You should be asking this question to your man. He's the one who knows best what makes him happy.
...and come to think of it, are you really sure that he's not happy? or that the relationship is boring and not working? Maybe you're just projecting your feelings on him, and you're the one who's not happy. With relationships, especially marriage, communication is VERY important. You'll be better off talking to your husband than spending time on a website that's about to be forcibly bought by Microsoft.
