I just meet a married lady...?

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at work who is incredible! I'm talking one of the finest women I've ever meet. I've made small talk here and there and finally had lunch with her outside the office today. It couldn't have gone better, in fact we were alittle late getting back to the office.
After work she gave me one of her business cards that I swear she sprayed perfume on as it not only smells like her but is the best smelling business card ever!
She put her personal cell on the back with a "call me anytime".
I'm not looking to ruin a marriage but this is one of those once in a lifetime opportunities that has seemingly dropped in my lap.
Guys, would there be any harm in, as the old saying goes "hit it and quit it"? It would be a one time thing. What harm would come from it?

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Dadsboy-You seem to be taking this question a little personally. Do you have a good looking wife at home that you're not taking care of properly? If not maybe she's the one I'm talking about...never know....

Answer 1

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If she has kids... don't be evil and ruin there lives, if she dosen't....then I'd say it MIGHT be ok if she isn't into her husband.

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Answer 2

homewrecker!!!! whats wrong with you stay away

Answer 3

It only takes once to ruin a marriage.

Answer 4

Hit it and quit it.
But remember she's married, she must be talented at making men lay 'n' stay.

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Lmfao, I'm a woman.

Answer 5

Wow. What an *** thing to do.

Answer 6

WOW. yes, you are walking down the path you say you do not want to go down. The path that will ruin the marriage. Perhaps the marriage is ruined but you don't need to add to it. Hit is and quit it is a personal choice.

Answer 7

yes dude get at that cougar it is a once in a life time thing hit it and quit it but if she wants more then keep hitting it hahaha

Answer 8

the rule of thumb is " if they will cheat on him, they will also cheat on you" I am 58 years old and i have seen this come true over and over and over, stay away from married and separated ones. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

well if she has kids dont! if she doesnt why not!

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Answer 10

wow. your a homewrecking whore. even thinking about that tells everyone that is going to read this you are a sick, sick man. Why would you want to ruin someones marriage like that? Even if she is coming on to you, be a good person and realize ITS NOT RIGHT!

Answer 11

Okay I'm not a guy but I will tell you that it's a BAD idea to get involved with a married woman! Not only will she expect it to be more then just a "hit it and quit it" type of situation, but who is her husband? If he finds out he might kick your ***! Plus getting involved with someone at work is never a good idea because you will have to deal with the awkward we had sex and we are trying to be professional thing! Also a woman in an unhappy marriage will probably be really clingy and try to get you to be like serious with her despite the fact that she's married. Trust me! Good luck!

Answer 12

just think of how you would feel if this was your wife and someone decided to hit it and quit it. i think your a disgusting desperate pig!

Answer 13

You are disgusting! How is the review of your life going to go? Break up a marriage....What God has brought together let no man tear assunder. Do you ever worry about hell?

Answer 14

Quit thinking with your dk. You just might get into something to deep like mean hubby.

Answer 15

You still have to look yourself in the mirror tomorrow....you know what you are asking is wrong and you are tempted so you are here asking for someone to tell you go ahead it don't matter....BS you will still know it is wrong.....so suck it up and go do the right thing.

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Answer 16

Do what you want...but just remember that what goes around always ALWAYS comes around.

Answer 17

If you don't seriously care for her and just want to hit it.. then don't even think about ruining a marriage. Even if you did care about her that wouldnt be right, but since you just want sex then thats a big no no.

I hope somebody sleeps with your wife someday!!

Answer 18

How would you feel if someday your wife had lunch with a coworker and he "hit it and quit it" with her? Would any harm come of it? Be careful, Karma's a @%&*#.

Answer 19

Well if your looking for a relationship I don't think it would be wise to mess with a married lady. Theres a reason why she is married and you don't want to be involed with that. If she comes to you then thats fine but if you really like her then be a man and respect her, she will like you more as a friend. See if she was to cheat on her husband know and left him to get with you what makes you think she wont do that to you. Once a cheater always a cheater.

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Answer 20

Well first of all, she's married and she is someone else's! How would you feel if you were married to an incredible woman and some punk who works with her was trying to screw around with her? My husband would be p*ssed!!!!!!
As for what seems to be like hints, this woman sounds a lot like me. I tell people (even guys) to message me anytime if they need to talk, or call me-some people are just friendly but have no intentions other than being your friend. Some people are just that nice and are mistaken as flirting or advancing. My advice-ask her. Chances are you've mistaken her kindness for flirting or whatever. Or if she is interested in you, then maybe you both ARE perfect for each other.

Answer 21

haha hell yea just do it. its her problem not yours if she is going to be going around sleeping with guys whens shes married

Answer 22

You are treading unsafe waters not only do you work with her (nono) she is married and the last time i checked the receiving end of an angry husband is not a fun place to be? But maybe you like drama and need some excitement than in that case go for it.

Answer 23

Shame on you to even consider something like this.
Even if she's hitting on you (which i doubt) you should have self dignity and not be so cheap and available to just hop into bed with a married woman.
There are enough and more singles around!
LEAVE THE MARRIED WOMEN ALONE!

Answer 24

DON’T BE A HOMEWRECKER!
She is married for a reason.
Do not go there.
I have no idea where people’s morals are these days, honestly.
Why would the thought even cross your mind????????

Answer 25

If u like her, go get laid, nothing more.. and always remember she's a s-lut, she's married and still trying to fu-ck another man, don't forget.. just another who-re that won't charge you.. that's what I'd do..

Answer 26

Much harm may come from your "hit it and quit it", if the woman has
Children and a Husband.
If you have any conscience at all, why ruin anyone's marriage for your self gratification?
This could lead to devastating consequences for you.

Answer 27

thats really messed

why are you going to ruien someones marriage for your own selfish needs?
thats really low and you have no respect for women

look there are alot of pretty girls out there,not just her,and you will find someone else
leave the marriage alone..

what you are doing is selfish and it seems you are willing to hurt someone for bad reasons

plus she MIGHT NOT even like you
maybe she is just being friendly
some women easily lead other men on

Answer 28

Yep, go ahead and "hit it and quit it"...

I hope her husband finds your dumb a**

Answer 29

Your once in a lifetime opportunity will ruin her marriage and you know it. She could be telling many men to "call her anytime."

Answer 30

Let me make sure I understand this right:

A married woman had lunch with you and then gave you a business card with her cell # on the back with "call me anytime."???

Please....she may be "one of the finest women you've ever met" but she's a HO! Lose any respect you might HAVE had for her. Did you hear me? She a HO!!

Answer 31

A once in a lifetime opportunity to do what exactly? Or are your values, morals and self-respect already in the toilet? Keep your pants zipped, and run, not walk, in the other direction.