My girlfriend wants to have sex on a daily basis, what can I do to satisfy her without doing it so often?

Question

Alright, I'd like you guys to help me out on a very annoying situation I've been having with my girlfriend for the past couple months. First off, my girlfriend is a sex addict and she wants to do the deed every single day. If I don't please her at least once a day she goes into horrendous pms bi-polar mode and the only way to stop it is to make love. I'm trying to figure out if I'm in the wrong, she's really good at making it seem like that most of the time. Having sex with her on a daily basis makes me not want to have sex with her as often. I've lost all interest in the whole experience because of this. To top it off, she only wants to do it in one position and has no desire to experiment with others. It's beginning to get really old and I shouldn't have to please her so often just to make her happy. It gets to the point where she'll be very irritable and treat me like crap if I don't. Sex just gets old and worn out after awhile once you do it too frequently and she just doesn't understand my point of view. It's not because I'm not attracted to her anymore or anything. Right now I've been in and out of the hospital for pancreatitis and she's still getting angry that I haven't had sex with yesterday because of my severe pain. Yeah I have pain medication right now but I still don't want to risk anymore pain then I've already been having. What do you think I should do to make her understand that she's in the wrong? What can I do to satisfy her without being forced to have sex on a daily basis? Some people just don't want to do it all the time and I'm one of those people. Please help.

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Call me a homo all you want but any straight dude knows that when you have sex with a girl every single day she gets LOOSE. I need Carlos Mencia over here to help these fcktards. DEEdeeDEE

Oh yeah, why would I want to have sex every single day with her when I can barely feel the ridges inside of her anymore?? She's the only one getting the pleasure. All of you downing my question have no sense inside your feeble thought processes, trust me when I say this; you don't want what I've got right now. And yes, I am well endowed.

This may sound very weird to most people but. How do I put this, this girl tells me that the only way she can have a full on orgasm is if I release inside of her, unprotected. So how many of you desperate dudes want her now? Desperate enough to be a daddy? She's all yours. lmao

Anyone who wants to throw hate in my face and say they wish they had what I have. Those people are the ones that no girl will ever want to set their eyes on. You will be alone for the rest of your lives, the only sex you'll be having is the kind with your hand and the tissue box you run out of in under an hour.

Answer 1

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It sounds to me as if your girlfriend is being selfish and a bit abusive. Intimacy and affection aren’t about one person getting what they want at the expense of another. And sleeping with someone when there is no intimacy or affection gets old pretty darn quick, doesn’t it? There is nothing wrong with a person having a strong drive, but not caring about the health and well being of your partner makes it about control, not pleasure. It is up to you to set your boundaries in life, especially when it comes to your physical and emotional well being. If this person is only concerned with their own wants and needs in the relationship, it will start to manifest in other ways, if it hasn’t already. And that could lead to more abusive situations. Is this even someone you want to be with? If so, an honest and straight forward conversation about how put off you are starting to feel might be able to help. If she’s willing to listen, that is. And no matter what she says, your body and your health and well-being are up to you. Never do anything physically that you don’t want to do.

Answer 2

You lucky dog. Why look a gift horse in the mouth. Marriage kills a women's sex drive so just marry her.

Answer 3

Hire a stunt man.

Answer 4

She sounds addicted and in need of some help. I don't know if you want to broach it with her but you probably should. If you would end up marrying her it sounds as though it would not change. It may cost you the relationship but maybe that would not be so bad.

Answer 5

try not being so good at it.

Answer 6

Sex addiction is no different than drugs or boos.Your not helping her and you wont.She needs to see a counciler and or a doctor.She most likely is seeing this as the only way that you cn show her that you love her.Good luck

Answer 7

sounds like you need to talk and come up with another schedule for sex. it is unfair of her to demand it more than you are willing to give it. if the shoe were on the other foot, it would be close to rape.

Answer 8

You got some problem! Every day? She's addicted to the deed and you're not! WOW. I can't see a reasonable solution for you. Just know that in time, she'll cool down. And that's when you'll be looking for it every day. For now, I think you should fulfill her needs. If not, I fear that she might look elsewhere. The sex drive in a sex addict far outweighs logic and other emotions. Go ahead, give it your all. We all dream of being in your situation. Don't let her down and don't let our vicarious frantasy down.

Answer 9

Understand that there are mostly kids in this section, and a lot men aren't going to understand you because they DON'T have sex everyday. It's one of those things you're supposed to want simply for being a guy, but most men don't and do not understand how it can get old.

She sounds like she has problems. If she insists on having sex everyday regardless of your health and in the same position, this doesn't sound normal to me. And after being with the same person for awhile that would get old FOR ANYONE. Honestly, I don't see what you could do because this is her problem, so she has to see that she has one first. You wouldn't give a drug addict more drugs to take care the problem. So by trying to please her, even though she's being completely unreasonable isn't going to fix the problem. There has to be more balance here.

Answer 10

Tell her you need a grace period to recuperate. Go to Hustlers (or any shop) with her and buy some games or toys so you can satisfy her with something other than your penis.

Vibrators are great.

There's also foreplay. You can spend hours doing that without getting too tired or sore.

A few friends of mine have experienced this. It's a very serious thing, but people who can't relate want to call you names for not being able to 'keep up'. I know guys get sore just like girls do. Doing that daily can become routine if it's just too much.

Answer 11

Oral. Or just flat out tell her. If you're not in the mood, you're not in the mood. It has been a woman's defense since time began, use it to your advantage. I think you should just tell her no. If she gets mad, let her get mad! Whatever!