What do you think of this quote?

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"We are healed from suffering only by experiencing it to the full." ~Proust

Did you ever let a sittuation get worse just so that you could be sure you could completely remove your heart from the last moment in one piece?

For one example if your friend said something horrible to you, you kind of push them to say more to be sure that what they said is exact so that you can know the reality about them and be prepared to face it. Or do you think a person who does this is also very wrong as the friend who insulted?

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and yes I asked this in Egypt section for a reason, because I want to know specificly how people from Masr, and others in this section view it. Shukran, and my apoligies for the theme of questions lately if it has annoyed anyone.

@ Lee yeah I think this could be exactly what happened. So does that mean I am just as wrong right? I mean it is a weakness, people should be better all the time? what would you do after?

@ Aussie I think that's not exactly what I mean. I mean that some people even if they felt really hurt would let the moment pass 90 % of the time. But then there is sometimes something so painful that you feel you can't wait and wonder... the situation is el hob keda :)

Answer 1

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Well, he would say anything when I'm angry, Specially if you're pushing him to say it.

And remember, The way you push him to say that makes him make new conclusions and then he'll say things that he doesn't even mean or feel. Just to push you back!!

Q: What are you expecting when you push him?
A: Well, At least he won't just sit down and shut up, He must say something.

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(☞ﾟ∀ﾟ)☞ Common sense!

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k. ty

Answer 2

I don't get your question 100%. But yeah I would do what you said above. Nice quote btw.

Answer 3

kind of complicated question..

Answer 4

Do mean like turn a disagreement into a full blown argument just so that you can be sure you get the point !
Nuh, life is far too short ....there was a popular slogan in the '60s ' make love not war '....it still applies today !

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