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What is masterbution?

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Masturbation can be defined as self-stimulation to cause sexual sensations. The use of the word masturbation usually suggests that the person is manipulating his or her genitals to the point of intense pleasure or orgasm. (Orgasm refers to a period of intense excitement in which genital muscles enter in to a series of highly-pleasurable contractions or movements).
While masturbation can involve another person, most of us think of it as a very private act. According to some health care providers masturbation allows a healthy way to express & explore your sexuality and to release sexual tension without all the associated risks of sexual intercourse. Health professionals generally agree that this private touching is a natural, normal mode of self-exploration and sexual expression. Unfortunately, after the excitement of the moment has passed, many people find themselves filled with guilty and or shame.

Why all this guilt and shame? Actually, from American History.

A little bit of American History:
Our attitudes about masturbation have deep roots for sure. Around the turn-of-the-century, some adults were so against masturbation that they forced their daughters to wear gloves made of a steel-wool-like material (like Brillo pads) at night and to put a powder on their genitals that made them painful to touch. They made their sons wear metal chastity belts at night that made it painful to have an erection. During the 1820s male masturbation was prevented by piecing the foreskin with a wire and soldering the ends together. Boys and girls were discouraged from masturbation by the threat of blindness, madness and illness. Of course, all of these are not true.

Of course, the subject of masturbation was taboo years before the United States was created. All kinds of chastity belts and other devices were used to prevent masturbation, probably as far back in history as you can go. This will vary from culture to culture.

The Truth?
Most surveys suggest that approximately 94% of teenage males "admitted" that they masturbated and about 70% of teen females "admitted" to this also. It’s always hard to establish absolute truth in any survey on sexuality and sexual behavior, since they are influenced so much by what people think is "normal". It is important to note the word "admitted" in the results of these surveys. Doesn't that word imply something shameful about the act of masturbating? We think so. This leads us to believe that we are still suffering from the residual Victorian morals when boys and girls were discouraged from masturbating.

Teaching Masturbation -- you asked? Yes, Believe it or Not!

In the 1970's and 1980's, a woman named Betty Dodson,Ph.D., achieved much fame from her approach to masturbation. She actually held classes for women to teach them how to masturbate. She thought that in order for women to overcome certain degrees of repression that she believed were instilled by the church, women needed to learn how to "celebrate" their bodies. She made the point that masturbation needed to be celebrated, and not allowed to create guilt. She admitted that overcoming guilt was very difficult -- for men & women, especially when the guilt was instilled by the voice of their mothers at an early age. Mother's told children not to touch themselves "down there" and wow, what an embarrassment if the child did that in public!

For many people the consequence of our mothers' or fathers' difficulty with our innocent sexuality when we were toddlers and infants may be the reason that the experience and enjoyment of our own bodies is taken away from us, or we are still allowed (made) to feel ashamed in some way when we feel pleasure from exploring our own bodies.

Even More Taboo...
In 1994 Dr. Jocelyn Elders - the first woman appointed to the position of U.S. Surgeon General lost her job as Surgeon General because she dared to say that masturbation should actually be taught in schools. We think her mistake was when she said, "It's practicing for sex" . She never implied that a method of masturbation be taught... or did she?

Masturbation Myths -- There Are Lots More of Course.

"Masturbation isn't "real sex" and only losers masturbate."
Just not true. According to some sexuality experts people who masturbate tend to function better sexually when with a partner since they know their own body and have fulfilled sexual expression.

If you masturbate you will go blind or bald or get acne or hair on your hands -- or lots of other anomalies. None of these have any basis in truth.

People in relationships or married don't masturbate.

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  • Achman by Achman
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    dont know. is your spelling correct?
  • maria32greece by maria32g...
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    when u try to satisfy ur sexual needs on ur own!
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  • zowie by zowie
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    ask ur b/f ,g/f
  • nique2107 by nique210...
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    When you give yourself pleasure

    Please Make This Your Best Answer!
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  • Tuna-San by Tuna-San
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    Masturbation is when a person uses physical methods to stimulate his or her or someone else's genitals, usually to the point where the person is sexually aroused, or reaches a climax.

