Meeting guy from internet?

Question

my friend is addamently against meeting strange men on the internet, which is very understandable. But for the past month, I've meet a kool seemingly normal jewish guy from the eastcoast on hotornot. I know dear reader that you will criticize me based on that. And I don't blame you. I would too. I always look forward to chatting with this guy. I love his sense of humor (very diff than my own), and non-sexual display of affection (theres no dirty undertones). We've exchanged pics too.
Fact#1
He Has this t-shirt with an outlined face on it that describes it as Natalie Portman's stalker (ex: blue eyes, 5'8..etc).

Fact#3
on our first chat (he did not send pics then). He said his name was Moshe Bradman. Doing my own research (looking up public records) I figured Bradman was not his true last name. Its actually Goldberg. There was a 25 yr old man who lived in the eastcoast state , Moshe has told me. Then it clicked. there was a listing of other relatives (sisters) which he also told me he had.

Fact#3: the peice struck me as odd, sorry its a little long so bear with.
me.

02 (6:35:09 PM): but I saw last night a movie called good dick...and it was interesting
02 (6:35:15 PM): I'd recommend it
02 (6:35:26 PM): I am recommending it
02 (6:35:27 PM): lol
joux11 (6:36:37 PM): sure its not a...
joux11 (6:36:40 PM): lol
02 (6:36:53 PM): a what?
joux11 (6:37:02 PM): nothing, sounds interesting
joux11 (6:37:07 PM): lol
02 (6:37:11 PM): lol
02 (6:37:19 PM): what? speak up? I can't hear you
joux11 (6:37:43 PM): jerk...
joux11 (6:37:45 PM): lol
02 (6:37:53 PM): lol
02 (6:37:55 PM): thanks
02 (6:37:56 PM):
joux11 (6:38:21 PM): so what compells you to recommended this movie?
joux11 (6:38:45 PM): whats so good about good dick
02 (6:39:27 PM): well, its about a homeless guy who stalks a weird girl and they finally come together
02 (6:39:39 PM): its very different
joux11 (6:40:01 PM): I'll try to stay away from homeless men
02 (6:40:08 PM): lol
02 (6:40:12 PM): you make sure to do that
02 (6:40:27 PM): but keep your eyes open for homeless frogs
02 (6:40:41 PM): they might turn out to be princes
joux11 (6:40:46 PM): I like frogs
02 (6:40:51 PM): lol


*he wants to come over to California in April. Thought of meeting me. At first I thought should I invite him home to meet my family. I know I won't be alone.
Or meet him at a cafe/mall/movies (public place) and bring along my grandpa. He always backs me up. And also take a pocket knife with me just in case? lol.

Please people I need advise. Very good advice

P.S: I'm not a teen (23)

Additional Details

maybe I made him sound creepy....idk

Answer 1

Best Answer - Chosen by Voters

i wouldnt talk to a guy from the internet

Answer 2

From experience it doesn't sound like a good idea.
1. In the end you might not like what you see and it will become extremely awkward.
2. He lives in a different place from you anyway
3. Im sure there are plenty other guys that live near you who you are sure arent creepy or have anything wrong with them.

Answer 3

Just by reading this I would say don't meet him. It sounds to me like he's into stalker things and that's never good. That being said I don't think meeting people over the internet is a bad thing. I know I'm going to fly down and hang with a lady I did. We've been talking to each other before I was going to plus I was planning on going down to that area on vacation anyways.