What's your ideal girlfriend?

Question

i was just wondering what guys think as the "perfect" girl. I know guys have different taste, but i just want to know and how much they varied.

1. What's the first thing you notice in a girl? (in a good way and bad way)
2. What's too short and what's too tall?
3. Quiet/shy or outgoing/loud
4. Sporty/Girly
5. Laughs a lot/Calm
6. Clumsy/graceful
7. Do you really care about weight/looks/ethnicity?
8. Favorite feature?smile? body? eyes? etc...
9. Humorous? (such has teasing and can take a joke and stuff)
10. Smarts?
11. Do you think it's attractive if a girl plays an instrument.. say a guitar?
12. do you like it if the girl a mother-like nature?

ETC! pleaseee add as much detail possible.

Answer 1

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1. eyes and smile (seriously)
2. doesn't matter
3. quiet/shy
4. girly
5. laughs a lot
6. clumsy
7. somewhat/no/no
8. smile
9. a must
10. doesn't matter
11. totally
12. yes, but doesn't matter

Usually I'm attracted to girls who are either quiet and mysterious, unique, or girls who act like I'm invisible...especially girls who act like I'm invisible lol I don't know why...also, I'm a huge fan of redheads! This may sound weird but I also like girls who are insecure. I'm insecure myself and for some reason I get more confidence helping others than others helping me. When I see a girl sitting by herself looking all depressed and untalkative I just wanna give her a big hug because I know they feel the way I feel sometimes. It's almost like I see myself in them. Like, I want to do for them what I wished someone would have done for me when I felt blue. But I'm NOT using them! Don't get me wrong. It has nothing to do with sex or doing it selfishly to make myself feel better. I just have a lot of love to give and insecure girls need love the most. And when a girl opens up about her feelings it always gets me started...I feel more relaxed knowing this girl really doesn't care about my low self-esteem. Plus those type of girls are usually loners, and I'm a loner. I'd much rather spend time alone with my girlfriend than always socializing with friends. I'm not overprotective or anything...two's company and three's a crowd, that's my philosophy. I guess it's obvious that I'm a Virgo, hey?

The only type of girls I DON'T like are the kind who fight with you every chance they get and/or girls who just sit around all day complaining about being bored but don't want to do anything about it. But guys are just as guilty of these things as girls...probably worse :)

Answer 2

You find her on your own.

Answer 3

I like...
a nice apple-like bum I can lick like a lolly pop.
about 5'4
outgoing, but modest
girl next door type
laughs
graceful
about 120 for that height, soft looks. I like White or Asian girls
nice smile, 34C or so, blue or green eyes
I like smart, but silly with a dorky sense of humor
Instruments are cool, but not necessary
I want a girl who will eventually be a good mother..a kind, caring person.

Answer 4

Someone who's confident in who they are as a person. When that's there, the rest is attractive.

Answer 5

I can't classify a human being into 12 different categories.

Answer 6

busty, you know, the **** are number one.

Answer 7

1) their face and body
2) same height or a little bit shorter
3) outgoing
4) both
5) laughs
6) both
7) yes about weight, yes about looks, yes about ethnicity
8) All
9) yes
10) yes
11) yea
12) not really

Answer 8

1. Smile
2. Too short is 4ft 8 inches, and too tall is 6ft 2 inches
3. Outgoing
4. Girly
5. Both
6. Graceful
7. Suppose
8. Smile
9. Yes
10. Quite Smart
11. No
12. No

Answer 9

the first thing I notice is looks because thats what i see first. If the personality is good then thats a bonus. Yes i love the fact my GF plays guitar. she isnt really good but i love teaching her new things and its a great thing to do together.

Answer 10

1. face she if she's in shape or not chest and but is a plus but it's not neccesary.
2.anything an inch over my height i might not consider
3.quiet not too shy though
4.kinda in between
5.laughs alot
6.clumsy it's cute
7.somewhat chubby is fine overweight i wouldn't
8.face
9.yeah that's allways good
10. has to be as smart or smarter then me
i dont like when i have to explain everything to them
11.it's cool but im not gonna be anymore attractive to her if she does or doesn't
12.not really

Answer 11

1. **** (seriously)
2. i like it so the **** are not to high not to low, so anywhere form 5 ft to 5 ft 8
3. I like some outgoing ****
4. big **** sometimes impede athletic performance
5. a girl when she laughs her **** bounce.
6. she has to know how to carry her ****
7. i like a nice pair of ****, not fat ****. looks have to be descent, but nice ****, i don't care about ethnicity, just the titties.
8. ****
9. Ummm, titties
10. Smart girls can have nice ****, but so can dumb girls
11. If it compliments the ****, then yes
12. Well sure, if she you know, has some nice ****.

Answer 12

1. If she is warm or not. I can usually tell by the way they react to me talking to them.
2. I like from 5'4 - 5'10, but honestly height doesn't matter at all.
3. I like outgoing girls that also have a volume knob.
4. Girly.
5. Laughs a lot! I love making my girl laugh.
6. It's alright if she's clumsy every once in a while, most people are.
7. Yes. I like a girl that looks good! Not overweight, and pretty.
8. Man, so many to choose from! They say the eyes are the window to the soul.
9. Of course.
10. Definately, I want her to be as educated as I am, so she has to at least have a bachelors degree.
11. Absolutely. As a multi-instrumentalist myself, I practically pitch a tent in my pants when I see a girl has musical ability.
12. As long as that doesn't mean she is getting mad at me for skipping school or not doing homework haha.

