I am married with a man who is constantly disrespecting me. i have never been with another man before and?

Question

there is another man that would like to have sex with me so i can experience another man. should i do it? i am getting old and i am very afraid of going against the bible. Yes. my husband has done everything in the book to dis respect me for many many years, you name it he has done it. and he is not going to change

Answer 1

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If your having those feelings, your marriage is over anyway. Get a divorce and live your life the way you want.

Answer 2

maybe you should work on yourself and your relationship prior to starting another one, whether sexual or emotional.

Answer 3

Leave your husband first and then start seeing this other man.

Answer 4

Yeah... I wouldn't have sex with him just because he wants to... Trust me I'm a guy and I'd sex most things. Perhaps it would be best if you leave him and try to a find a healthier relationship (Sexual Or Not). Disrespect can be psychological abuse. And Abuse is no good.

Answer 5

Don't cheat on him. Cheating isn't the answer- if you are unhappy, then leave him. If you need another man to satisfy you- then you aren't happy. Old or not, you need to move on. If he isn't respecting you then tell him how things are tell him how you feel, and if he changes- and you become happy again...then stay...but only if you can be faithful. Don't stoop to the level of a cheater, you'd be hurt if he did that to you. Leave his lousy butt

Answer 6

Get divorced first then you can do as you please. plus you will get alimony....maybe

Answer 7

so you are obviously unhappy. i would sleep with the other guy to be honest.its bad but lifes to short to be unhappy. then get a divorce.i would rather live on my own then with someone who doesnt respect me who doesnt make me happy. you may break the wedding vows but so has he for years just in a different way.no where in the vows does it say i will treat you like crap.

Answer 8

If you are trying to justify cheating it's not going to happen with me. Cheating is cheating. If you want to be with another man then file for divorce and do it the right way.

Answer 9

You say your husband has done everything in the book to disrespect you...WHY did you ALLOW him to do so? fornication isn't going to change anything. Only put YOU in the same place as your husband.