Meeting Guy from the internet?

Question

my friend is addamently against meeting strange men on the internet, which is very understandable. But for the past month, I've meet a kool seemingly normal jewish guy from the eastcoast on hotornot. I know dear reader that you will criticize me based on that. And I don't blame you. I would too. I always look forward to chatting with this guy. I love his sense of humor (very diff than my own), and non-sexual display of affection (theres no dirty undertones). We've exchanged pics too.
Fact#1
He Has this t-shirt with an outlined face on it that describes it as Natalie Portman's stalker (ex: blue eyes, 5'8..etc).

Fact#3
on our first chat (he did not send pics then). He said his name was Moshe Bradman. Doing my own research (looking up public records) I figured Bradman was not his true last name. Its actually Goldberg. There was a 25 yr old man who lived in the eastcoast state , Moshe has told me. Then it clicked. there was a listing of other relatives (sisters) which he also told me he had.

Fact#3: the peice struck me as odd, sorry its a little long so bear with.
me.

02 (6:35:09 PM): but I saw last night a movie called good dick...and it was interesting
02 (6:35:15 PM): I'd recommend it
02 (6:35:26 PM): I am recommending it
02 (6:35:27 PM): lol
joux11 (6:36:37 PM): sure its not a...
joux11 (6:36:40 PM): lol
02 (6:36:53 PM): a what?
joux11 (6:37:02 PM): nothing, sounds interesting
joux11 (6:37:07 PM): lol
02 (6:37:11 PM): lol
02 (6:37:19 PM): what? speak up? I can't hear you
joux11 (6:37:43 PM): jerk...
joux11 (6:37:45 PM): lol
02 (6:37:53 PM): lol
02 (6:37:55 PM): thanks
02 (6:37:56 PM):
joux11 (6:38:21 PM): so what compells you to recommended this movie?
joux11 (6:38:45 PM): whats so good about good dick
02 (6:39:27 PM): well, its about a homeless guy who stalks a weird girl and they finally come together
02 (6:39:39 PM): its very different
joux11 (6:40:01 PM): I'll try to stay away from homeless men
02 (6:40:08 PM): lol
02 (6:40:12 PM): you make sure to do that
02 (6:40:27 PM): but keep your eyes open for homeless frogs
02 (6:40:41 PM): they might turn out to be princes
joux11 (6:40:46 PM): I like frogs
02 (6:40:51 PM): lol


*he wants to come over to California in April. Thought of meeting me. At first I thought should I invite him home to meet my family. I know I won't be alone.
Or meet him at a cafe/mall/movies (public place) and bring along my grandpa. He always backs me up. And also take a pocket knife with me just in case? lol.

Please people I need advise. Very good advice

P.S: I'm not a teen (23)

Answer 1

Best Answer - Chosen by Voters

this is ridiculous....but entertaining

Answer 2

You guys are weird. Don't do it he is either drunk or high

Answer 3

Go to a public place or bring your friend, i had the police number dialed in my phone ready to call just incase.

Answer 4

ooooh scary :( it might be fine but bring grandpa and pocket knife definently!!!!

Answer 5

I know that on the web someone can seem very interesting and/or appealing. My advise is to set the expectation with him. Are you looking for a friend or a relationship? Also, if you do meet him and you're not interested let him know.

Answer 6

Sounds fun

be cautious

Don't get into a serious relationship with him until you meet his family/friends/past girlfriends whatever.
You don't know if he is some sexual predator, or abusive, or just looking for some cash due to little to no income.

You really need to be careful!

that's the best advice I'm giving!