls send that say, Lets do something together cause your neat.
Don't try to do everything to meet girls, they pickup on desperation, and that's rarely attractive to them. You don't want them to try to fix you. Really, that's very bad. Just be yourself, everyone hates the Phone Joe Cool, and guess what? The real Joe Cools don't know they're the real thing. The coolest dude is the guy who knows himself. If you suck at stuff and you know it, either fix it or forget it. Enjoy yourself, if you can figure yourself out you'll be more confident and chicks like confident guys .But don't be a showboat. Don't worry about this stuff. Things change, you still have high school and college or university in the future.
Define to yourself the type of person you want to be, ( that may change ) be kind, be polite, and be of good morale standing, and the girls will come to you. Fads aren't going to last forever, so don't get sucked in to something stupid. Be careful and enjoy your youth. Trust in yourself, be confident, and good things will come to you. I hope my advise helps somewhat, but don't be afraid to ask around. I've found that old geezers have great advise, especially the ones with a twinkle in the eye. Really!

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U rock man. I think u gave the best advice.

Answer 2

middle school? thats like 7th or 8th grade right?

dont freakin worry about it. Kids your age shouldnt even be "dating" dude save girlfriends for highschool and beyond man. Enjoy being a kid

Answer 3

just starting middle school? isnt that 6th grade? give it time

Answer 4

Because you don't have confidence.

Answer 5

maybe u should make a first move

Answer 6

Um how do u know if any girl likes u or not? most ppl try
to hide their feelings about who they like until they know the other prsn likes em bak.
And ur just STARTING middle skool , dating isnt as big as a fad
at that age.

Answer 7

I completely understand where you are cuming from....it'll just take some time, try to lose the glasses.

Answer 8

I think, by asking this question as proof, you worry to much about what other people think. You're too self conscious, just be happy with the way you look, and middle school isn't that old, most people don't meet their "one" until a few years before they marry. Secondly, why are there so many damn kids who ask this question...eager to get ahead in life much? Trust me, don't rush through life, it's going fast enough.

Answer 9

ur just starting middle skool and u already want a gf !!!!!!!!!!!!!! wht r u like 12 or so?? boy tht is too young to start dating, enjoy ur childhood while u still can, thr is still plenty of time for girls in the future. :)

Answer 10

You are only in middle school. Everyone goes through that. Your fine, I am sure you are a cutie..Just wait to get a girlfriend till you are at least a freshman in highschool..jeesh....

Answer 11

ok so if you are in 6th grade, girls are very shy so wait...but always flirt, there is nothing wrong with that. good luck

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Answer 12

Why is it me and 5% of the men population get 95% of the girls.

You just have to be better looking, Idk your looks, but I bet you can imhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/answer… them (im not saying your ugly)

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Answer 13

ok,.... don't base this whole outlook on girls just by middle school you could find someone at work college or anything..... i am also in middle school.....and i also have no gf ...i have got some offers but i turned them down ..... i personally think that middle school is a too young of a age to be worrying about love.. i just keep my eyes on my school work and please don't get all depressed because of this and don't think that you will never find that someone ok ..so don't worry.. =) ...have a nice day!

Answer 14

late bloomer? Not everyone can start out as a "ladies man" I guess...

Answer 15

i am a high school girl. my advice would be to pick a girl that isnt too pretty or "popular" because she will be happy to have someone like her. u have to be funny and slip in compliments when they are needed. also dont make it obvious u like someone and dont obsess! if someone doesnt like u back get over it dont push too hard.... the girl u least expect to be a good gf will end up being the best one. good luck!!

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Answer 16

Well first off let me say that you sound like your a pretty friendly guy, its not that girls don't like you, the ones that probably do like you are shy. If your brave enough to approach a girl and ask her out then go for it or just try flirting around with girls because they do love that. Overall just be yourself, and everything will fall into place, girls come and go, so don't be discouraged if girls aren't all over you. you will get noticed more by girls by just being your self then pretending to be someone your not.

Answer 17

First of all, ARE YOU MAD?! I GO IN NO CROWED BECAUSE I HAVE FRIENDS! Are YOUR friends Special to you, or are they just people you know. ...Sorry... I'm normal. Anyway, a nerd means a smart person so I think it's in a good way. But have you ever seen anyone attractive and kind? Find someone Special to love. Like the friend crud I said, you can't just like a person you know. It has to be a great friendship. And it's completely normal in 7th grade. You'll probably find someone at 25 like a normal person.

Hope this helps.

Answer 18

Have you even tried to talk with a girl or show interest? How do you know they don't like you? You are still very young and at a tough age to be accepted by the opposite sex. Give it time and you will find there will be that special girl for you.If you show interest in a girl as friends, that friendship could work into something special. Just remember that girls have to feel at ease and want trust with a boy. So don't rush things.

Answer 19

Maybe you're too nice? Girls like guys who know who they are... sounds like maybe you are a crowd floater. Girls definitely don't like guys who are nice to EVERYONE. Little things like that can be the problem. Its probably not your looks... a little attitude and self esteem goes a long way! Be confident!

Answer 20

get some swagger like just get a whole new make over like new and improved glass and if you don't wear uniforms get some new clothes

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Answer 21

Your JUST entering middle school sweetheart your still a child and girls are still just that...little girls. Atleast wait until your in high school before you need to worry about girls not wanting you. Your just a young child. Having a girlfriend at your age isn't what should be the biggest thing in your life.

I'm almost 18 and have never had a boyfriend. I'm the one who should be worrying about WHY I don't have a boyfriend not you...your still WAY to young. Just be a kids when you still are one. Before you know it you won't be a kid anymore.