How do u make your guy last longer in the bed room?

Question

Sex be about five minute. I have give him head before sex it don't help. We have try different thing he still come quick. He say it only happen with me.

Answer 1

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Hi Chrissy,

What a great girlfriend you are:-) You've got a difficult problem to deal with, you've talked to him about it, and now you're trying to help solve it. That's fantastic, he's a lucky guy.

There is a possibility that if you two are a. . . err. . . . 'good fit', then it may be that he has a sensitive head. That's ok. It may be that he's really really into you and gets very excited, that's ok too.

There are some things that you can do together which will probably help.

First, he has to recognise when he is getting 'close', all men can feel it, it's a tingling at the base, and everything lifts and tightens slightly. Talk to him about making a scale from one to ten; one meaning soft, and ten meaning "pass the tissues". Spend lots of time playing and moving him from one to five, then let him relax down to about two. Play again until he's at about eight and let him relax again to three or four. Keep playing and moving him up and down the scale until he really really can't hold off any longer. You'll need to practise this for a couple of weeks or more. Over a period of time you will notice that the length of time gets longer. Have fun, turn it into a contest, give him a prize if he beats his own record. Don't forget yourself either, remember, while he's relaxing back down, he could be putting his time to good use by entertaining you. Fair's fair.

The reason this method works is that testosterone, the hormone that drives an er****on is released by the body in waves. As the waves diminish, (not completely, don't worry), the shaft is not quite so engorged by each wave which reduces the amount of blood, which in turn reduces the sensitivity of the head and glands. This will give him the chance to learn to hold back just a little more each time you play, and eventually he'll be able to hold back naturally without really concentrating very hard,

Another method is to exercise the PC muscle similar to a kegel or pelic floor excercise that women do following child birth. The PC muscle is the small muscle under the base and you can feel it pumping when he's at ten. There are lots of guides on the net to explain how to do them. If he's prepared to practise them, they really do work wonders. I know, because I still do mine :-)

Good luck, and have fun.

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Asker's Comment:

Thanks for all the answer but after I told him about it. He don't want have sex or he want to rush. So I don't know what to do.

Answer 2

Well if the sex is good during those 5 minutes then you can't be picky.
Lol.
But if the sex isn't as good as you've had then I would move on..
Shallow, but a girl's got needs too!

Answer 3

Fourplay it always works.

Answer 4

The head part of the p3nis is where the most sensitive and most pleasure part of the penis. I would suggest more practice and go for different areas of the p3nis and f*ck slow(er).

Answer 5

When you give him head does he orgasm? If you're just stimulating him prior to sex without him finishing, that's not going to help. Ask him how long it takes him to get excited again after having an orgasm. Usually it takes much more stimulation for a man to come to orgasm if he's already done it earlier that day, so if you're on board for the second round of sex, you'll have a longer lasting experience.

Answer 6

Do some of the work yourself. Stop for awhile so he can catch his breath. Think of it as somewhat like a boxing match, you know, three minutes and a break of one minute, three minutes and a break for one minute et cetera et cetera et cetera.

Eventually you will get a TKO or Knockout.

Answer 7

Get him to actually look at you and stop thinking about Megan fox!

Answer 8

Just because a guy cums, doesn't mean that the sex is over. If that is all he wanted then he obviously doesn't care about getting you off. If you want to make it last longer, have him do oral on you, or not to go so fast. Pace himself, if he starts to feel himself climaxing, pull out and change positions. Or have him play with your titties. Sex doesn't have to be restricted to just the penis and the vagina. Bring the whole body into the fun and you'll both become satisfied. A good way to work on his stamina is to have sex, when he cums, stop. give him 5 minutes, and then start over again. Make it last a few hours. Over time he will be able to go longer without cumming all the time.

Source(s):

The hour long marathon I just had!!! lol

Answer 9

I don't really know or care. I just would not do a guy that could not last long. I know it's good but you just got to satisfy me too. Bottom line.

Answer 10

well it means he's attractive to you, but a way for a guy to last longer or control himself better in bed could be practiced by this method:
just have intercourse like normal, but when he feels like he's about to ***, he stops moving, then once the feeling is gone, he continues, and once he feels like cumming about make him stop. do this a few time and he'll be able to add on time more quickly. its a method for guys with premature ejaculation, but i dont think it's the case here.

Answer 11

TELL HIM TO BEAT OFF MORE DURING THE DAY

Answer 12

don't give him head

Answer 13

This is a great question.........:)

On the doctors, they said take long strokes so that you don't stimulate the head too much. He should masturbate before you have sex. Then you should tell him to pretend he is trying to poop. ( but DONT poop). Tell him to do male keegles. (Stopping urine flow after it has started)

Sounds crazy, but the source of the info is listed below.

Good luck

Source(s):

thedoctorstv.com-my husband