The guys I like don't like me back and the ones I don't like want me, Please advice me?

Question

Have you ever saw the movie Becoming Jane with Anne Hathaway, who plays the role of Jane Austen, the English writer who never got married because she couldn't married the one she truly loved.

Well, I feel just like her. I'm 32 years old and never been kissed or had a Boyfriend. I was raised in a religious family and I'm only child. All my life, I've been considered an ugly duckling who was teased up in school. people say I'm not ugly and that I'm pretty, but I know I'm not beautiful and the main reason I feel that way is because all the guys I've liked they have never liked me. They're haven't been handsome guys but those are the ones I liked or feel for. The one I really felt strongly in love with is married and I've suffered because he doesn't love me back not even to considered me as a mistress.

The guys who feel attracted to me are not of my liking. I wish I could find someone who I can feel attracted to and viceversa. Why is this happening? Am I gonna end all alone or should I marry someone I don't feel for just because I don't want to be alone? Please help!

Answer 1

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Your problem is your not sold on YOU !! You don't have confidence and YOU feel your inferior..Your not,,but you feel that way..Therefore, you live your life from that center feeling point..What you need to do is give yourself a make over..Change the way you look,,and upgrade your appearance..Along the way,,you'll begin to feel better about the new you and you'll see changes in your life..Make new friends, and be more even overly friendly with everyone..Confidence is only a state of mind..The most average girls and fellows are no different other than their state of how they perceive themselves !! Join social clubs,,church social groups or even pal up with a couple of girl friends and try the ''club'' circut if there is some in your area !! Don't throw yourself at anyone,,but show interest in anyone you find interesting..Meaningful relationships are grown,,not just fallen into.. Join a fittness group and work up a social atmosphere with new peoples you will meet !! The areas of enjoinment and diversity is only limited to what energy YOU are willing to expend !! Your a young woman with a lot to give and share.. Don't get depressed,,and certainly,,don't give up !! Your new life may be only thirty days away from starting..Lifes a journey,,not a destination ..Enjoy your journey and just let it happen !! You'll love it,,and I guanantee theres that special someone out there FOR you.. NIX,,on ANY MARRIED man.. Your just wasting your time,,and why would you even WANT to be someone's mistress,,and be "USED" Your soo much better than that !! I'm giving you an insight of success from many many years of experience and successful conclusions !!! The only thing you have to lose is your time,,and your lonliness !! I do wish you well,,and success in your new life..And lastly,,YOUR A CATCH,,ANYONE would be lucky and fortunate to be your partner in life..Remember that..And anyone who feels differently than that,,isn't worth your time..Move on to someone else.. SOLOMON

Answer 2

The guys that you like, what kind of girls do they like?
Try to be more like those girls.

You also should try watching some of the movies that those guys watch.