?? i need help with my confidence?

Question

okay well i always get requested by random guys and they start talking to me. they arent really hot tho or cute lol. after they talk to me for like a week they ask me out. and they talk and text me everyday. but i think im really ugly. like my nose. i think its huge, people adn friends say its normal and fits my face but some people say it just f**** everything up. I was thinking to myself. no one with a huge nose is hot? or gorgeous? people say i look like aj michalka. but sark haired. i try to think ill grow and mature and look way way better in highschool.. i hope.

Answer 1

Don't be so insecure. I was that way then I started going to a youth group and i only wanted to go because there was this drop dead gorgeous guy there. I didn't even believe in God until i stopped going and I started dating then i dumped my bf and i was all my life sucks dude so i went to youth group again to try to do the whole God thing. i went to this one conference thing and i still didn't trust God but i believed he was there somewhere.

Anyway, back to the confidence thing, once i found God, He lead me to good things. and at that conference thing, I had 2 guys that were completely into me. and they started fighting over me. I felt so pretty at that moment. But it faded away as soon as i left.
Now all my faith is in God and I trust him more than ever. If you really want confidence, then read the Bible or go to church it completely changed my life. Read Psalm 139:13-18.
even if you don't feel pretty one day, go to the bible or strait to God. He calls you his beloved and his wife even because he is so madly in love with you. and He thinks about you more than all the little grains of sand on this earth.
Jesus will give you confidence.
And about your nose, he made that and he thinks its beautiful. Don't change it for a guy or for more confidece because it will fade away soon.

I hope that helps

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