Like in fairy tells the men are always portrayed as the hero, knight in shining armor, prince charming, etc. Men are strong protectors. The women are usually beautiful, royal, etc. , they are the damsels in distress, the ones needing to be saved/protected they are never mentioned to be smart ,the only ones who are clever are villians and they always fail. So I guess as a child I might think that when I was in trouble that I needed a man (prince charming) to come and save me, also I could have the idea that women with power are evil (Wicked Stepmother - head of household, Evil Queen - mystical power, etc.. all of these women have some sort of power over the weak and beautiful princess/girl). Men are often glorified in fairy tails - the woman is usually just a prize.