Meeting guy from internet?

Question

my friend is addamently against meeting strange men on the internet, which is very understandable. But for the past month, I've meet a kool seemingly normal jewish guy from the eastcoast on hotornot. I know dear reader that you will criticize me based on that. And I don't blame you. I would too. I always look forward to chatting with this guy. I love his sense of humor (very diff than my own), and non-sexual display of affection (theres no dirty undertones). We've exchanged pics too.
Fact#1
He Has this t-shirt with an outlined face on it that describes it as Natalie Portman's stalker (ex: blue eyes, 5'8..etc).

Fact#3
on our first chat (he did not send pics then). He said his name was Moshe Bradman. Doing my own research (looking up public records) I figured Bradman was not his true last name. Its actually Goldberg. There was a 25 yr old man who lived in the eastcoast state , Moshe has told me. Then it clicked. there was a listing of other relatives (sisters) which he also told me he had.

Fact#3: the peice struck me as odd, sorry its a little long so bear with.
me.

02 (6:35:09 PM): but I saw last night a movie called good dick...and it was interesting
02 (6:35:15 PM): I'd recommend it
02 (6:35:26 PM): I am recommending it
02 (6:35:27 PM): lol
joux11 (6:36:37 PM): sure its not a...
joux11 (6:36:40 PM): lol
02 (6:36:53 PM): a what?
joux11 (6:37:02 PM): nothing, sounds interesting
joux11 (6:37:07 PM): lol
02 (6:37:11 PM): lol
02 (6:37:19 PM): what? speak up? I can't hear you
joux11 (6:37:43 PM): jerk...
joux11 (6:37:45 PM): lol
02 (6:37:53 PM): lol
02 (6:37:55 PM): thanks
02 (6:37:56 PM):
joux11 (6:38:21 PM): so what compells you to recommended this movie?
joux11 (6:38:45 PM): whats so good about good dick
02 (6:39:27 PM): well, its about a homeless guy who stalks a weird girl and they finally come together
02 (6:39:39 PM): its very different
joux11 (6:40:01 PM): I'll try to stay away from homeless men
02 (6:40:08 PM): lol
02 (6:40:12 PM): you make sure to do that
02 (6:40:27 PM): but keep your eyes open for homeless frogs
02 (6:40:41 PM): they might turn out to be princes
joux11 (6:40:46 PM): I like frogs
02 (6:40:51 PM): lol


*he wants to come over to California in April. Thought of meeting me. At first I thought should I invite him home to meet my family. I know I won't be alone.
Or meet him at a cafe/mall/movies (public place) and bring along my grandpa. He always backs me up. And also take a pocket knife with me just in case? lol.

Please people I need advise. Very good advice

P.S: I'm not a teen (23)

Answer 1

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Honestly this weirds me out a bit.
The stalker talk is just a bit unnerving.
I understand that you are not a child and that you probably have a bit of common sense - but seriously - that weirds me out.
I personally would take a bit more time talking to him online before you consent to meeting him in person. You might not like what you find.
I also realize that text leaves a lot open to interpretation - but all I'm seeing is creepiness between the lines there. Please just use your best judgment and bring someone a bit hardier and able bodied than your grandfather...lol.

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Answer 2

sorry, but I gotta say no. only because I met a guy online and he seems so great at first. we met up and chat. then went out , not on a date. i was trying to get to know him better. but then he hit me, and then he become a *** hole. well we were just friends , meeting people online is not safe, nor- in person. it is so hard to find a good man. but if you do meet him. be careful. if he lie about his mane you don't know if he will lie about something other then his name.

Answer 3

the problem with internet prospects is theres always something their not telling you...think about it they're trying to find some one and start a relationship from the cloak of the internet..Dont we have a tough time enuff meeting ppl face to face..and now the internet skips the presence of a person and they get to tell you what u wanna hear...Id say u have a 10% chance of it going anywhere...