My wife recently went into a coma. Should i start to look for someone else?

Question

I've been married for 4 years, and 7 months ago, my wife went into a coma that she may not wake up from. Should I wait and see if she wakes up, or should I move on and find someone else? If I should move on, how long is an acceptable "grieving period" before I can leave her?

Answer 1

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Ask yourself how long you would want your wife to wait for you, had you been the one in a coma. There's your answer.

Answer 2

Not wasting any time, are we? What kinda of insensitve person are you? Don't you want to spend time with your wife during her last days of life?

Answer 3

are you FOR REAL? asshole..

Answer 4

You must be bored. I can tell this is a fake question

Answer 5

you suffer from some serous anti-social disease. it's been less than 24 hours since your wife became comatose and your already contemplating replacing her!!!! the level of some peoples selfishness and self centeredness is baffling to me. you obviously never loved her. being comatose is not permanent for all people.

Answer 6

Why dont you put you imagination to better use and write fairy stories...

Answer 7

dog

Answer 8

My condolences. Times like this can be very trying. Hope slips through your fingers like water in a washbowl. Normally, in a divorce, or separation, one knows that the other doesn't want a renewal of committal. In the case of a coma, you must live with the understanding that your wife, should she awake, will expect to find you by her side as if it were tomorrow, instead of next year. With that in mind, any new commitment you might make to another mate, will always be tainted with the stain of abandonment from this union.

That is a tough place to be. I would suggest you play the field for a while, instead of actively pursuing another mate at this point. If you feel the need to do otherwise, than, file for divorce. Otherwise, use Rosy and her four daughters, or pay for professional services. Get into therapy.

Answer 9

are u freaking serious??

that's really sad :(
wait for her, even if
it takes more than
a year!!!!!!!!

thats really stupid if your
gonna move on to someone
else.......

Answer 10

I say, USE THE PILLOW.

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Answer 11

Did you do anything to contribute to her current state? If so, perhaps you should be looking for a lawyer instead.

Regardless, you should be looking for a lawyer because if she wakes up and finds out about this, she will be kicking your sorry *** to the curb.

Gotta be a fake question but I couldn't help going for the two easy points.

Answer 12

HELLL NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!! YOUR SUPPOSED TO LOVE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 13

I must steal someone else's answer and say ...dog!

Answer 14

no, you shouldn't. and acceptable "grieving period" is when she passes away. don't do anything hasty. you may be sad and lonely but looking to replace her while she is still alive isn't best. she can probably still hear you even though she is in a coma, so go spend time talking to her. dang, i feel bad for her!

Answer 15

your a beast