I'm 4.5 - 5 inches and less than the average of five inches around. I can honestly tell you that while most would say it's close to average, it is indeed small. My wife confirms this as all of her past bfs were bigger. Individually, not all women are into big ones. But as a group, women will choose a bigger one over a smaller one. My wife says it's just way more intense and satisfying to do it with a bigger one - better to have too much than not enough. Having a small one is frustrating, especially knowing that the last guy and the next guy after me is probably going to be bigger and go deeper and give her more pleasure than I'm equipped to do.