Answer 13

1. try not to notice what the eyes can see
2. too short would be under 5' too tall, over 6'
3. outgoing but not loud
4. don't know
5. lol laugher
6. graceful
7. white- because other cultures would conflict with mine, and as long as she's not Rose O donnell
8. if she be wild with me
9. teasing please
10. anything but dumb
11. anything but drums or bag pipes
12. don't know

Answer 14

1) I first notice experience level. If she is like my company executive, that doesn't appeal to me. If she is off the wall creative in her own gestures, I like that way more. I like pretty much the opposite of the girl who would compete for an executive position in a top firm. As far as looks, she has to be pretty enough that I'm reasonably attracted to her.

2) I like short girls all things the same, but I would not ever turn down a tall girl if she were good to me.

3) I prefer quite/shy except when the outgoing is really unusual

4) Girly

5) Laughs with, NOT at!

6) Clumsy

7) I prefer closer to what I am as far as ethnic. I'm not racist at all, but I'm more attracted to those who look more like the people who have an upbringing closer to mine.

8) Eyes (body sometimes)

9. Occasionally

10. Smarts is a plus

11. Of course

12. Mother-like nature is very good in the long-run and needs to be taken into account if you want a happy lasting marriage.

Answer 15

boys will attract to the physical appearance first due to that is the first thing that every one can see.
so appearance is very important.when a guy goes for a big and fat and ugly girl ,definitely there is some thing wrong with him as well,no pretty girl wants to be with him.
and it is not important what boys want,it is important that they accept you in the way you are.love should be in conditionally what so ever.there is no IF for love.
i love you if you know how to play
i love you if you are slim
i love you if
no i love you because i love you,no reason for it
love should be direct
but depend of the culture and what the back ground is and the envirment of the men,well they are different.
for the men of my culture men like mother like nature.
well all the boys want a smart girl unless they want to play around
too short and too tall is consider as how tall and short the boys are
obviously 170cm boys dont go for 175 girls and 196 cm boy doent go for 150cm girls

Answer 16

I like a passive chick that knows when to take charge. Being mysterious, unique and independant. be original and have your own vibe, be confident in who you are. being smart is a huge plus, with no upper limit. Dumb (and particularly, DITZY dumb) girls are an enormous turn off.

physically it can vary, a lot! but generally a slender figure outweighs a thicker figure. athletic over skinny. Super slender is a turnoff, looks frail, diseased & hungry. boob size pretty unimportant, flat chested or anything above a D cup is a no-go though.

Race isn't important to me, but i generally seek out the traits of white females, because I'm white. so if I do like a black, hispanic or asian person, it generally would be one who looked more like a white person. mixed (with white) races generally are more attractive to me.

Girl playing guitar is cool, but not like a nescessity. outgoing is cool to a point.

Answer 17

1. Attitude, Style, Personality
2. 5'7, 6'3
3. outgoing/loud
4. Sporty
5. laughs alot
6.clumsy
7.yes
8.eyes
9.yes
10. doesn't matter
11.yes
12.?????

Answer 18

Well, being a gay woman.

I say its all about the personality. And yeah it would be hot if she played the guitar cos i play and she could teach me a thing or two....

Also, she has got to be loving and not too boring. A little bit of everything/.

Answer 19

1) Well the first good thing i notice about a girl is her smile.
2)I prefer a girl to be shorter than me. I guess it's some masculine thing i have.
3)I like girls to be fun....but the shy ones can also have a crazy side to them.
4)A little of both. I like a girl that can take care of herself and doesn't need me every second of the day, but at the same time i'd like her to be girly too. Like i want to feel needed sometimes.
5)I love it when they laugh
6)Clumsy girls are more like me....so......I prefer a clutz
7)I'd be a lair if i said no. I mean if I date her it's not all based on that, but it does play some factor.
8) Well like I said i love a good smile, but sexually I'm really into breast. I also do love the butt, and the curves on a woman too. The eye isn't something i pay much attention too.
9)Yes with me they must be able to laugh at themselves.
10) Yea I'd like a girl i can have a conversation with other than cloths and gossip
11) It's not a turn off
12) Yea and no. I'd like a girl to want to try and take care of me, but at the same time I don't want her thinking i can't do anything on my own.

Answer 20

The first thing I tend to notice, over general physical attributions, is a girl's eyes. Usually because you can tell so much from just one tiny look, and personality is the most thing me. But on the physical side, my perfect girl would be about 5 ft 7. However, anything between 5 ft 3 to 6 ft is fine.

Well, qualities like these have to come in moderation due to our human need of contrast. However, I do prefer girly to sporty, even though I myself try to stay active. My ideal girlfriend would of course join me in such activities. It's easy to love a girl with a great laugh, but as mentioned before, too much and it loses all meaning. Girls who are clumsy tend to be really cute to us with a nurturing side. Hug.

I really don't care too much about the physical attributes, such as weight, height or general look. But some features, such as the eyes and smile, are important to me. The girl of my dreams must have a somewhat silly side that enjoys the mutual teasing. I don't care too much about smarts as in facts, but she would need a state of awareness about the world. Politics, philosophy- that's is more or less a requirement.

On a personal level, I would not find it attractive if she would be able to play an instrument. But that mostly due to my own lack of musical talent. Though, I probably would if I even so only had a decent singing voice, so we could enjoy her gift together. Most guys search for someone to take their mother's place, but seeing as I'm more of the nurturing type myself, my desire is probably lower than most.