Male stripper and the bachelorette party......?

Question

men sometimes cheat at the bachelor party with a female stripper, this i know.....does the same happen with women at a bachelorette party with a male stripper? when i say cheat i dont mean lapdance but like 0ral stuff and even more. i never had a bachelorette party, i was married for almost 2 years, and iam wondering this question for a personal reason dealing with my girlfriend.

Answer 1

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Yes, in fact in Yahoo Answers! a nurse was engaged to a doctor, cheated with a male stripper at her bachelorette party. She was drinking and claimed she gave in to peer pressure from her cheering party-goers. Some of her fellow co-workers ratted her out as it was occurring. She got dumped and he refused to take her back. And this guy was the man of her dreams: male model looks, money, and a great friend. He made her return the expensive car he bought for her. In her Yahoo queston she was moaning on what she should do to get him back.

I think bachelorette parties are STUUUUPID. It is just a bunch of women trying to act like men. Is this a double standard? YEP.....it is. But people that ignore cultural double-standards do so at their own peril. Let guys act like idiots at their male bonding party. If they cross the line, then they should pay the price. Your friend should have a feminine get together....

Answer 2

I've only been to one party with a stripper and he wasn't very cute so I don't think anyone wanted any of that. I dunno. I hate strippers for parties like that. It's just asking for trouble.

Answer 3

Anything is possible especially if the drinks are flowing like a stream. What are friends for? They should be the ones to tell the bachelorette or bachelor that he or she is already going over board. If you are surrounded by irresponsible friends, expect the worst. In fact, the friends should avoid organizing such parties. It is not a good way to start your new life.

Answer 4

Hate to let you down, but a good deal of male strippers are in fact gay. Great bunch of guys though, but still not interested in women.

Source(s):

I did security at a club with sections for both men and women

Answer 5

Depends on the bachelor or bachelorette, but hey... how can you not say that you didn't have one last fling.

Answer 6

Bachelorette parties are trashy, or I should say, can be trashy when strippers are involved.

Do people read the answers some people give on here? You have one group that says it's perfectly normal to have one last fling before the wedding night. It is? So you are allowed to act like a tramp and it's perfectly ok? No repercussions? Then you have others that say men look silly in g-strings (which I agree with) but say they go for laughs. Well then why go? Sounds like a grand waste of money to me! Then you have some that say it's great to go and get All horny so when you go home you can have great sex with your partner. Why would that make the partner feel good? You went out and got all turned on and excited by someone other than the person you supposedly love and are now just using them to get off?

The whole idea of strippers for men and women at their respective bachelor/bachelorette parties is a terrible one. Be excited and get turned on by the man/woman you are marrying. You have to grow up one of these days.

Answer 7

I don't think that bachelor/bachelorette parties are such a good way to start a marriage. Honestly, why would someone start off a marriage by getting turned on by someone other than his/her intended? I don't want a bachelorette party, and my guy thinks bachelor parties are trashy. We agree: it is no way to start a marriage by looking at someone naked who you are not going to be marrying.

Answer 8

ok, first of all, men in a g-string are not sexy, neither is a man who is all shaved and oiled up like a girl. if she is going to cheat, she will no matter if its the party or not, better to find out if she is this way now, before the wedding.

Answer 9

LOL at josie...omg...yeah guys in g-strings actually makes me wanna vomit and never see a male brief/thong/g-string again

Answer 10

not that i've ever heard of, male strippers are more of a laugh than anything and it definitely isn't a turn on. have u seen a man in a g-string before? you guys arent the sexiest creatures on earth!

Answer 11

I've known 2 women who have cheated at the bachelorette, and know no men who have(although I don't know the guy that married one of the women who cheated, but supposedly he cheats too)
It's pretty common, but if you're worried about someone cheating on you, you shouldn't have gotten married because it always happens, even if it wasn't at the bachelorette party. I've seen it in all my friends marriages and my ex was a cheater.

Answer 12

Hey whatever floats your boat, don't know, don't tell.

Answer 13

It is possible. Does having a bachelor/bacheloretter party automatically mean cheating. Of course not. Does it happen? Of course. Did your g/f cheat. Maybe but why do you need to know?