How do women feel about guys with disabilities?

Question

Would they just not date a guy in a wheel chair? Or why do they find it hard to even look at them? Say they were a football player and had lots of dates and women but after war came home to be cripled. Now he is sub-human? How do you honestly feel about them? A lot of vets are coming home that way.

Answer 1

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I read some of your other answers and questions. So maybe I am getting some idea of your situation. Hope you don't mind and that your are interested in religion. For me that would not be a problem if he was a southern gentleman. Read that to.
Also would like to point out that in the future, everyone will be made well again. In God's new order or when the earth is free of wicked people Psalms 37:9, 10,11
The bible says that he will wipe out all the tears from our eyes from past experiences.Rev. 21:4
Jesus will cure all disabilities and the lame one will leap like the stag. So in the new order or cleansed earth is a more correct term. We will all have perfect health. I look forward to meeting you. But in answer to your question does it bother me to see a man in a wheel chair? NO! Maybe he would be more humble and appreciate a women more.

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Hi, your right maybe now I would appreciate a women more than before. Love a southern gal.

Answer 2

No, they are definitely not sub-human. I think as a culture we don't really know how to handle people that have a disability. We try to not make an issue of it, and it turns out that looks like you are avoiding them. I don't have any problem with men in a wheelchair. And I hope this doesn't offend anyone, but I would actually find them less intimidating than other guys. You did ask for honesty...

Answer 3

Speaking about myself personally, it honestly would not matter to me. I look to a persons heart, besides just because you may have a disability does not mean you can't still be hot!!

Answer 4

It isn't legs that work that make a man, it's what is on the inside. I know that must sound bogus, but rest assured this is how I truly look at it. I personally know 3 men in wheel chairs (for various reasons) and each was blessed with love, marriage and 2 of them also have children (biologicall children at that). So for me, I really don't see the chair, braces, or whatever else they may have.

Answer 5

For me its not about looks, how much money he makes,
or what he drives...even if it is a wheel chair. I always look
for the person inside. That is the most important thing to me.