Umm just some advice on high school relationship :) thanks?

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Im a freshman in high school, i recently dated this guy over the summer. we dated for around 2 months. it was fun, we went swimming movies, came over. it was getting pretty serious. he treated me really good! but then all of a sudden, he stopped calling me. stopped texting me. stopped telling me that he cared alot for me.. i knew something was wrong but i was sort of confused. he started saying really mean stuff to me., like really REALLY dis respecting me, and that hurt pretty bad. a day before school started he told me he wanted a break. i asked my sister on what i should do about the situation (shes been dating the same guy for four years) she told me to just ignore the situation and act like i wanted to work everything out. i tried but it was soo hard. on the first day of high school he was walking with his ex girlfriend to his next class. and he was sitting with some friends at lunch and she was sitting there too. that friday i tried to look super hot at the football game because i wanted him to notice me (which you know is bad knowing that were stil freaking dating!)
he wouldnt even talk to me.. and so we were watching the game and my friend took his phone and he was texting my friend adrienne. and the messages were talking about them hanging out at her house and how fun it was.. i was so hurt :( especially since it was one of my super good friends! later that night i asked him if we could talk and i just couldnt hold in all the dramatic emotions and i started crying.. he is like really shy so he didnt even say anything! he just looked at me.. so i told him we should just be friends.
after that it hurt pretty bad seeing him and my old friend sitting at lunch together and stuff.. it made me pretty depressed.
about a couple weeks later my sister was talking about this guy that just recently moved here from colorado. one of my sisters boyfriends friends. and since me and my boyfriend broke up and since he was new then we should just go to homecoming together since we both dont have dates. soo i was jus like whatever. i was cool with it i mean we were jus supposed ot go as friends.
so we figured since we were going to homecoming together we should hang out just to like get to know eachother. he's like suuper rich ;) and he has the nicest car ever ! (hes a junior) and we went out to panda express, and ate lunch then drove to jamba and talked about his old school n stuff. then later we went to my sisters boyfriednds house and watched tv while they went upstairs. i mean he was super cute.. but i wasnt sure if i was ready for a new relationship yet. anyways he plays varsity football so he left and i cheered for him during thaaa game, and after the game we hung out but i had to go home pretty early.
the next day it was like around 8:30
and he texted me and asked if i wanted to hang out.. so he pickedf me up and we went out to dinner at red robin and then a movie after. he walks me to the door.. and gives me a kiss
then the next monday at school he brings me a hot chocolate from starbucks..

he says hes gonna find a cute way to ask me to homecoming and idk it makes me get butterfliess. like im really starting to like him!
my ex boyfriend keeps calling me and telling me he loves me and stuff and he wants me back but i dont even care. this new guy makes me soo happy.!
except im not allowed to date juniors.. :( what do i do?

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Sucks your not allowed to date juniors but he seems like he's a really good guy. I would keep dating him, just keep it on the down low from your parents. He's what like 2 years older then you? That's nothing. To hell with your ex-boyfriend! A lot of guys will see you as theirs even after a break up. It's his ego he wants to know he could still have you and once he proves it to himself he will just hurt you again. He's a dush let him suffer. Give the new guy a fair shot and see where it goes. Good luck!