Check out this website -
http://www.favorideas.com/wedding-themes…
and
http://members.cruzio.com/~vesica/pirate…
and
http://offbeatbride.com/2007/11/pirate-w…
There are a lot of brides there who have been listing their Pirate weddings!
I have a good friend who is also having a Pirate wedding. It's in a rustic castle place by a lake. There will be sword play, and a trio hired from the Ren Fest as enterainers to play. They have a Pirate Ship cake, and a pirate figurine beside it as a topper. For favors they are having buttons made with skull & crossbones & their wedding day, also they have pirate mints -
http://www.centurynovelty.com/detail_266…
Lots of Captain Morgan's, of course, and Rum Balls!
Centerpieces are treasure chests with jewels and stuff -
http://www.orientaltrading.com/applicati…
Their clothes are really great - they are BOTH dressing as Pirates - clothes from a great website -
http://www.verymerryseamstress.com/pirat…
I think that they are going to be pretty successful in getting everyone to dress up too - even their parents. Lots of folks are pretty excited already about it.
Do be sure to have extra Pirate hats, bandannas & eye-patches on the tables - that way the "pirate-impaired" can join in the fun.
Yo Ho, matey & sail on!