    Most of the time, masturbation refers to stimulating one's own genitals for sexual pleasure.

    Some forms of masturbation can include other sexual behavior, like exhibitionism (masturbating for others to see) or sexual fantasy (eg. imagining having sex with someone you find appealing).
  • Precious S by Precious S
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    Look it up.
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  • Kristy C by Kristy C
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    I AM NOT SURE WHAT "MASTERBUTION" IS, BUT MASTURBATION IS WHAT YOU DO WHEN YOU TOUCH YOURSELF FOR PERSONAL PLEASURE.
  • lostjakelost by lostjake...
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    masturbation is self pleasure for female they stimulate there Virgina with there finger or a dildo and a male they jerk off for pleasure
  • perrydog by perrydog
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    in the dictionary
    definison1- learn to spell to kind of words
    definison 2-rubing ur taliwacker until it gets hard
  • MULATO by MULATO
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    It's the ACT of PLEASURING ur SEXUAL needs by YOURSELF without the need of a PARTNER, with the HELP or without TOYS !
    Men do it different than women, but the end result is the same,ORGASM !
    Men, imagine/think or look at women naked pictures or a naked act , Porn movie to stimulate give them the Penis erection ,then they rub it up-down with their hand, till ejaculation.
    Women ,either insert or not a vibrator/dildo ,in their vag*na & rub their Clit , untill they Climax.
    For men it's called ejaculation because sperm comes out.
    For women it's called Climax because she only gets the feeling, as men without anything coming out of her vag*na.
  • kuttu the great by kuttu the great
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    hi
    i dont know how old r u ?
    it is a method by which u can get a heavenly sexual pleasure!
    if u r a girl insert ur finger(s) in to ur pussy and shake it.....
    if u get a feeling ,reply immediately............ok
    @kuttu the great..
  • itsme by itsme
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    ask your mommy or daddy

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    dictionary will work
  • Dr Dee by Dr Dee
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    ask your mother
  • halosfan2003 by halosfan...
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    Masterbution? - Don't know.

    Masturbation - sexual self gratification.
  • not_prfikt by not_prfi...
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    How old are you? If you really don't know, you are either too young or too dumb to know.
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  •  by
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    I don't know, but it sure sounds a lot like masturbation.
  • efel by efel
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    Come, I'll show you...

    Meet me here:-

    gandalfan@operamail.com
  • cjett63 by cjett63
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    Isent it pass your bed time.
  • ? by ?
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    sex with yourself is safe sex
  • crishbk by crishbk
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    when a person rubs their genitals for pleasure.
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  • Maimee by Maimee
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    start paying attention in school and good night lil one!
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  • puertoricout by puertori...
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    focus on spelling in school first, it means playing with your private parts.
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  • √ÜĽТŨЯЗ by √ÜĽТŨЯЗ
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    #1.) learn to spell.

    #2.) MASTERBATION: Masturbation is the manual excitation of the sexual organs, most often to the point of orgasm. It can refer to excitation either by oneself or by another (see mutual masturbation). It is part of a larger set of activities known as autoeroticism (also. Autoerotic Response), which also includes the use of sex toys and non-genital stimulation. There are also masturbation machines used to simulate intercourse. Masturbation and sexual intercourse are the two most common sexual practices, but they are not mutually exclusive (for example, many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic). Some people are able to achieve orgasm only through masturbation and not sexual intercourse. In the animal kingdom, masturbation has been observed in many mammalian species, both in the wild and in captivity. (Even has pictures.)
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masterbatio…
  • Cassandra by Cassandr...
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    It is properly spelled masturbation. It is when a person feels themself in a sexually way. Jakes off, fingerbang, etc.

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    Try it.
  • rosary by rosary
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    self gratifying self sexually through any means
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  • ? by ?
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    its masturbation,and its done to excite the sexual ogans until orgasm, at least for normal people
    • 1 person rated this as good
  • aint I beautiful by aint I beautiful
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    how old r u?????????
  • K G by K G
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    Do you mean masterbation? If you did then well its when you decide that your horny and don't need a man or don't have a man and "pleasure" yourself sexually.....all by yo'self.
  • yukmouth by yukmouth
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    is that you john wayne is this me

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