Dear "miss_spunderella":
Well, losing one's home is no joke. Coming to Yahoo Answers means you'll have to take ALL advice, especially mine, with a large grain of NaCl.
As, I understand the gist, you're behind in your mortgage payments and are at risk of foreclosure. Did you get a foreclosure notice from the lender? You need an attorney, a cpa, and a counselor to help you get thru this.
Assuming, a big assumption, that you hit a temporary bump in the road, and can NOW afford your payments. Your lawyer can help you get straight with the lender. No lender WANTS to foreclose. You may have legal rights to slow the process down and make it attractive to the lender to "cooperate". Your accountant can help you understand what goes in, what goes out, and get you organized to avoid this in the future. A counsellor can help you with the emotional roller coaster thru the processes. Your local social service agency may be able to help you with a grant or loan to keep you from getting throw out on the street and being homeless.
Assuming, again big assumption, that you just need some interim financing, say to overcome some unemployment, I'd aim you at your local bank, a credit union (the website to find a local one is below), and the PROSPER website (i.e., they mediate people to people loans; website below).
Hope this helps. I'm interested how it works out for you. Drop me a note sometime. My blog may have helpful "stuff".
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