How to tell if your best friend is gay or not.?

Question

Hi, i want to know if my best friend is gay or not. He is ur average young 17yr old male, good looking , good body, good clothes style an persona;lity. he always ses how at partys he wnts to hook up with hot chiks, and checks them out infront of our frends. then other times when our frends are hanging out he will hug us touch us and stuff, he rubs our legs and slaps our arses and goes to touch our *****, and grab, in movies he does the same. wen he stays at my house he sleeps in my bed in his under wear and acts wierd,

is he gay or bi or straight?

please respiond, thanks frank.

Answer 1

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Well, you could see if his name is in the "All the Gay Men of [Name of your Country]" - they will have a copy in the local library.

Or, you could ask him.
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Answer 2

You don't "tell" if he is gay, You "ask" if he is gay.
Rather simple. If he is your friend then you need to understand that he may be a tad upset with your question if you haven't led up to it with a little tact. OK?

What you don't say is if you are gay. And if he is sleeping in your bed with you, even in his tiddy whiteies and acts wierd, you don't say if you object.

Sounds to me like I need to go back to bed.

Strange person asking strange questions on a Sunday morning. OUCH!! I need a cup of coffee. This is going to be a long day.

Answer 3

This is a hard question as there is so much going on with a young male. Str8, bi, or gay? If he doesn't want you to know you won't know. It is possible that he doesn't know for sure yet. Some guys know very young and others it is much later. Are you gay? Does he know that you are gay? Have you told him? If he knows and sleeps with you and acts a little bit weird he just might be trying to tell you that he is gay? Why not find a nice quiet moment and talk serious with him and just come out and ask him, don't accuse him, and don't be offended by what he says after all you have been friends for a long time and that shouldn't change. If he says yes that he is gay and you are not what is the difference? He was your friend yesterday and should be exactly the same tomorrow.

Answer 4

Sounds like your living in a fantasy world. He's straight all that touchy stuff - in your head... but kiss him, if your conscious after word and not bleeding you got your self a man!

Answer 5

If he tell you then you'll know, unless he makes a more substantial pass at you....

Answer 6

Ask him if he wants some special kisses. If he is straight he will be repulsed. If gay he will welcome it.

Answer 7

Let things go, if he's your friend and no one is geting hurt, accept him as your friend, who knows it might help you understand things you may be going through