Is he ever to be trusted again?

Question

Shortly after I met him I ended up pregnant. He needed to move back to his hometown and I decided to come with hoping we had a future together. We had been here about 2 years and I found photos of his ex hidden in the shed. I confronted him and told him I thought this was wrong. Well a few months after that I fiqured out his Facebook password and he had sent a message to one girl asking for her number and another saying how hot she was and how he wished he had dated her long ago. Well a few months ago he entered into an Academy in another town so he is gone 4 days a week. 2 weeks ago I saw on our phone bill alot of calls to a number I did not know I asked him face to face and he told me it was a classmates, but I didn't believe him and ran a trace on the number. Well it was not who he said it was when confronted he told me the trace was wrong. Well once again I got into his Facebook there were messages to a girl talking about his feelings for her and how great she is and how he has not been happy for a long time. Well since he was busted he loves me he says and wants only to be with me and yadda yadda yadda. I asked him to delete many of the girls off his Facebook and as of an hour ago he did not. He just adds more, He said he didn't sleep with the girl he messaged only kiss, but all he does is lie to me. To make it worse he is still in that town for 5 more weeks. What should I do?

Answer 1

Leave his butt! Seems like he is shopping around for someone else. Don't be on lay-away!

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Answer 2

i would say

that he is lying and probably he not happy with you
i will recommend you to brake up with him.
forget about him and start a new life.
i mean i know thise sound rude.
but the guy does not seems to be honest with you

it looks that he is not attracted to you and that he is not happy.
he is lying to you.

i would say if you
want to keep hurting yourself
yes stay with him and suffer
but i you don't move on life
you can find better people than him.

i hope this help good luck

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Answer 3

No, he cannot be trusted now or ever. You need to move on. There's no happy future with a guy like this. Don't waste your time.

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Answer 4

Do nothing, move on and find your own Face Book friends.

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Answer 5

Get rid of that excess baggage already. Things will only get worse.

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Answer 6

He can be trusted to keep cheating. Men are not made to be monogamous. BTW men cheat with women, usually married women.

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Answer 7

You had no foundation for a real relationship and you are seeing what happens in situations like that. He is not serious about you. When you got pregnant soon after you met, you threw him into a situation he did not plan for. I can see nothing good coming out of this 'relationship'. You hoped you would have a future with him, but that was not his hope. This has run its course. It is definitely time to move on.

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Answer 8

He sounds incredibly immature and not at all suitable for marriage! You and your baby would be better off on your own than with someone who plays around on facebook and is obviously trying to pick up other women!

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Answer 9

Part ways and raise the child alone. Sound appealing? I didn't think so!

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Answer 10

LEAVE you are better then that.he is a liar and a cheat.i personally wouldnt trust him ever again.

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Answer 11

End the relationship immediately. Dont see him again. Meet someone new on Facebook or elsewhere

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