Is it alright for a girl to always split bill with the guy while dating?

Question

so i m seeing this guy currently, the first time we went out he did not initiate to paid the full bill so i was kidding him saying that isn it ya treat, but i initiate to ask him out too so is ok i don mind to split the bill i guess. at the end of the date, he did asked me if i would like to have movie with him some other time cos he had complimentary tickets, so i said ok, as i find that we kinda share the same interests n gets along pretty well. when we share the cab home, i offered to paid him my journey fare, but he said is ok just 5 bucks is no problem.
The next day we sms a bit in the day, he mentioned in the day he was gonna do some gorceries shopping that evening, i was surprise when he sms me towards the end of day to ask if i wanna meet up instead. So we did n nice dinner, so when the bill came, same thing, i waited for a while then well i don wanna make the whole thing awkard n i again offered to split the bill. Now, i m nt the those woman that depends on man for free meal, but i suppose it would be a nice guesture when the man pays for it. when i was in my past relationship, i do a am willing to share whatever bills, it doesn't matters. So well the summary is, i just donknow if this guy is calculative or was he thinking that i am nt his gf yet so no need to take care of all this. i don know, but overall he is a nice guy to be with.. those with the smiliar experience pls share.. tks

Answer 1

are you sleeping with him? had you slept with him the first night? some guys are douch bags and make you pay the bill if they dont get to sleep with you...

but to answers your question (my appologies for the curiosity)
no it is not normal for a girl to pay for the meal.. even half of it. i get annoyed when a girl offers to pay for it.

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Answer 2

Both sides of any healthy relationship should be willing to cover the other. Neither partner should EVER expect the other to pay completely, especially based on irrelevant things like gender (birthdays and the like aside). As a result of this, split the bill, alternate paying, whatever. Simple. Where exactly does gender come into this?

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Please don't be one of these women who think the fact that they were born female somehow entitles them to something.

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