Ladies with big bums...?

Question

how do you take it when a guy goes on and on about your bum?

Sometimes i enjoy it but then it starts to get annoying, sometimes it makes me think guys dont want me for my looks or personality but just because of my bum shape.

Would you consider it rude when a guy goes on a bout your bum and says how he would love to "beat you from behind"...?

What is your reaction to it?

Additional Details

see what i mean boys dont take anything seriously..

lol sfresh u my babys godfather u gta stay that not the stepfather hehe ;)

wahum CHROME babyy!

btw "wahum" is my shi* way of saying whats happening in patois

ant boogie u r not seeing my booty so therefore the question shall remain worthless lol

Answer 1

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It is totally disrespectful and rude to say that kind of comments all the time. I agree with you!
A sexy comment once in a while is ok, if the person is close to you, otherwise it is completely inappropriate.
yes, the guys around here show what kind of person they are when post that kind of comments too. I'd like to see their reaction if people yell at their moms, sisters, girlfriends that kind of comments in front of them too.

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LOL, all the answers were great but i could really relate to this one thank you :)

Answer 2

Let me preface that I do NOT have a Buffie butt by any means, though my husband would lead me to believe so. He is the ONLY man who has the audacity to say something like that. It's how I carry myself. My demeanor is not one that would invite a stranger to comment on my butt in such a disrespectful manner. I don't find anything really noble or cute about that.

For someone who you don't know well at all to say something like that is extremely rude and it tells me that he doesn't respect you as a lady, just as a sex object.

I'm 32 though so my views on things might be different.

Answer 3

If a guy says he'd love to beat me from behind... I'd find that to be very rude. There's nothing appealing about that. It's actually kind of disgusting.

If it were my boyfriend saying it, OK... But just some random person or even a male associate saying it would rub me the wrong way.

If they want me to want them in return they need to tell me how smart I am or beautiful my smile is. No guy has any chance with me if I don't feel like he likes me for more than my body. I won't entertain anyone who does otherwise.

Answer 4

The minute I see a guy look me up and down I wouldn't care to hear what he has to say to me. It would usually be something that disrespects me, but he's too blinded by his lust and lack of etiquette. I don't mind compliments for being in shape, including my butt, but sexual advances is disrespectful to me if I am not dating them.

Answer 5

yeah girls with big butts in shape is a wow i think we men cant hadle our sexual feeling or whatvever better than girls n girls are more about personality but i dont go around touching or complimentin strager girls buttts ull come off as a perve but i wouldnt mind jus callin one pretty or attractive but not say bout her butt. but i definately beleive ya hav 1 cause i saw one ur avatar pics...

Answer 6

I wouldn't know, my bum is average.

But I would not be flattered by such statements, rude "compliments" are for little boys.

Answer 7

OMG i know! i guy kept asking to squeez mine on his birthday! I told him its somthing that he could only fantisize on lol! just say it somthing you can NEVER have!

Answer 8

I honestly don't care. I consider it a compliment.

Answer 9

i ignore those types of people.
and yeah i would consider that rude, very rude.

Answer 10

LOL U SHOULD BE PROUD.......I LIKE BIG BUTTS AND I CANNOT LIE WHEN A GIRL WALKS IN AND SHES JIGGLING THAT THING U GET SPRUNG :D

Answer 11

*pokes*

Trina got cakes!

Answer 12

I’m usually flattered and sometimes it just makes me laugh.

Answer 13

lol, i'd sacrifice a cute smile for a nice azz sorry just the way i am, i cant help it

Answer 14

Drop it like it's hot YEAAHH WAHOOO!!!!

Answer 15

Don't worry be happy its a great thing trust

Answer 16

Bwoy Trina deya now! wah gwan?

i dont really pay much attention to a females butt since personally most of them i dated had none...


edit: seen mi kno how di ting set...

Answer 17

This question is worthless without pics of the booty in question.

--edit-- no fair