I need help with a friend please help?

Question

so i have this friend named sarah i have known her about 3 yrs. shes one of those people that think they know everything, they are always right, and they want it there way always. there is so much that i can take from her, so one day me and my friend wanted to go downtown, so i decided to invite sarah with use so i called her to invite her and i told her that we are going to take the yellow line to down town. and then she goes " oh no i dont want to go on that one its electric, i dont like those i want to go on the metra." i told her that we will see. i always have to change things to make her happy because if i dont then we argue about it. so i just do what she wants not to arugue. well i had enough of that. so i txted her saying i am going to take the yellow line and if u dont want to u dont have to go. i am sick of doing what u want to do. she didn't txt me back. For example if i wanted to go to subway she be like no i don't want to go there i want to go to pizza hut. she will argue with me till we go to where she wants to go i feel like i am her little doggy following her wherever she goes. Also one time we went to six flags it was a really hot day and it was Sarah, and i with 2 other friends. so i told her that we can go to the water park to cool off. then she goes no i don't want to go because its dirty with all those people going in. then i told her that me and another friend can go to the pool and one would go with her on the rides then she tells me " No, u cant go to the pool cuz if u do i am going to leave u here" she did that cuz she knew she drove us there and she thinks that she has power over us because of it. oh and i can ask her any random question and she somehow will know the answer to it. she thinks shes smarter then everyone. if u say shes wrong she will get mad. she hasn't txted or talked to me since i txted her that. its been like 3 weeks already. i have been txting her a lot saying that we need to talk. she txted me once saying that she wasnt mad at me but she still hasnt talked to me yet. what do u think i should do?

Additional Details

oh and forgot to mention that she is racist against Mexicans and African Americans. she said she got it from her dad but that's an excuse my dad was one but i am not one.. i am Mexican and she says crap bout Mexicans and it pisses me off.

Answer 1

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Daddy's girl,spoiled brat,self- centered,control freak are what comes to mind.
There is no way to change these people.I know.
I've been there.
The best thing you can do is to not associate with
that person.She is not a friend.She is way too much into herself to be able to be a friend.
If you continue to associate with this person you are just asking for more humiliation and it will be your fault.
Nothing good can come out of this association.
I know from experience.

Answer 2

OK LONG STORY!!!! Your not her slave!!!! You shouldn't be her friend anymore!!! It might be hard at first, I have gone through this before. My friend Kia has a real temper problem!!! It's irritating!!!! Whenever I piss her off she gets all up in my face. I HATE IT!!!! Then she calms down and starts giving me complements when we're not friends anymore!!!! I fell for 2 times and now I finally figured her out!!! She pulls me right back with her!!! Don't follow my path and just END IT!!!! I'm usually a peaceful person, but I just COULDN'T TAKE IT!!!
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!!

Answer 3

why do you even have her as a friend, she is crazy, you must stop hanging with her, she even has you writing this long @ss story about her, dont do anything with her, she has so much control over you, she can make you do anything, thats why you have to end it with her

Answer 4

u know wat
u dont deserve a frnd like her, who treats u like doggy
one who dont care cannot b ur frnd

Answer 5

Ooh jeez,
It sounds like she's a total *****. You should be her friend thn. Sara has no idea or doesn't even knw u that well does she?
I HATE RACISTS!! DNT b her friend. U dnt deserve this at all.
GL Michelle!!