Why on earth should you feel it necessary to spend good money on feeding other people. The money you spend on food and drink could pay for you both to go on a honeymoon holiday. I know it sounds a bit ungrateful but in this day and age you have to save up as much money as you can. If on the other hand you can afford it then a buffet is quite acceptable and a glass of sherry at the door. 4 bottles of Whiskey, Vodka and gin. along with two or three dozen can's should set the party off to a good start, chicken drumsticks seem a good idea along with Ham, turkey,cheese and cheese and onion, and anything else you wish to add about 25 plates of good size should be more than enough.